A daughter of ʿUthman bin ʿAffan died in Makkah and Ibn ʿUmar and Ibn ʿAbbas attended her funeral. I was sitting between them and ibn ʿUmar said to ‘Amr bin ʿUthman, who was facing him: why donʿt you tell them not to weep? For I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: ʿThe deceased is tormented because of his familyʿs weeping for him.ʿ And he mentioned a hadeeth similar to that of Ismaʿeel from Ayyoob from Ibn Abu Mulaikah.
عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَذَكَرَ نَحْوَ حَدِيثِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ