[Machine] I entered upon Umm Imama, the servant of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and she said, "I was once pouring water onto his (the Prophet's) hands while he was performing ablution when a man entered and said, 'O Messenger of Allah, I want to return to my family, so give me some advice that I can hold on to.' He (the Prophet) said, 'Do not associate anything with Allah, even if you are cut into pieces and burned in fire. Do not disobey your parents, even if they command you to leave your family and worldly possessions behind, so obey them and do not neglect intentionally performing prayers, for whoever intentionally neglects it has no guarantee from Allah the Almighty or from His Messenger ﷺ . Do not consume alcohol, as it is the root of every sin. Do not exceed limits in your boundaries, for you will come on the Day of Resurrection with the weight of seven earths on your neck. Do not flee on the day of battle, for whoever flees on that day has earned the wrath of Allah, and his abode will be Hellfire, and what an evil destination it is. Spend on your family according to your means, and do not raise your stick (to harm them) and hide them from Allah the Almighty.'" According to the transmitted chain.  

دَخَلْتُ عَلَى أُمَيْمَةَ مَوْلَاةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَتْ كُنْتُ يَوْمًا أُفْرِغُ عَلَى يَدَيْهِ وَهُوَ يَتَوَضَّأُ إِذْ دَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنِّي أُرِيدُ الرُّجُوعَ إِلَى أَهْلِي فَأَوْصِنِي بِوَصِيَّةٍ أَحْفَظْهَا فَقَالَ «لَا تُشْرِكَنَّ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَإِنْ قُطِّعْتَ وَحُرِّقْتَ بِالنَّارِ وَلَا تَعْصِيَنَّ وَالِدَيْكَ وَإِنْ أَمَرَاكَ أَنْ تُخَلِّيَ مِنْ أَهْلِكَ وَدُنْيَاكَ فَتَخَلَّ وَلَا تَتْرُكْ صَلَاةً مُتَعَمِّدًا فَمَنْ تَرَكَهَا مُتَعَمِّدًا بَرِئَتْ مِنْهُ ذِمَّةُ اللَّهِ ﷻ وَذِمَّةُ رَسُولِهِ ﷺ وَلَا تَشْرَبَنَّ الْخَمْرَ فَإِنَّهَا رَأْسُ كُلِّ خَطِيئَةٍ وَلَا تَزْدَدْ فِي تُخُومٍ فَإِنَّكَ تَأْتِي يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَعَلَى عُنُقِكَ مِقْدَارُ سَبْعِ أَرَضِينَ وَلَا تَفِرَّنَّ يَوْمَ الزَّحْفِ فَإِنَّهُ مَنْ فَرَّ يَوْمَ الزَّحْفِ فَقَدْ بَاءَ بِغَضَبٍ مِنَ اللَّهِ وَمَأْوَاهُ جَهَنَّمُ وَبِئْسَ الْمَصِيرُ وَأَنْفِقْ عَلَى أَهْلِكَ مِنْ طَوْلِكَ وَلَا تَرْفَعْ عَصَاكَ عَنْهُمْ وَأَخِفْهُمْ فِي اللَّهِ ﷻ» سنده واه