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[Machine] "Oh Beneficial One, do you know the meaning of this verse? We, the people of Quraysh, used to choose our wives. But when we entered the city and married the women of the Ansar, we wanted them to be like our previous wives. However, they disliked that and considered it a greater burden. The women of the Ansar allowed intimacy only while lying on their sides. So, Allah, the Most High, revealed the following verse: 'Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish.' [Quran 2:223]"  

الكبرى للنسائي:٨٩٢٩أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَعِيدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ نُفَيْلٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ عِيسَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْمُفَضَّلُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ عَنْ كَعْبِ بْنِ عَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِي النَّضْرِ أَنَّهُ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ لِنَافِعٍ مَوْلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ قَدْ أَكْثَرَ عَلَيْكَ الْقَوْلَ أَنَّكَ تَقُولُ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ أَنَّهُ §أَفْتَى بِأَنْ يُؤْتَى النِّسَاءُ فِي أَدْبَارِهِنَّ قَالَ نَافِعٌ لَقَدْ كَذَبُوا عَلَيَّ وَلَكِنِّي سَأُخْبِرُكَ كَيْفَ كَانَ الْأَمْرُ إِنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ عَرَضَ الْمُصْحَفَ يَوْمًا وَأَنَا عِنْدَهُ حَتَّى بَلَغَ {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223] قَالَ

يَا نَافِعُ هَلْ تَعْلَمُ مَا أَمْرُ هَذِهِ الْآيَةِ إِنَّا كُنَّا مَعْشَرَ قُرَيْشٍ نُجَبِّي النِّسَاءَ فَلَمَّا دَخَلْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ وَنَكَحْنَا نِسَاءَ الْأَنْصَارِ أَرَدْنَا مِنْهُنَّ مِثْلَ مَا كُنَّا نُرِيدُ مِنْ نِسَائِنَا فَإِذَا هُنَّ قَدْ كَرِهْنَ ذَلِكَ وَأَعْظَمْنَهُ وَكَانَتْ نِسَاءُ الْأَنْصَارِ إِنَّمَا يُؤْتَيْنَ عَلَى جُنُوبِهِنَّ فَأَنْزَلَ اللهُ تَعَالَى {نِسَاؤُكُمْ حَرْثٌ لَكُمْ فَأْتُوا حَرْثَكُمْ أَنَّى شِئْتُمْ} [البقرة 223]