39. Marriage

٣٩۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ

39.97 [Machine] What is in the body's embrace

٣٩۔٩٧ بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي قُبْلَةِ الْجَسَدِ

bayhaqi:13586Abū ʿAlī al-Rūdhbārī > Abū Bakr b. Dāsah > Abū Dāwud > ʿAmr b. ʿAwn > Khālid > Ḥuṣayn > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Abū Laylá > Usayd b. Ḥuḍayr a man from al-Anṣār ؓ > Baynamā

AbdurRahman ibn AbuLayla, quoting Usayd ibn Hudayr, a man of the Ansar, said that while he was given to jesting and was talking to the people and making them laugh, the Prophet ﷺ poked him under the ribs with a stick. He said: Let me take retaliation. He said: Take retaliation. He said: You are wearing a shirt but I am not. The Prophet ﷺ then raised his shirt and the man embraced him and began to kiss his side. Then he said: This is what I wanted, Messenger of Allah! (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 5224)   

البيهقي:١٣٥٨٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ الرُّوذْبَارِيُّ أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ دَاسَةَ ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَوْنٍ ثنا خَالِدٌ عَنْ حُصَيْنٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى عَنْ أُسَيْدِ بْنِ حُضَيْرٍ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ ؓ قَالَ

بَيْنَمَا هُوَ يُحَدِّثُ الْقَوْمَ وَكَانَ فِيهِ مِزَاحٌ بَيْنَا يُضْحِكُهُمْ فَطَعَنَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فِي خَاصِرَتِهِ بِعُودٍ فَقَالَ أَصْبِرْنِي قَالَ اصْطَبِرْ قَالَ إِنَّ عَلَيْكَ قَمِيصًا وَلَيْسَ عَلَيَّ قَمِيصٌ فَرَفَعَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَنْ قَمِيصٍ فَاحْتَضَنَهُ وَجَعَلَ يُقَبِّلُ كَشْحَهُ قَالَ إِنَّمَا أَرَدْتُ هَذَا يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَوْلُهُ أَصْبِرْنِي يُرِيدُ أَقِدْنِي مِنْ نَفْسِكَ وَقَوْلُهُ اصْطَبِرْ مَعْنَاهُ اسْتَقِدْ  

bayhaqi:13587Abū ʿAlī > Abū Bakr > Abū Dāwud > Muḥammad b. ʿĪsá > Maṭar b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman al-Aʿnaq > Um Abān b. al-Wāziʿ b. Zāriʿ

Umm Aban, daughter of al-Wazi' ibn Zari', quoting his grandfather, who was a member of the deputation of AbdulQays, said: When we came to Medina, we raced to be first to dismount and kiss the hand and foot of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. But al-Mundhir al-Ashajj waited until he came to the bundle of his clothes. He put on his two garments and then he went to the Prophet ﷺ. He said to him: You have two characteristics which Allah likes: gentleness and deliberation. He asked: Have I acquired them or has Allah has created (them) my nature? He replied: No, Allah has created (them) in your nature. He then said: Praise be to Allah Who has created in my nature two characteristics which Allah and His Apostle like. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 5225)   

البيهقي:١٣٥٨٧وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَلِيٍّ أنبأ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ثنا أَبُو دَاوُدَ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عِيسَى ثنا مَطَرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ الْأَعْنَقُ قَالَ حَدَّثَتْنِي أُمُّ أَبَانَ بِنْتُ الْوَازِعِ بْنِ زَارِعٍ عَنْ جَدِّهَا زَارِعٍ فَكَانَ فِي وَفْدِ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ قَالَ

فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَنُقَبِّلُ يَدَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَرِجْلَهُ وَانْتَظَرَ الْمُنْذِرُ الْأَشَجُّ حَتَّى أَتَى عَيْبَتَهُ فَلَبِسَ ثَوْبَيْهِ ثُمَّ أَتَى النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ لَهُ إِنَّ فِيكَ خَلَّتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللهُ الْحِلْمُ وَالْأَنَاةُ قَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَنَا أَتَخَلَّقُ بِهِمَا أَمِ اللهُ جَبَلَنِي عَلَيْهِمَا؟ قَالَ بَلْ جَبَلَكَ اللهُ عَلَيْهِمَا قَالَ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِي جَبَلَنِي عَلَى خَلَّتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ