[AI] Among the captives on the day of Badr was Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi ibn Abd al-Uzza ibn Abd Shams, the son-in-law of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and the husband of his daughter Zaynab. Abu al-As was one of the notable men of Mecca in wealth and trustworthiness. He belonged to Halah bint Khuwaylid, and Khadijah was his maternal aunt. Khadijah asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to marry Zaynab to him, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would not oppose her; that was before revelation came down upon him. She regarded him as being in the place of her own child. When Allah honored His Prophet with prophethood, Khadijah and his daughters believed in him, affirmed him, bore witness that what he had brought was the truth, and followed his religion, while Abu al-As remained firm upon his polytheism.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ had married Utbah ibn Abi Lahab to one of his two daughters, Ruqayyah or Umm Kulthum. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ openly confronted Quraysh with the command of Allah and they openly opposed him, they said: You have relieved Muhammad of his concern, so return his daughters to him and occupy him with them. They went to Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi and said: Separate from your wife, and we will marry you to any woman you wish. He said: No, by Allah, then I will not separate from my wife, and I would not love to have, in place of my wife, any woman of Quraysh. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to praise him favorably regarding his relation by marriage, as it has reached me. They then went to the wicked Utbah ibn Abi Lahab and said: Divorce your wife, the daughter of Muhammad, and we will marry you to any woman of Quraysh you wish. He said: If you marry me to the daughter of Aban ibn Said ibn al-As, or the daughter of Said ibn al-As, I will separate from her. So they married him to the daughter of Said ibn al-As, and he separated from her, though the enemy of Allah had not consummated the marriage with her. Allah removed her from his hand as an honor for her and a humiliation for him, and Uthman ibn Affan married her after him.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ, while in Mecca, was not able to declare lawful or unlawful, being overcome in his affair. Islam had already separated Zaynab, daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, when she became Muslim, from Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi, except that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was not able to separate them. So she remained with him upon her Islam while he remained upon his polytheism, until the Messenger of Allah ﷺ migrated to Medina, while she was still living with him in Mecca. When Quraysh marched to Badr, Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi marched among them, and he was taken among the captives on the day of Badr, and he was in Medina with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Ibn Ishaq said: Yahya ibn Abbad ibn Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr narrated to me, from his father Abbad ibn Abdullah ibn al-Zubayr, from Aishah, the wife of the Prophet ﷺ, who said: When the people of Mecca sent for the ransom of their captives, Zaynab, daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, sent ransom for Abu al-As, and with it she sent a necklace of hers which Khadijah had given to her when she was brought in to Abu al-As at the time he consummated the marriage with her. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saw it, he felt intense tenderness for her, and said: "If you think it proper to release her captive for her and return her property to her, then do so." They said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah. So they released him and returned to her what belonged to her.
He said: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ had taken from him and made him promise that he would clear the way for Zaynab to come to him, as this was among the conditions he imposed upon him for his release. That was not made public by him nor by the Messenger of Allah ﷺ so that it would be known. But when Abu al-As left for Mecca and his way was clear, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent Zayd ibn Harithah and a man of the Ansar immediately, and said: "Be at the valley of Yajij until Zaynab passes by you, then accompany her until you bring her to me." So they went out to their place, and that was a month after Badr, or thereabouts. When Abu al-As arrived in Mecca, he ordered her to join her father, and she went out openly.
Ibn Ishaq said: Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr ibn Muhammad ibn Amr ibn Hazm said: I was told from Zaynab that she said: While I was preparing in Mecca to join my father, Hind bint Utbah met me and said: O daughter of my uncle, if you need any goods that would help you on your journey, or money by which you may reach your father, then I have what you need, so do not hold back from me, for what enters between men does not enter between women. She said: By Allah, I do not think she said that except intending to do it, but I feared her, so I denied that I intended such a thing. Then I prepared myself. When I finished my preparations, my brother-in-law Kinanah ibn al-Rabi, my husband’s brother, brought me a camel, so I mounted it. He took his bow and his quiver, then went out with her by day, leading her while she was in her howdah. The men of Quraysh spoke of that, so they went out in pursuit of her until they caught up with her at Dhu Tuwa. The first to reach her was Habbar ibn al-Aswad ibn al-Muttalib ibn Asad ibn Abd al-Uzza ibn Qusayy, and Nafi ibn Abd al-Qays al-Zuhri at Qaynah of Banu Abi Ubaydah ibn Utbah ibn Nafi, the one in Ifriqiyyah. Habbar frightened her with the spear while she was in her howdah, and the woman was pregnant, as they claim; when she was terrified, she miscarried what was in her womb. Her brother-in-law dismounted and scattered his quiver, then said: By Allah, no man will come near me but that I will put an arrow into him. So the people drew back from him. Abu Sufyan came among the chiefs of Quraysh and said: O man, hold back your arrows from us so that we may speak to you. So he held back, and Abu Sufyan approached and addressed him, saying: You have not acted correctly. You went out with a woman openly before the people, while you know our calamity and disaster, and what has come upon us from Muhammad. If his daughter goes out to him openly from among us, the people will think that this is due to humiliation that befell us because of our calamity that occurred, and that it is weakness and feebleness on our part. By my life, we have no need to detain her from her father, but return the woman until the talk dies down and the people say that we have turned her back; then take her out secretly and send her to her father. He said: So he did so, and she stayed for several nights until, when the people had quieted down, he took her out at night until he handed her over to Zayd ibn Harithah and his companion, and they brought her to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.
Abu al-As remained in Mecca, while Zaynab was with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ; Islam had separated the two of them. Then, shortly before the conquest, Abu al-As went out as a merchant to Syria. He was a trustworthy man, carrying property of his own and property belonging to men of Quraysh who had entrusted merchandise to him. When he finished his trade, he returned with the caravan, and a detachment of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ met him. They captured what was with him, while he escaped them in flight. When the detachment arrived with what they had captured of his property, Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi came under cover of night until he entered upon Zaynab, daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and sought her protection, so she granted him protection; he had come seeking his property. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ came out for the morning prayer, as Yazid ibn Ruman narrated to me, he pronounced the takbir and the people pronounced the takbir. Zaynab came out from the women’s section and said: O people, I have granted protection to Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ gave salams from the prayer, he turned to the people and said: "O people, did you hear?" They said: Yes. He said: "Indeed, by the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, I knew nothing of anything that had happened until I heard it; and indeed the least of the Muslims may grant protection on behalf of them." Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ departed until he entered upon his daughter and said: "O my little daughter, honor his lodging, but do not let him have access to you, for you are not lawful for him."
Ibn Ishaq said: Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr narrated to me that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent to the detachment who had seized the property of Abu al-As ibn al-Rabi: "This man is one of us, as you know, and you have seized property belonging to him. If you do good and return to him what is his, then we would love that; but if you refuse, then it is the fay of Allah which He has granted you, and you have the greater right to it." They said: O Messenger of Allah, rather, we will return it. So they returned his property to him, until a man would bring a rope, another man would bring an old waterskin and a small waterskin, and one of them would even bring a pack peg, until, when they had returned all of his property to him and he was missing nothing from it, he carried it to Mecca. He returned to every owner of property among Quraysh his property, from those who had entrusted merchandise to him. Then he said: O assembly of Quraysh, is there any property of yours still with me that he has not taken? They said: No, and may Allah reward you with good, for we have found you to be chaste and noble. He said: Then I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and that Muhammad is His servant and His messenger. By Allah, nothing prevented me from accepting Islam with him except fear that you would think I only wanted to consume your wealth. But now that Allah has delivered it to you and I am free of it, I have accepted Islam. Then he set out until he came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ.