[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "Everything that does not mention the remembrance of Allah is frivolity and play, except for four activities: a man's playing with his wife, teaching a horse to be obedient, walking between the two goals (i.e., the tall pillars used in Arabian games), and teaching a man to swim."  

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «كُلُّ شَيْءٍ لَيْسَ فِيهِ ذِكْرُ اللهِ فَهُوَ لَهْوٌ وَلَعِبٌ إِلَّا أَرْبَعَ مُلَاعَبَةُ الرَّجُلِ امْرَأَتَهُ وَتَأْدِيبُ الرَّجُلِ فَرَسَهُ وَمَشْيُهُ بَيْنَ الْغَرَضَيْنِ وَتَعْلِيمُ الرَّجُلِ السَّبَّاحَةَ»  

[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "Every matter that is not from the remembrance of Allah is vain and frivolous, except for four qualities: walking between the targets, training his horse, playing with his family, and teaching swimming."  

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ كُلُّ شَيْءٍ لَيْسَ مِنْ ذِكْرِ اللهِ فَهُوَ لَغْوٌ وَلَهْوٌ إِلَّا أَرْبَعَةَ خِصَالٍ مَشْيٌ بَيْنَ الْغَرَضَيْنِ وَتَأْدِيبُهُ فَرَسَهُ وَمُلَاعَبَتُهُ أَهْلَهُ وَتَعْلِيمُ السَّبَّاحَةِ  

[Machine] We were walking with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and he asked me, "Did you get married after your father?" I said, "Yes." He asked, "Did you marry Ayyub or Bakr?" I said, "Ayyub." He said, "Why didn't you marry Bakr? She would make you laugh and you would make her laugh, and she would play with you and you would play with her."  

كُنَّا نَسِيرُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ لِي «أَتَزَوَّجْتَ بَعْدَ أَبِيكَ؟» قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ «أَثَيِّبًا أَمْ بِكْرًا؟» قُلْتُ ثَيِّبًا قَالَ «فَهَلَّا تَزَوَّجْتَ بِكْرًا تُضَاحِكُكَ وَتُضَاحِكُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ وَتُلَاعِبُهَا»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ preceded me, so I preceded him until our flesh became exhausted. He preceded me, and then he preceded me again, and he said, "This is your recompense."  

سَابَقَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَسَبَقْتُهُ حَتَّى إِذَا رَهِقَنَا اللَّحْمُ سَابَقَنِي فَسَبَقَنِي فَقَالَ «هَذِهِ بِتِيكِ»  

[Machine] I went out with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ while I was slim. We reached a place and he said to his companions, "Move forward." Then he said to me, "Come forward so I can race you." So I raced him and I beat him. Then I went out with him on another journey and this time I had gained weight. We reached a place and he said to his companions, "Move forward." Then he said to me, "Come forward so I can race you." So I raced him and he beat me. He struck my shoulder with his hand and said, "This is for that."  

خَرَجْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَأنا خَفِيفَةُ اللَّحْمِ فَنَزَلْنَا مَنْزِلًا فَقَالَ لِأَصْحَابِهِ «تَقَدَّمُوا» ثُمَّ قَالَ لِي «تَعَالَيْ حَتَّى أُسَابِقَكِ فَسَابَقَنِي فَسَبَقْتُهُ» ثُمَّ خَرَجْتُ مَعَهُ فِي سَفَرٍ آخَرَ وَقَدْ حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ فَنَزَلْنَا مَنْزِلًا فَقَالَ لِأَصْحَابِهِ «تَقَدَّمُوا» ثُمَّ قَالَ لِي تَعَالَيْ أُسَابِقُكِ فَسَابَقَنِي فَسَبَقَنِي فَضَرَبَ بِيَدِهِ كَتِفِي وَقَالَ «هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ»  

[Machine] I was with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ on a journey, and his companions went ahead. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Outstrip them." So, I outstripped him. When it was later, and I carried the meat, he said, "Outstrip them." So, I outstripped him. He said, "This is for that."  

كُنْتُ أَنَا وَرَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فِي سَفَرٍ فَتَقَدَّمَ أَصْحَابُهُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «سَابِقِينِي» قَالَتْ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ فَلَمَّا كَانَ بَعْدُ وَحَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ قَالَ «سَابِقِينِي فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي» فَقَالَ «هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ»  

[Machine] She was with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ on a journey and she was a slave girl. He said to his companions, "Go ahead." Then he said, "Come, I will race you." So I raced him and I outran him on foot. When he caught up with me afterward, we went on a journey together. He said to his companions, "Go ahead." Then he said, "Come, I will race you." I forgot what I had taken from him, and I was carrying meat, so I said, "How can I race you, O Messenger of Allah, while I am in this state?" He said, "You will do it." So I raced him and he outran me. Then he said, "This (meat) is in return for that (previous) race."  

أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فِي سَفَرٍ وَهِيَ جَارِيَةٌ فَقَالَ لِأَصْحَابِهِ «تَقَدَّمُوا» ثُمَّ قَالَ «تَعَالَيْ أُسَابِقْكِ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقْتُهُ عَلَى رِجْلِي فَلَمَّا كَانَ بَعْدُ خَرَجْتُ مَعَهُ فِي سَفَرٍ» فَقَالَ لِأَصْحَابِهِ «تَقَدَّمُوا» ثُمَّ قَالَ «تَعَالَيْ أُسَابِقْكِ» وَنَسِيتُ الَّذِي كَانَ وَقَدْ حَمَلْتُ اللَّحْمَ فَقُلْتُ كَيْفَ أُسَابِقُكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَأَنَا عَلَى هَذِهِ الْحَالِ؟ فَقَالَ «لَتَفْعَلِنَّ فَسَابَقْتُهُ فَسَبَقَنِي» فَقَالَ «هَذِهِ بِتِلْكَ السَّبْقَةِ»  

[Machine] "I used to play with the girls at the house of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and I had friends who would come to me and play with me. They would gather around me when they saw the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would bring them to me and they would play with me."  

«كُنْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِالْبَنَاتِ فِي بَيْتِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَكُنَّ لِي صَوَاحِبَ يَأْتِينَنِي فَيَلْعَبْنَ مَعِي فَيَتَقَمَّعْنَ إِذَا رَأَيْنَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُسَرِّ بِهِنَّ إِلَيَّ فَيَلْعَبْنَ مَعِي»  

[Machine] I used to play with the girls, and perhaps the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and my companions came to me. When we saw the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, we would run away, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would say, "As you are, and as all of you are."  

كُنْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِالْبَنَاتِ فَرُبَّمَا دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَصَوَاحِبَاتِي عِنْدِي فَإِذَا رَأَيْنَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَرَرْنَ فَيَقُولُ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «كَمَا أَنْتِ وَكَمَا أَنْتُنَّ»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to secretly send my companions to play with me with girls' toys.  

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يُسَرِّبُ إِلَيَّ صَوَاحِبِي يَلْعَبْنَ مَعِي بِاللَّعِبِ الْبَنَاتُ الصِّغَارُ  

[Machine] I used to play with girls during the time of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ .  

«كُنْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِالْبَنَاتِ عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ»  

When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar (the narrator is doubtful), the draught raised an end of a curtain which was hung in front of her store-room, revealing some dolls which belonged to her. He asked: What is this? She replied: My dolls. Among them he saw a horse with wings made of rags, and asked: What is this I see among them? She replied: A horse. He asked: What is this that it has on it? She replied: Two wings. He asked: A horse with two wings? She replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? She said: Thereupon the Messenger of Allah ﷺ laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 4932)   

قَدِمَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ مِنْ غَزْوَةٍ وَقَدْ نَصَبْتُ عَلَى بَابِ حُجْرَتِي عَبَاءَةً وَعَلَى عُرْضِ بَيْتِهَا سِتْرٌ أَرْمَنِّيٌّ فَدَخَلَ الْبَيْتَ فَلَمَّا رَآهُ قَالَ لِي يَا عَائِشَةُ «مَا لِي وَلِلدُّنْيَا؟ فَهَتَكَ الْعُرْضَ حَتَّى وَقَعَ الْأَرْضَ وَفِي سَهْوَتِهَا سِتْرٌ فَهَبَّتْ رِيحٌ فَكَشَفَتْ نَاحِيَةً عَنْ بَنَاتٍ لِعَائِشَةَ لَعَبٍ» فَقَالَ «مَا هَذَا يَا عَائِشَةُ؟» قَالَتْ بَنَاتِي وَرَأَى بَيْنَ ظَهْرَانِيهِنَّ فَرَسٌ لَهُ جَنَاحَانِ قَالَ «وَمَا هَذَا الَّذِي أَرَى وَسَطَهُنَّ؟» قَالَتْ فَرَسٌ قَالَ «وَمَا هَذَا الَّذِي عَلَيْهِ؟» قَالَتْ جَنَاحَانِ قَالَ «فَرَسٌ لَهُ جَنَاحَانِ؟» قَالَتْ «أَوَ مَا سَمِعْتَ أَنَّ لِسُلَيْمَانَ خَيْلًا لَهَا أَجْنِحَةٌ فَضَحِكَ ﷺ حَتَّى رَأَيْتُ نَوَاجِذَهُ»  

[Machine] Aisha, the wife of the Prophet ﷺ , said, "The Ethiopians entered the mosque to play, so he said to me, 'O Humayra, do you want to look at them?' So I said, 'Yes,' and he went to the door and I followed him. I placed my chin on his shoulder and rested my face against his cheek." She said, "And among what they were saying that day was 'Abu al-Qasim, may goodness be upon him.' So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, 'That is enough for you.'" So I said, "O Messenger of Allah, do not rush!" He stood up for me, then he said, "That is enough for you." So I said, "O Messenger of Allah, do not rush!" She said, "It is not that I have a desire to look at them, but rather, I wanted the women to see his status and my position with him."  

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَتْ دَخَلَ الْحَبَشَةُ الْمَسْجِدَ يَلْعَبُونَ فَقَالَ لِي يَا حُمَيْرَاءُ أَتُحِبِّينَ أَنْ تَنْظُرِي إِلَيْهِمْ فَقُلْتُ «نَعَمْ فَقَامَ بِالْبَابِ وَجِئْتُهُ فَوَضَعْتُ ذَقَنِي عَلَى عَاتِقَهُ فَأَسْنَدْتُ وَجْهِي إِلَى خَدِّهِ» قَالَتْ «وَمِنْ قَوْلِهِمْ يَوْمَئِذٍ أَبَا الْقَاسِمِ طَيِّبًا» فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «حَسْبُكِ» فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَا تَعْجَلْ فَقَامَ لِي ثُمَّ قَالَ «حَسْبُكِ» فَقُلْتُ «لَا تَعْجَلْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ» قَالَتْ «وَمَا لِي حُبُّ النَّظَرِ إِلَيْهِمْ وَلَكِنِّي أَحْبَبْتُ أَنْ يَبْلُغَ النِّسَاءَ مَقَامُهُ لِي وَمَكَانِي مِنْهُ»  

The Prophet ﷺ was screening me with his Rida' (garment covering the upper part of the body) while I was looking at the Ethiopians who were playing in the courtyard of the mosque. (I continued watching) till I was satisfied. So you may deduce from this event how a little girl (who has not reached the age of puberty) who is eager to enjoy amusement should be treated in this respect. (Using translation from Bukhārī 5236)   

عَائِشَةُ رَأَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَسْتُرُنِي بِرِدَائِهِ وَأَنَا أَنْظُرُ إِلَى الْحَبَشَةِ وَهُمْ يَلْعَبُونَ وَأَنَا جَارِيَةٌ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ فَاقْدُرُوا قَدْرَ الْجَارِيَةِ الْحَدِيثَةِ السِّنِّ  

BY Allah, I remember the Messenger of Allah ﷺ standing on the door of my apartment screening me with his mantle enabling me to see the sport of the Abyssinians as they played with their daggers in the mosque of the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upom him). He (the Holy Prophet) kept standing for my sake till I was satiated and then I went back; and thus you can well imagine how long a girl tender of age who is fond of sports (could have watched it). (Using translation from Muslim 892d)  

وَاللهِ لَقَدْ رَأَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ «يَقُومُ عَلَى بَابِ حُجْرَتِي وَالْحَبَشَةُ يَلْعَبُونَ بِحِرَابٍ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ يَسْتُرُنِي بِرِدَائِهِ لِكَيْ أَنْظُرَ إِلَى لَعِبِهِمْ ثُمَّ يَقُومُ مِنْ أَجْلِي حَتَّى أَكُونَ أَنَا الَّتِي أَمَلُّ فَاقْدُرُوا بِقَدْرِ الْجَارِيَةِ الْحَدِيثَةِ السِّنِّ الْحَرِيصَةِ عَلَى اللهْوِ»  

[Machine] Aisha, the Abyssinians used to play with a bow and arrow that they had. So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ stood up, and I was looking between his ear and shoulder until I was the one who saw it.  

عَائِشَةُ كَانَ الْحَبَشُ يَلْعَبُونَ بِحِرَابٍ لَهُمْ فَقَامَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَجَعَلْتُ أَنْظُرُ بَيْنَ أُذُنِهِ وَعَاتِقِهِ حَتَّى كُنْتُ أَنَا الَّتِي صَدَرْتُ  

[Machine] The Abyssinians were playing, so I came behind him ﷺ and he began to bend his back until I could see.  

«لَعِبَتِ الْحَبَشَةَ فَجِئْتُ مِنْ وَرَائِهِ ﷺ فَجَعَلَ يُطَأْطِئُ ظَهْرَهُ حَتَّى أَنْظُرَ»  

[Machine] There were children playing in the city, so Aisha placed her cheek on the shoulder of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and watched them.  

«كَانَ زِنْجٌ يَلْعَبُونَ بِالْمَدِينَةِ فَوَضَعَتْ عَائِشَةُ حَنَكَهَا عَلَى مَنْكِبِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَجَعَلَتْ تَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهِمْ»  

that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was sitting and we heard a scream and the voices of children. So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ arose, and it was an Ethiopian woman, prancing around while the children played around her. So he said: 'O 'Aishah, come (and) see.' So I came, and I put my chin upon the shoulder of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and I began to watch her from between his shoulder and his head, and he said to me: 'Have you had enough, have you had enough?'" She said: "So I kept saying: 'No,' to see my status with him. Then 'Umar appeared." She said: "So they dispersed." She said: "So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: 'Indeed I see the Shayatin among men and jinn have run from 'Umar.' She said: 'So I returned.'" (Using translation from Tirmidhī 3691)  

كَانَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ جَالِسًا فَسَمِعْنَا لَغَطًا وَصَوْتَ الصِّبْيَانِ فَقَامَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَإِذَا حَبَشِيَّةٌ تَزْفِنُ وَالصِّبْيَانُ حَوْلَهَا فَقَالَ يَا عَائِشَةُ تَعَالَيْ فَانْظُرِي فَجِئْتُ فَوَضَعْتُ ذَقَنِي عَلَى مَنْكِبِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَجَعَلْتُ أَنْظُرُ إِلَيْهَا مَا بَيْنَ الْمَنْكِبِ إِلَى رَأْسِهِ فَقَالَ لِي «أَمَا شَبِعْتِ؟» فَجَعَلْتُ أَقُولُ «لَا لِأَنْظُرَ مَنزِلَتِي عِنْدَهُ إِذْ طَلَعَ عُمَرُ فَارْفَضَّ النَّاسُ عَنْهَا» فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِنِّي لَأَنْظُرُ إِلَى شَيَاطِينِ الْجِنِّ وَالْإِنْسِ قَدْ فَرُّوا مِنْ عُمَرَ» قَالَتْ «فَرَجَعْتُ»  

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ went out and the Abyssinians were playing. I was watching from a distance when the Prophet ﷺ approached me. I placed my hand on his shoulder and started looking. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Take the daughters of Arfidah." I continued to watch them playing and spinning until it was me who ended it."  

خَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَالْحَبَشَةُ يَلْعَبُونَ وَأَنَا أَطَّلِعُ مِنْ خَوْخَةٍ لِي فَدَنَا مِنِّي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَوَضَعْتُ يَدَيَّ عَلَى مَنْكِبِهِ وَجَعَلْتُ أَنْظُرُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «خُذْنَ بَنَاتِ أَرْفِدَةَ فَمَا زِلْتُ وَهُمْ يَلْعَبُونَ وَيَزْفِنُونَ حَتَّى كُنْتُ أَنَا الَّتِي انْتَهَيْتُ»  

[Machine] Abu Bakr entered upon her during the days of Mina with two slave girls who were singing and playing the tambourine. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was reclining with his face towards his garment, not commanding or forbidding them. Abu Bakr scolded them and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Leave them, O Abu Bakr, for it is the days of 'Eid."  

أَنَّ أَبَا بَكْرٍ دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا أَيَّامَ مِنَى وَعِنْدَهَا جَارِيَتَانِ تُغَنِّيَانِ وَتَضْرِبَانِ بِدُفَّيْنِ وَرَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مُسَجًّى عَلَى وَجْهِهِ الثَّوْبُ لَا يَأْمُرُهُنَّ وَلَا يَنْهَاهُنَّ فَنَهَرَهُنَّ أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «دَعْهُنَّ يَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ فَإِنَّهَا أَيَّامُ عِيدٍ»  

[Machine] A woman came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and he said to Aisha, "Do you know her?" She replied, "No, O Prophet of Allah." He said, "This is Qayna, the daughter of so and so, and she loves to sing for you. So she sang for her."  

أَنَّ امْرَأَةً جَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ يَا عَائِشَةُ «تَعْرِفِينَ هَذِهِ؟» قَالَتْ لَا يَا نَبِيَّ اللهِ قَالَ «هَذِهِ قَيْنَةُ بَنِي فُلَانٍ تُحِبِّينَ أَنْ تُغَنِّيَكِ؟ فَغَنَّتْهَا»  

[Machine] The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was asked about the best women. He said, "She who obeys when commanded, pleases when looked at, and safeguards him in herself and his wealth."  

سُئِلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَنْ خَيْرِ النِّسَاءِ قَالَ «الَّتِي تُطِيعُ إِذَا أَمَرَ وَتَسُرُّ إِذَا نَظَرَ وَتَحْفَظُهُ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِهِ»  

[Machine] She entered upon the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , so the Messenger of Allah ﷺ stood up for a need, and he fulfilled her need. So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to her, "Are you a wife?" She said, "Yes." He said, "How are you towards him?" She said, "I only do what I am unable to do." So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Look at where you are from him. For indeed, he is your Paradise and your Hellfire."  

أَنَّهَا دَخَلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَامَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لِبَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ فَقَضَى حَاجَتَهَا فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «أَذَاتُ زَوْجٍ أَنْتِ؟» قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ «كَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟» قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «انْظُرِي أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّهُ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ»  

[Machine] She came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a need. When she finished her need, he said, "Are you married?" She said, "Yes." He said, "How do you treat him?" She said, "I do not cause him trouble except with what I am not capable of." He said, "Look at where you are in relation to him, for indeed he is your paradise and your hell." (Narrated by Ahmad ibn Sulayman)  

أَنَّهَا أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ لِحَاجَةٍ فَلَمَّا فَرَغَ مِنْ حَاجَتِهَا قَالَ «أَذَاتُ زَوْجٍ أَنْتِ؟» قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ «فَكَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟» قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا أَعْجَزُ عَنْهُ قَالَ «انْظُرِي أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّهُ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ» 8915 أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَتْنِي عَمَّتِي أَنَّهَا أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ 8916 أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ [186] 8917 أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ يَعْنِي الْقَطَّانَ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ وَهُوَ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ 8918 أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ أَنَّ بُشَيْرَ بْنَ يَسَارٍ أَخْبَرَهُ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ 8919 أَخْبَرَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْأَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي مَالِكٌ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بَشِيرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَمَّةً لَهُ أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ نَحْوَهُ  

[Machine] She entered upon the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to ask him about something, so he said, "Are you married?" She said, "Yes." He said, "How are you towards him?" She said, "O Messenger of Allah, I do not harm him." He said, "Then be good towards him, for he is your Paradise and your Hell."  

أَنَّهَا دَخَلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ لِتَسْأَلَهُ عَنْ شَيْءٍ فَقَالَ «أَذَاتُ زَوْجٍ أَنْتِ؟» قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ «فَكَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟» قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ لَا آلُوهُ قَالَ «فَأَحْسِنِي فَإِنَّهُ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ»  

The Prophet ﷺ said, "If a woman spends the night deserting her husband's bed (does not sleep with him), then the angels send their curses on her till she comes back (to her husband). (Using translation from Bukhārī 5194)   

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِذَا بَاتَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ هَاجِرَةً لِفِرَاشِ زَوْجِهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تَرْجِعَ»  

“When a man calls his wife to fulfill his need, then let her come, even if she is at the oven.” (Using translation from Tirmidhī 1160)   

سَمِعْتُ نَبِيَّ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا الرَّجُلُ دَعَا زَوْجَتَهُ لِحَاجَتِهِ فَلْتَأْتِهِ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ عَلَى التَّنُّورِ»  

I said: Messenger of Allah, from whom should we conceal our private parts and to whom can we show? He replied: conceal your private parts except from your wife and from whom your right hands possess (slave-girls). I then asked: Messenger of Allah, (what should we do), if the people are assembled together? He replied: If it is within your power that no one looks at it, then no one should look at it. I then asked: Messenger of Allah if one of us is alone, (what should he do)? He replied: Allah is more entitled than people that bashfulness should be shown to him. (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 4017)   

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ عَوْرَاتُنَا مَا نَأْتِي مِنْهَا وَمَا نَذَرُ؟ قَالَ «احْفَظْ عَوْرَتَكَ إِلَّا مِنْ زَوْجَتِكَ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ يَمِينُكَ» قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَإِذَا كَانَ الْقَوْمُ بَعْضُهُمْ فِي بَعْضٍ قَالَ «إِنِ اسْتَطَعْتَ أَنْ لَا يَرَى أَحَدٌ عَوْرَتَكَ فَافْعَلْ» قُلْتُ فَإِذَا كَانَ أَحَدُنَا خَالِيًا فَقَالَ «فَاللهُ أَحَقُّ أَنْ يُسْتَحْيَى مِنَ النَّاسِ»  

[Machine] It was said to the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , that the Jews say when a man approaches his wife from behind, the child will have a squint. So he replied, "The Jews have lied." Then the verse was revealed: "Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish" [Surah Al-Baqarah 2:223].  

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قِيلَ لَهُ إِنَّ الْيَهُودَ تَقُولُ إِذَا جَاءَ الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ مُجَبَّاةً جَاءَ الْوَلَدُ أَحْوَلُ فَقَالَ «كَذَبَتْ يَهُودُ» فَنَزَلَتْ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223]  

[Machine] He used to say that the Jews used to say that when a woman is approached from behind and then becomes pregnant, her child will have a closer resemblance to the one who approached her. Then this verse was revealed: "Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish" [Al-Baqarah 223]. Abdur-Rahman bin Abdullah bin Abdil-Hakam informed us, saying: Ibn Abu Maryam narrated to us, saying: Yahya bin Ayyub informed me, and others mentioned that Ibn Hadd narrated to them from Muhammad bin Al-Munkadir from Jabir, similarly.  

أَنَّهُ كَانَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ يَهُودَ كَانَتْ تَقُولُ إِذَا أُتِيَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ مِنْ دُبُرِهَا ثُمَّ حَمَلَتْ كَانَ وَلَدُهَا أَحْوَلَ فَنَزَلَتْ هَذِهِ الْآيَةُ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223] 8926 أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْحَكَمِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي يَحْيَى بْنُ أَيُّوبَ وَذَكَرَ آخَرُ أَنَّ ابْنَ الْهَادِ حَدَّثَهُمَا عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ عَنْ جَابِرٍ نَحْوَهُ  

When a man has intercourse with his wife through the vagina but being on her back. the child will have squint, so the verse came down:" Your wives are your tilth; go then unto your tilth as you may desire" (ii. 223) (Using translation from Muslim 1435a)   

كَانَتِ الْيَهُودُ تَقُولُ فِي الرَّجُلِ يَأْتِي امْرَأَتَهُ مِنْ قِبَلِ دُبُرِهَا فِي قُبُلِهَا إِنَّ الْوَلَدَ يَكُونُ أَحْوَلَ فَنَزَلَتْ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223]  

"'Umar came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I am ruined!' He said: 'Why are you ruined?' He said: 'I turned my mount during the night (meaning that he went into his wife from behind).'" He said: "So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ did not say anything in reply to him. Then Allah revealed this Ayah to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ: 'Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth when or how you will (2:223).' From the front, the back, avoiding the anus, and menstruation." (Using translation from Tirmidhī 2980)   

جَاءَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَلَكْتُ قَالَ «وَمَا الَّذِي أَهْلَكَكَ؟» قَالَ حَوَّلْتُ رَحْلِي اللَّيْلَةَ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيْهِ شَيْئًا فَأُوحِيَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ هَذِهِ الْآيَةُ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223] يَقُولُ «أَقْبِلْ وَأَدْبِرْ وَاتَّقِ الدُّبُرَ وَالْحَيْضَةَ»  

[Machine] "Oh Beneficial One, do you know the meaning of this verse? We, the people of Quraysh, used to choose our wives. But when we entered the city and married the women of the Ansar, we wanted them to be like our previous wives. However, they disliked that and considered it a greater burden. The women of the Ansar allowed intimacy only while lying on their sides. So, Allah, the Most High, revealed the following verse: 'Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish.' [Quran 2:223]"  

يَا نَافِعُ هَلْ تَعْلَمُ مَا أَمْرُ هَذِهِ الْآيَةِ إِنَّا كُنَّا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ نُجَبِّي النِّسَاءَ فَلَمَّا دَخَلْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ وَنَكَحْنَا نِسَاءَ الْأَنْصَارِ أَرَدْنَا مِنْهُنَّ مِثْلَ مَا كُنَّا نُرِيدُ مِنْ نِسَائِنَا فَإِذَا هُنَّ قَدْ كَرِهْنَ ذَلِكَ وَأَعْظَمْنَهُ وَكَانَتْ نِسَاءُ الْأَنْصَارِ إِنَّمَا يُؤْتَيْنَ عَلَى جُنُوبِهِنَّ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223]  

[Machine] "There is no problem with it."  

«لَا بَأْسَ بِهِ»  

[Machine] Ma'anun wa sami'tu Malikun yaqulu "ma 'alimtu haraman."

Translation: Ma'anun and I heard Malik saying, "I didn't know it was forbidden."  

مَعْنٌ وَسَمِعْتُ مَالِكًا يَقُولُ «مَا عَلِمْتُ حَرَامًا»  

[Machine] "A man came to his wife from behind during the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and found something intense in that regard. Allah the Almighty revealed the verse, 'Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish' (Quran 2:223). Hisham ibn Saad disagreed with him, and Zaid ibn Aslam narrated it from Ata ibn Yasar."  

أَنَّ رَجُلًا أَتَى امْرَأَتَهُ فِي دُبُرِهَا فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَوَجَدَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ وَجْدًا شَدِيدًا فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223] خَالَفَهُ هِشَامُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ فَرَوَاهُ عَنْ زَيْدِ بْنِ أَسْلَمَ عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ  

That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)   

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] He heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "Surely Allah is not shy of the truth." He repeated it three times, saying, "Do not approach women in their private parts."  

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ» يَقُولُهَا ثَلَاثًا «لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ»  

That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)   

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] He (Abu Abdur Rahman) narrated that he heard the Prophet ﷺ saying, "Allah does not feel shy of the truth." He repeated it three times, "Do not approach women from behind." Ubaidullah ibn Abdullah said, "Al-Walid ibn Kathir narrated this hadith."  

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَقُولُ «لَا يَسْتَحِيي اللهُ مِنَ الْحَقِّ» يَقُولُهَا ثَلَاثًا «لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ» قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ رَوَاهُ الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ فَقَالَ عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ  

[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "Indeed, Allah is not shy of the truth. Do not approach women in their private parts."  

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "O people, indeed Allah does not feel shy from the truth, so do not approach women during their menstrual cycle."  

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَعْجَازِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ prohibited giving a woman from her back.  

أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ «نَهَى أَنْ تُؤْتَى الْمَرْأَةُ مِنْ قِبَلِ دُبُرِهَا»  

That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)   

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)   

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ لَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Allah is not too shy to tell the truth,” three times. “Do not have intercourse with women in their buttocks.” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1924)   

عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ لَا يَسْتَحِيي مِنَ الْحَقِّ فَلَا تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Indeed, Allah forbids you from approaching women from behind."  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ اللهَ يَنْهَاكُمْ أَنْ تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] I heard Khuzaymah ibn Thabit saying that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, Allah forbids you from approaching women from behind."  

لَسَمِعْتُ خُزَيْمَةَ بْنَ ثَابِتٍ يَقُولُ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ يَنْهَاكُمْ أَنْ تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, Allah forbids you from approaching women from behind." This is a summary.  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ اللهَ يَنْهَاكُمْ أَنْ تَأْتُوا النِّسَاءَ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ» مُخْتَصَرٌ