39. Marriage
٣٩۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah said, "Whoever is invited and does not respond has disobeyed Allah and His Messenger. And whoever enters without being invited enters as a thief and leaves as a plunderer. It is mentioned in the case of a man entering upon another person, knowing that he is going to eat with him. And a hadith has been narrated refuting the misconception that Abu al-Abbas had regarding the Prophet's food in the story of Abu al-Darda."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مَنْ دُعِيَ فَلَمْ يُجِبْ فَقَدْ عَصَى اللهَ وَرَسُولَهُ وَمَنْ دَخَلَ عَلَى غَيْرِ دَعْوَةٍ دَخَلَ سَارِقًا وَخَرَجَ مُغِيرًا وَهَذَا وَرَدَ فِي الرَّجُلِ يَدْخُلُ عَلَى آخَرَ وَهُوَ يَعْلَمُ أَنَّهُ يَأْكُلُ لِيَأْكُلَ مَعَهُ وَقَدْ رُوِيَ حَدِيثٌ بِنَفْيِ التَّخْصِيصِ الَّذِي تَوَهَّمَهُ أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ فِي طَعَامِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فِي قِصَّةِ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ came out from the valley of a mountain where he had eased himself. There were some dried dates on a shield before us. We called him and he ate with us. He did not touch water. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 3762)
أَنَّهُ قَالَ أَقْبَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَوْمًا مِنْ شِعْبِ الْجَبَلِ وَقَدْ قَضَى حَاجَتَهُ وَبَيْنَ أَيْدِينَا تَمْرٌ عَلَى تُرْسٍ أَوْ جَحْفَةٍ فَدَعَوْنَاهُ إِلَيْهِ فَأَكَلَ مَعَنَا وَمَا مَسَّ مَاءً
[Machine] Jaber narrated that they used to eat dates on a mat. He said, "The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by us after coming back from relieving himself. So we said, 'Come, sit with us.' He sat down and ate dates with us without touching water." Abu Sa'id As-Sairafi informed us that Yahya ibn Mansur Al-Qadi narrated, who informed us that Muhammad ibn Ibrahim Al-Bushanjy narrated, who informed us that Sa'id ibn Hafs narrated, who informed us that Musa ibn A'yan narrated from Amr ibn Al-Harith, who mentioned it.
عَنْ جَابِرٍ ؓ أَنَّهُمْ كَانُوا يَأْكُلُونَ تَمْرًا عَلَى تُرْسٍ قَالَ فَمَرَّ بِنَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَقَدْ جَاءَ مِنَ الْغَائِطِ فَقُلْنَا هَلُمَّ فَقَعَدَ فَأَكَلَ مَعَنَا مِنَ التَّمْرِ وَلَمْ يَمَسَّ مَاءً أَخْبَرَنَاهُ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ الصَّيْرَفِيُّ أنبأ يَحْيَى بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الْقَاضِي ثنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْبُوشَنْجِيُّ نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ ثنا مُوسَى بْنُ أَعْيَنَ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْحَارِثِ فَذَكَرَهُ
[Machine] About Yahya, there are many stories and all of that negates the exclusivity. And Allah knows best.
عَنْ يَحْيَى وَفِي هَذَا أَخْبَارٌ كَثِيرَةٌ وَكُلُّ ذَلِكَ يَنْفِي التَّخْصِيصَ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ