[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ mourned Ja'far, Zayd bin Harithah, and Abdullah bin Rawahah before their news arrived. He mourned them as tears rolled down his eyes.  

نَعَى رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ جَعْفَرًا وَزَيْدَ بْنَ حَارِثَةَ وَعَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ رَوَاحَةَ نَعَاهُمْ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَجِئَ خَبَرُهُمْ نَعَاهُمْ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ visited the grave of his mother and cried, causing those around him to also cry. Then he said, "I sought permission from my Lord to visit her grave, and He granted me permission. I also sought permission from Him to seek forgiveness for her, but He did not grant me permission. So, visit the graves, as they remind you of death."  

زَارَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قَبْرَ أُمِّهِ فَبَكَى وَأَبْكَى مَنْ حَوْلَهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنْتُ رَبِّي أَنْ أَزُورَ قَبْرَهَا فَأَذِنَ لِي وَاسْتَأْذَنْتُهُ أَنْ أَسْتَغْفِرَ لَهَا فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لِي فَزُورُوا الْقُبُورَ فَإِنَّهَا تُذَكِّرُ الْمَوْتَ  

[Machine] Salama said, "Do not say that, O Abu Abdullah, for I bear witness on the authority of Abu Huraira that I heard him say: 'I accompanied the Prophet ﷺ once at a funeral procession along with Umar ibn Khattab and there were women crying. Umar restrained them and scolded them. The Prophet ﷺ said to Umar, 'Leave them, O Umar, for the eye weeps, the heart feels sorrow, and the tongue speaks out of habit.' They asked Umar, 'Did you hear him say this?' He replied, 'Yes.' Ibn Umar then said, 'By Allah, the Messenger of Allah knows better, for he said it twice.'"  

سَلَمَةُ لَا تَقُلْ ذَلِكَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ فَأَشْهَدُ عَلَى أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ لَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ مُرَّ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِجِنَازَةٍ وَأَنَا مَعَهُ وَمَعَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ وَنِسَاءٌ يَبْكِينَ عَلَيْهَا فَزَبَرَهُنَّ عُمَرُ وَانْتَهَرَهُنَّ فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ دَعْهُنَّ يَا عُمَرُ فَإِنَّ الْعَيْنَ دَامِعَةٌ وَالنَّفْسَ مُصَابَةٌ وَالْعَهْدَ حَدِيثٌ قَالُوا أَنْتَ سَمِعْتَهُ يَقُولُ هَذَا؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ فَاللهُ وَرَسُولُهُ أَعْلَمُ مَرَّتَيْنِ  

[Machine] "Allah, ﷺ , said: 'Beware of the whisperings of Satan, for they may come from the eye or the heart, which is from mercy. But if they come from the tongue or the hand, then they are from Satan.' He said: 'And Fatimah began crying at the edge of Ruqayyah's grave, so the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , wiped the tears from her face with his hand or he said with his garment.' And this, although not very strong, is his statement, ﷺ , in the verified hadith from him: 'Verily, Allah does not punish with tears from the eye or sadness in the heart, but He punishes with this.' And he pointed to his tongue or his hand, indicating its meaning. And success is with Allah."  

اللهِ ﷺ مَهْ يَا عُمَرُ ثُمَّ قَالَ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَنَعِيقَ الشَّيْطَانِ فَإِنَّهُ مَهْمَا يَكُنْ مِنَ الْعَيْنِ وَالْقَلْبِ فَمِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَمَا يَكُونُ مِنَ اللِّسَانِ وَالْيَدِ فَمِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ قَالَ وَجَعَلَتْ فَاطِمَةُ ؓ تَبْكِي عَلَى شَفِيرِ قَبْرِ رُقَيَّةَ فَجَعَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَمْسَحُ الدُّمُوعَ عَنْ وَجْهِهَا بِالْيَدِ أَوْ قَالَ بِالثَّوْبِ وَهَذَا وَإِنْ كَانَ غَيْرَ قَوِيٍّ فَقَوْلُهُ ﷺ فِي الْحَدِيثِ الثَّابِتِ عَنْهُ إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يُعَذِّبُ بِدَمْعِ الْعَيْنِ وَلَا بِحُزْنِ الْقَلْبِ وَلَكِنْ يُعَذِّبُ بِهَذَا وَأَشَارَ إِلَى لِسَانِهِ أَوْ يَرْحَمُ يَدُلُّ عَلَى مَعْنَاهُ وَيَشْهَدُ لَهُ بِالصِّحَّةِ وَبِاللهِ التَّوْفِيقُ  

[Machine] To shed tears on Abu Suleiman as long as it is not a dire situation or distress.  

أَنْ يَهْرِقْنَ دُمُوعَهُنَّ عَلَى أَبِي سُلَيْمَانَ مَا لَمْ يَكُنْ نَقْعًا أَوْ لَقْلَقَةً  

[Machine] "From Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him), he said: my father called upon Allah and he answered him, and from that matter was,"  

عَنْ ثَابِتٍ يَا أَبَتَاهُ أَجَابَ رَبًّا دَعَاهُ وَمِنْ ذَلِكَ الْوَجْهِ