39. Marriage
٣٩۔ كِتَابُ النِّكَاحِ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Verily, Allah has decreed for the son of Adam his share of adultery which he inevitably will commit. The adultery of the eyes is looking, the adultery of the tongue is speaking, and the soul desires and longs for it, and the private parts confirm or deny it."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ اللهَ كَتَبَ عَلَى ابْنِ آدَمَ حَظَّهُ مِنَ الزِّنَا أَدْرَكَ ذَلِكَ لَا مَحَالَةَ فَزِنَا الْعَيْنَيْنِ النَّظَرُ وَزِنَا اللِّسَانِ النُّطْقُ وَالنَّفْسُ تَتَمَنَّى وَتَشْتَهِي وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ وَيُكَذِّبُهُ
Abu Huraira reported Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying. Allah fixed the very portion of adultery which a man will indulge in. There would be no escape from it. The adultery of the eye is the lustful look and the adultery of the ears is listening to voluptuous (song or talk) and the adultery of the tongue is licentious speech and the adultery of the hand is the lustful grip (embrace) and the adultery of the feet is to walk (to the place) where he intends to commit adultery and the heart yearns and desires which he may or may not put into effect. (Using translation from Muslim 2658a)
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ كُتِبَ عَلَى ابْنِ آدَمَ نَصِيبُهُ مِنَ الزِّنَا مُدْرِكٌ ذَلِكَ لَا مَحَالَةَ فَالْعَيْنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا النَّظَرُ وَالْأُذُنَانِ زِنَاهُمَا الِاسْتِمَاعُ وَاللِّسَانُ زِنَاهُ الْكَلَامُ وَالْيَدُ زِنَاهَا الْبَطْشُ وَالرِّجْلُ زِنَاهَا الْخُطَى وَالْقَلْبُ يَهْوَى وَيَتَمَنَّى وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ وَيُكَذِّبُهُ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "For every son of Adam, there is a share of zina. The eyes commit zina through their gaze, and their zina is looking. The hands commit zina through their touch, and their zina is grasping. The feet commit zina through their walk, and their zina is walking. The mouth commits zina, and its zina is kissing. The heart desires and wishes, and it either confirms or denies it." Abu Hurairah heard and witnessed this.
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لِكُلِّ ابْنِ آدَمَ حَظُّهُ مِنَ الزِّنَا فَالْعَيْنَانِ تَزْنِيَانِ وَزِنَاهُمَا النَّظَرُ وَالْيَدَانِ تَزْنِيَانِ وَزِنَاهُمَا الْبَطْشُ وَالرِّجْلَانِ تَزْنِيَانِ وَزِنَاهُمَا الْمَشْيُ وَالْفَمُ يَزْنِي وَزِنَاهُ الْقُبَلُ وَالْقَلْبُ يَهُمُّ أَوْ يَتَمَنَّى وَيُصَدِّقُ ذَلِكَ الْفَرْجُ أَوْ يُكَذِّبُهُ شَهِدَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ أَبُو هُرَيْرَةَ سَمِعَهُ وَبَصُرَهُ
[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ walked with Al-Fadl ibn Abbas and then approached the Jamrah (pillar) and threw pebbles at it. A young girl from the tribe of Khath'am approached him and said, "O Messenger of Allah, my father is an old man who is unable to perform the obligation of Hajj. Can I perform Hajj on his behalf?" He replied, "Perform Hajj on behalf of your father and also approach Al-Fadl to perform Hajj on behalf of his cousin." Al-Abbas said to him, "O Messenger of Allah, if only you had instructed Al-Fadl to perform Hajj on behalf of his cousin." The Prophet ﷺ said, "I saw a young man and a young girl who were not guarded against Satan, so we narrated this incident in the Book of Hajj from the Hadith of Ibn Abbas, with some of its meanings."
أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ أَرْدَفَ الْفَضْلَ بْنَ عَبَّاسٍ ثُمَّ أَتَى الْجَمْرَةَ فَرَمَاهَا فَاسْتَقْبَلَتْهُ جَارِيَةٌ شَابَّةٌ مِنْ خَثْعَمَ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبِي شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ قَدْ أَفْنَدَ وَقَدْ أَدْرَكَتْهُ فَرِيضَةُ اللهِ فِي الْحَجِّ فَيَجْزِي أَنْ أَحُجَّ عَنْهُ؟ فَقَالَ حُجِّي عَنْ أَبِيكِ وَلَوَى عُنُقَ الْفَضْلِ فَقَالَ لَهُ الْعَبَّاسُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَوَيْتَ عُنُقَ ابْنِ عَمِّكِ قَالَ رَأَيْتُ شَابًّا وَشَابَّةً فَلَمْ آمَنِ الشَّيْطَانَ عَلَيْهِمَا وَقَدْ رَوَيْنَاهُ فِي كِتَابِ الْحَجِّ مِنْ حَدِيثِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ بِبَعْضِ مَعْنَاهُ
Avoid sitting in the roads. The people said: Apostle of Allah! We must have meeting places in which to converse. The apostle of Allah ﷺ said: If you insist on meeting, give the road its due. They asked: What is the due of roads, Apostle of Allah? He replied: Lowering the eyes, removing anything offensive, returning salutation, commanding what is reputable and forbidding what is disreputable. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 4815)
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ إِيَّاكُمْ وَالْجُلُوسَ بِالطُّرُقَاتِ فَقَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا بُدٌّ لَنَا مِنْ مَجَالِسِنَا نَتَحَدَّثُ فِيهَا فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنْ أَبَيْتُمْ فَأَعْطُوا الطَّرِيقَ حَقَّهُ قَالُوا وَمَا حَقُّ الطَّرِيقِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ غَضُّ الْبَصَرِ وَكَفُّ الْأَذَى وَرَدُّ السَّلَامِ وَالْأَمْرُ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَالنَّهْيُ عَنِ الْمُنْكَرِ