39. Marriage
٣٩۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ
[Machine] A man from the companions of the Prophet ﷺ said, "If the Messenger of Allah ﷺ had died, I would have married Aishah or Umm Salamah." Then Allah revealed, "And it is not for you to cause hurt to the Messenger of Allah, nor that you should ever marry his wives after him. Indeed, that would be a great sin in the sight of Allah" (Quran 33:53). Sulaiman said, "I have not heard Sufyan narrating it except with the addition of two mahr (dowry)."
قَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ لَوْ قَدْ مَاتَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَتَزَوَّجْتُ عَائِشَةَ أَوْ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ ﷻ {وَمَا كَانَ لَكُمْ أَنْ تُؤْذُوا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَلَا أَنْ تَنْكِحُوا أَزْوَاجَهُ مِنْ بَعْدِهِ أَبَدًا إِنَّ ذَلِكُمْ كَانَ عِنْدَ اللهِ عَظِيمًا} [الأحزاب 53] قَالَ سُلَيْمَانُ لَمْ يَرْوِهِ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ إِلَّا مِهْرَانُ
[Machine] Umair bin Al-Khattab passed by a young boy who was reading in the Quran, "The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves, and his wives are their mothers" (Surah Al-Ahzab, verse 6). Umair asked the boy what he was reading, and he replied, "This is my father's copy of the Quran." Umair went to his father and asked him about it. His father said, "The Quran used to occupy me, and it has occupied you with the marketplace transactions."
مَرَّ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ بِغُلَامٍ وَهُوَ يَقْرَأُ فِي الْمُصْحَفِ {النَّبِيُّ أَوْلَى بِالْمُؤْمِنِينَ مِنْ أَنْفُسِهِمْ وَأَزْوَاجُهُ أُمَّهَاتُهُمْ} [الأحزاب 6] وَهُوَ أَبٌ لَهُمْ فَقَالَ يَا غُلَامُ حُكَّهَا قَالَ هَذَا مُصْحَفُ أَبِي فَذَهَبَ إِلَيْهِ فَسَأَلَهُ فَقَالَ إِنَّهُ كَانَ يُلْهِينِي الْقُرْآنُ وَيُلْهِيكَ الصَّفْقُ بِالْأَسْوَاقِ
[Machine] He used to recite this verse, "{The Prophet is more worthy of the believers than themselves}" [Al-Ahzab 6] and he is their father, "{And his wives are their mothers}" [Al-Ahzab 6].
أَنَّهُ كَانَ يَقْرَأُ هَذِهِ الْآيَةَ {النَّبِيُّ أَوْلَى بِالْمُؤْمِنِينَ مِنْ أَنْفُسِهِمْ} [الأحزاب 6] وَهُوَ أَبٌ لَهُمْ {وَأَزْوَاجُهُ أُمَّهَاتُهُمْ} [الأحزاب 6]
[Machine] "That you be my wife in paradise, so do not marry after me, for a woman in paradise is for her last husband in the worldly life. For this reason, Allah has forbidden the wives of the Prophet ﷺ to remarry after him, because they will be his wives in paradise."
أَنْ تَكُونِي زَوْجَتِي فِي الْجَنَّةِ فَلَا تَزَوَّجِي بَعْدِي فَإِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ فِي الْجَنَّةِ لِآخِرِ أَزْوَاجِهَا فِي الدُّنْيَا فَلِذَلِكَ حَرَّمَ اللهُ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَنْ يُنْكَحْنَ بَعْدَهُ؛ لِأَنَّهُنَّ أَزْوَاجُهُ فِي الْجَنَّةِ
[Machine] I am the mother of your men, but I am not your mother.
أَنَا أُمُّ رِجَالِكُمْ لَسْتُ بِأُمِّكِ