ʿUmar ؓ said to me: I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: “The deceased is tormented because of the weeping of his family over him.ʿ (Using translation from Aḥmad 386)
سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ»