53. Actions to Perform Day and Night

٥٣۔ كِتَابُ عَمَلِ الْيَوْمِ وَاللَّيْلَةِ عَوْنُكَ يَا رَبِّ عَلَى مَا بَقِيَ

53.101 [Machine] What to say when proposing to a woman, and what to say to him.

٥٣۔١٠١ مَا يَقُولُ إِذَا خَطَبَ امْرَأَةً، وَمَا يُقَالُ لَهُ

nasai-kubra:10016ʿAbd al-Aʿlá b. Wāṣil b. ʿAbd al-Aʿlá > Mālik b. Ismāʿīl > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Ḥumayd > ʿAbd al-Karīm b. Salīṭ al-Baṣrī > Aḥmad b. Sulaymān > Mālik b. Ismāʿīl > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Ḥumayd al-Ruʾāsī > ʿAbd al-Karīm b. Salīṭ > Ibn Buraydah from his father

[Machine] A group of Ansar said to Ali, "Do you have Fatimah with you?" He entered upon the Prophet ﷺ and greeted him. The Prophet ﷺ asked him, "What does the son of Abu Talib need?" Ali said, "I mentioned that Fatimah, the daughter of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , was mentioned, and he (the Prophet) said, 'Welcome and greetings to her.' He did not say anything more than that." Then Ali went out to a group of Ansar who were waiting for him and they asked him, "What is behind you?" He replied, "I do not know, except that he said to me, 'Welcome and greetings to her.'" They said to him, "It is sufficient for you that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ has given you a family and a spacious home." After that, when he got married, he said to Ali, "O Ali, a wedding must have a feast." Sa'd said, "I have a sheep and I have gathered a group of Ansar, enough food for a small feast." When the night of the wedding came, the Prophet ﷺ said to Ali, "O Ali, do not say anything until you meet me." So the Prophet ﷺ called for water and performed ablution from it, then he poured it on Ali and said, "O Allah, bless them both and bless upon them and bless them in their progeny."  

الكبرى للنسائي:١٠٠١٦أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الْأَعْلَى بْنُ وَاصِلِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَالِكُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ حُمَيْدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْكَرِيمِ بْنُ سَلِيطٍ الْبَصْرِيُّ وَأَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَالِكُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ حُمَيْدُ الرُّؤَاسِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْكَرِيمِ بْنُ سَلِيطٍ عَنِ ابْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

أَنَّ نَفَرًا مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ قَالُوا لِعَلِيٍّ عِنْدَكَ فَاطِمَةُ فَدَخَلَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ «مَا حَاجَةُ ابْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ؟» قَالَ ذُكِرَتْ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «مَرْحَبًا وَأَهْلًا» لَمْ يَزِدْهُ عَلَيْهَا فَخَرَجَ إِلَى الرَّهْطِ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ يَنْتَظِرُونَهُ فَقَالُوا مَا وَرَاءَكَ؟ قَالَ مَا أَدْرِي غَيْرَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ لِي «مَرْحَبًا وَأَهْلًا» قَالُوا يَكْفِيكَ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ إِحْدَاهُمَا قَدْ أَعْطَاكَ الْأَهْلَ وَأَعْطَاكَ الرَّحْبَ فَلَمَّا كَانَ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ بَعْدَمَا زَوَّجَهُ قَالَ «يَا عَلِيُّ إِنَّهُ لَا بُدَّ لِلْعُرْسِ مِنْ وَلِيمَةٍ» قَالَ سَعْدٌ عِنْدِي كَبْشٌ وَجَمْعَ لَهُ رَهْطٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ آصُعًا مِنْ ذُرَةٍ فَلَمَّا كَانَ لَيْلَةُ الْبِنَاءِ قَالَ «يَا عَلِيُّ لَا تُحْدِثْ شَيْئًا حَتَّى تَلْقَانِي» فَدَعَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ بِمَاءٍ فَتَوَضَّأَ مِنْهُ ثُمَّ أَفْرَغَهُ عَلَى عَلِيٍّ فَقَالَ «اللهُمَّ بَارِكْ فِيهِمَا وَبَارِكْ عَلَيْهِمَا وَبَارِكْ لَهُمَا فِي شِبْلِهِمَا»