39. Marriage

٣٩۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ

39.195 [Machine] What is disliked about mentioning a man's family?

٣٩۔١٩٥ بَابُ مَا يُكْرَهُ مِنْ ذِكْرِ الرَّجُلِ إِصَابَتَهُ أَهْلَهُ

bayhaqi:14097Abū Muḥammad ʿAbdullāh b. Yūsuf al-Aṣbahānī > Abū Saʿīd b. al-Aʿrābī Bimakkah > al-Ḥasan b. Muḥammad b. al-Ṣabbāḥ al-Zaʿfarānī > Marwān b. Muʿāwiyah al-Fazārī > ʿUmar b. Ḥamzah al-ʿUmarī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Saʿd > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, the greatest trust with Allah on the Day of Resurrection is a man who goes to a woman, and she goes to him, and then he exposes her secret."  

البيهقي:١٤٠٩٧أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْأَصْبَهَانِيُّ أنبأ أَبُو سَعِيدِ بْنُ الْأَعْرَابِيِّ بِمَكَّةَ ثنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الصَّبَّاحِ الزَّعْفَرَانِيُّ ثنا مَرْوَانُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْفَزَارِيُّ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ حَمْزَةَ الْعُمَرِيِّ ثنا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ سَعْدٍ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ ؓ يَقُولُ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ أَعْظَمَ الْأَمَانَةِ عِنْدَ اللهِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ رَجُلٌ يُفْضِي إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ وَتُفْضِي إِلَيْهِ ثُمَّ يُفْشِي سِرَّهَا  

رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ فِي الصَّحِيحِ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ عَنْ مَرْوَانَ
bayhaqi:14098Abū al-Ḥasan ʿAlī b. Muḥammad al-Muqriʾ > al-Ḥasan b. Muḥammad b. Isḥāq > Yūsuf b. Yaʿqūb > Muḥammad b. Abū Bakr > Yazīd b. Zurayʿ > al-Jurayrī > Abū Naḍrah > Shaykh from al-Ṭufāwah > Atayt

[Machine] I came to Abu Hurairah in the city and I did not see a man from the companions of the Messenger of Allah who is more attentive or more generous to a guest than him. I heard him say, "I stood up with the Messenger of Allah until he came to the place where he prayed. And behind him were rows of men and rows of women, or rows of women and rows of men. He faced us and said, 'If the devil distracts me in my prayer, let the men say Subhan Allah and let the women clap.' The Messenger of Allah prayed and did not forget anything from his prayer. He said, 'Your gatherings, your gatherings. Among you is a man who hides behind the covering of Allah when he comes to his family, closing the door and throwing his cloak over them.' They said, 'We do that.' He then sat down and said, 'I did such and such to my wife.' Everyone became silent. He said, 'Is there any among you who does this?' They remained silent. A young girl had crouched on her knees and he said, 'This is an example of someone who does that.' The Messenger of Allah said, 'By Allah, they are talking to each other, and indeed, they are talking to each other.' He said, 'Do you know the example of someone who does that? The example of a male and a female devil meeting each other on a pathway. They satisfy their needs, and people are watching. He said, 'Behold, no man or woman approaches another except for a child or a parent.' The third said, 'I forgot it.' Then he said, 'The scent of a man is found in his fragrance, and his color is not exposed. Behold, the goodness of women is found in their appearance and their scent is not detected.'  

البيهقي:١٤٠٩٨أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْمُقْرِئُ أنبأ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا يُوسُفُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ زُرَيْعٍ ثنا الْجُرَيْرِيُّ عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي شَيْخٌ مِنَ الطُّفَاوَةِ قَالَ

أَتَيْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ ؓ بِالْمَدِينَةِ فَلَمْ أَرَ رَجُلًا مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ أَشَدَّ تَشْمِيرًا وَلَا أَقْوَمَ عَلَى ضَيْفٍ مِنْهُ سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ نَهَضْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ حَتَّى أَتَى مَقَامَهُ الَّذِي يُصَلِّي فِيهِ قَالَ وَخَلْفَهُ صَفَّانِ مِنْ رِجَالٍ وَصَفٌّ مِنْ نِسَاءٍ أَوْ صَفَّانِ مِنْ نِسَاءٍ وَصَفٌّ مِنْ رِجَالٍ فَأَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ فَقَالَ إِنْ نَسَّانِيَ الشَّيْطَانُ شَيْئًا مِنْ صَلَاتِي فَلْيُسَبِّحِ الرِّجَالُ وَلْتُصَفِّقِ النِّسَاءُ فَصَلَّى رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَلَمْ يَنْسَ شَيْئًا مِنْ صَلَاتِهِ فَقَالَ مَجَالِسَكُمْ مَجَالِسَكُمْ مَا مِنْكُمْ رَجُلٌ يَسْتَتِرُ بِسِتْرِ اللهِ إِذَا أَتَى أَهْلَهُ أَغْلَقَ عَلَيْهِ بَابَهُ وَأَلْقَى عَلَيْهِ سِتْرَهُ قَالُوا إِنَّا لَنَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ قَالَ ثُمَّ يَجْلِسُ فَيَقُولُ فَعَلْتُ بِصَاحِبَتِي كَذَا وَفَعَلْتُ كَذَا فَسَكَتُوا فَقَالَ هَلْ مِنْكُنَّ مَنْ تَفْعَلُ ذَلِكَ؟ قَالَ فَسَكَتْنَ فَجَثَتْ فَتَاةٌ أَحْسَبُهُ قَالَ كَعَابٌ عَلَى إِحْدَى رُكْبَتَيْهَا فَتَطَاوَلَتْ لِرَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ لِيَرَاهَا فَقَالَتْ إِي وَاللهِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّهُمْ لَيَتَحَدَّثُونَ وَإِنَّهُنَّ لَيَتَحَدَّثْنَ فَقَالَ هَلْ تَدْرُونَ مَا مَثَلُ مَنْ فَعَلَ ذَلِكَ؟ مَثَلُ الشَّيْطَانِ وَالشَّيْطَانَةِ لَقِيَ أَحَدُهُمَا صَاحِبَهُ فِي سِكَّةٍ فَقَضَى مِنْهَا حَاجَتَهُ وَالنَّاسُ يَنْظُرُونَ وَقَالَ أَلَا لَا يُفْضِيَنَّ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَجُلٍ وَلَا امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ إِلَّا إِلَى وَلَدٍ أَوْ وَالِدٍ وَقَالَ الثَّالِثَةُ فَنَسِيتُهَا ثُمَّ قَالَ إِنَّ طِيبَ الرِّجَالِ مَا وُجِدَ رِيحُهُ وَلَمْ يَظْهَرْ لَوْنُهُ أَلَا إِنَّ طِيبَ النِّسَاءِ مَا ظَهَرَ لَوْنُهُ وَلَمْ يُوجَدْ رِيحُهُ  

bayhaqi:14099Abū al-Ḥusayn b. Bishrān > Abū ʿAmr b. al-Sammāk > Ḥanbal b. Isḥāq > Aḥmad b. ʿĪsá al-Miṣrī > ʿAbdullāh b. Wahb > ʿAmr b. al-Ḥārith > Abū al-Samḥ > Abū al-Haytham > Abū Saʿīd

[Machine] "The Prophet ﷺ said that Shia'ah (a group of people) are forbidden. Hanbal said that Abu Abdullah, meaning Ahmad bin Hanbal bin Lahiy'ah, said that Shia'ah means the boastful ones in sexual intercourse. Ibn Wahb also said that it refers to the skins of wild beasts."  

البيهقي:١٤٠٩٩أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ أنبأ أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ السَّمَّاكِ ثنا حَنْبَلُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ ثنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عِيسَى الْمِصْرِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ أَبِي السَّمْحِ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ ؓ

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ الشِّيَاعُ حَرَامٌ قَالَ حَنْبَلٌ قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ يَعْنِي أَحْمَدَ بْنَ حَنْبَلِ ابْنُ لَهِيعَةَ يَقُولُ الشِّيَاعُ يَعْنِي الْمُفَاخَرَةُ بِالْجِمَاعِ قَالَ وَقَالَ ابْنُ وَهْبٍ السِّبَاعُ يُرِيدُ جُلُودَ السِّبَاعِ