The Prophet ﷺ said: There is jealousy which Allah loves and jealousy which Allah hates. That which Allah loves is jealousy regarding a matter of doubt, and that which Allah hates is jealousy regarding something which is not doubtful. There is pride which Allah hates and pride which Allah loves. That which Allah loves is a man's pride when fighting and when giving sadaqah and that which Allah hates is pride shown by oppression. The narrator Musa said: "by boasting." (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2659)   

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ وَمِنَ الْخُيَلَاءِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ فَأَمَّا الْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ فَالْغَيْرَةُ فِي رِيبَةٍ وَأَمَّا الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُ فَالْغَيْرَةُ فِي غَيْرِ الرِّيبَةِ وَأَمَّا الْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ أَنْ يَتَخَيَّلَ الْعَبْدُ بِنَفْسِهِ لِلَّهِ عِنْدَ الْقِتَالِ وَأَنْ يَتَخَيَّلَ بِالصَّدَقَةِ  

[Machine] He informed him that his father was one of the companions of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, that the Prophet ﷺ said: "Verily, jealousy has some meanings." And he mentioned its meaning, and he said: "The jealousy that Allah loves is when a man is keen in war and keen in charity, and the jealousy that Allah hates is when a man is keen in rebellion or, he said, in pride."  

أَخْبَرَهُ وَكَانَ أَبُوهُ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ إِنَّ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ فَذَكَرَ مَعْنَاهُ وَقَالَ الْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ اخْتِيَالُ الرَّجُلِ فِي الْقِتَالِ وَاخْتِيَالُهُ فِي الصَّدَقَةِ وَالْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُ الْخُيَلَاءُ فِي الْبَغْيِ أَوْ قَالَ فِي الْفَخْرِ  

[Machine] "Do you know where the Messenger of Allah ﷺ prayed from your mosque here?" So I said, "Yes," and I pointed him in a certain direction. He said, "Do you know what are the three things he supplicated for in it?" So I said, "Yes." He said, "Then inform me of them." So I said, "He supplicated that their enemies should not be able to triumph over them besides themselves, and that they should not be destroyed by famine for years, so He granted them that. And he supplicated that their mutual enmity should not cause mutual harm between them. This is what prevented me from giving you information." He said, "You have spoken the truth. The mischief caused by the war will continue until the Day of Resurrection."  

لِي هَلْ تَدْرِي أَيْنَ صَلَّىرَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ مِنْ مَسْجِدِكُمْ هَذَا؟ فَقُلْتُ نَعَمْ فَأَشَرْتُ لَهُ إِلَى نَاحِيَةٍ مِنْهُ فَقَالَ هَلْ تَدْرِي مَا الثَّلَاثُ الَّتِي دَعَا بِهِنَّ فِيهِ؟ فَقُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَأَخْبِرْنِي بِهِنَّ فَقُلْتُ دَعَا بِأَنْ لَا يُظْهِرَ عَلَيْهِمْ عَدُوًّا مِنْ غَيْرِهِمْ وَلَا يُهْلِكَهُمْ بِالسِّنِينَ فَأُعْطِيَهُمَا وَدَعَا بِأَنْ لَا يَجْعَلَ بَأْسَهُمْ بَيْنَهُمْ فَمَنَعَنِيهَا قَالَ صَدَقْتَ فَلَا يَزَالُ الْهَرْجُ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, from jealousy there is what Allah loves and from it there is what Allah hates. And from arrogance there is what Allah loves and from it there is what Allah hates. So, the jealousy Allah loves is jealousy in suspicion, and the jealousy Allah hates is jealousy without suspicion. And the arrogance that Allah loves is the servant's confidence in himself for the sake of Allah during battle, and his confidence in giving charity. And the arrogance that Allah hates is arrogance in pride and arrogance, or like the one who said, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said...'"  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ وَمِنَ الْخُيَلَاءِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ فَالْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ الْغَيْرَةُ فِي الرِّيبَةِ وَالْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُ الْغَيْرَةُ فِي غَيْرِ رِيبَةٍ وَالْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ اخْتِيَالُ الْعَبْدِ بِنَفْسِهِ لِلَّهِ عِنْدَ الْقِتَالِ وَاخْتِيَالُهُ بِالصَّدَقَةِ وَالْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُالْخُيَلَاءُ فِي الْفَخْرِ وَالْكِبْرِ أَوْ كَالَّذِي قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ  

[Machine] I entered with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to visit a deceased person from the Ansar, and his family was crying. So I said, "Are you crying, while this is the Messenger of Allah?" The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Let them cry as long as they are with them, and when it is obligatory, they should not cry." Jabir said, "So I told this to Umar ibn Abdul Aziz, and he asked me, 'What is obligatory?' I said, 'When he is buried.'"  

دَخَلْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ فَقُلْتُ أَتَبْكُونَ وَهَذَا رَسُولُ اللهِ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ دَعْهُنَّ يَبْكِينَ مَا دَامَ عِنْدَهُنَّ فَإِذَا وَجَبَ فَلَا يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ جَبْرٌ فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهِ عُمَرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ فَقَالَ لِي مَاذَا وَجَبَ؟ قُلْتُ إِذَا أُدْخِلَ قَبْرَهُ  

The Prophet ﷺ said: There is jealousy which Allah loves and jealousy which Allah hates. That which Allah loves is jealousy regarding a matter of doubt, and that which Allah hates is jealousy regarding something which is not doubtful. There is pride which Allah hates and pride which Allah loves. That which Allah loves is a man's pride when fighting and when giving sadaqah and that which Allah hates is pride shown by oppression. The narrator Musa said: "by boasting." (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2659)   

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ إِنَّ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ وَإِنَّ مِنَ الْخُيَلَاءِ مَا يُحِبُّ اللهُ وَمِنْهَا مَا يُبْغِضُ اللهُ وَأَمَّا الْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ فَالْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي فِي الرِّيبَةِ وَأَمَّا الْغَيْرَةُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُ فَالْغَيْرَةُ فِي غَيْرِ الرِّيبَةِ وَأَمَّا الْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُحِبُّ اللهُ فَاخْتِيَالُ الرَّجُلِ بِنَفْسِهِ عِنْدَ الْقِتَالِ وَاخْتِيَالُهُ عِنْدَ الصَّدَقَةِ وَالْخُيَلَاءُ الَّتِي يُبْغِضُ اللهُ فَاخْتِيَالُ الرَّجُلِ فِي الْفَخْرِ وَالْبَغْيِ  

[Machine] To be a martyr, indeed you have sacrificed your life. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, Allah has decreed its reward according to one's intention. What do you consider martyrdom to be?" They said, "Being killed for the sake of Allah." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Martyrdom is seven, other than being killed for the sake of Allah: one who dies due to a plague is a martyr, one who dies drowning is a martyr, one who dies due to a disease in the abdomen is a martyr, one who dies due to a fire is a martyr, one who dies under a collapsing building is a martyr, one who dies as a result of childbirth is a martyr, and a woman who dies while defending her honor is a martyr."  

أَنْ تَكُونَ شَهِيدًا أَمَا إِنَّكَ قَدْ كُنْتَ قَضَيْتَ جِهَازَكَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ اللهَ قَدْ أَوْقَعَ أَجْرَهُ عَلَى قَدْرِ نِيَّتِهِ وَمَا تَعُدُّونَ الشَّهَادَةَ؟ قَالُوا قَتْلٌ فِي سَبِيلِاللهِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الشَّهَادَةُ سَبْعٌ سِوَى الْقَتْلِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ الْمَطْعُونُ شَهِيدٌ وَالْغَرِقُ شَهِيدٌ وَصَاحِبُ ذَاتِ الْجَنْبِ شَهِيدٌ وَالْمَبْطُونُ شَهِيدٌ وَصَاحِبُ الْحَرِيقِ شَهِيدٌ وَالَّذِي يَمُوتُ تَحْتَ الْهَدْمِ شَهِيدٌ وَالْمَرْأَةُ تَمُوتُ بِجُمْعٍ شَهِيدَةٌ  

[Machine] "I was in the delegation that came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the tribe of Abdul Qais. He said, 'I am not one of them, but I was with my father.' He said, 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ prohibited them from drinking from vessels made of copper, silver, gold, and brass.'"  

كُنْتُ فِي الْوَفْدِ الَّذِي أَتَوْا رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ مِنْ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ قَالَ وَلَسْتُ مِنْهُمْ وَإِنَّمَا كُنْتُ مَعَ أَبِي قَالَ فَنَهَاهُمْ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَنِ الشُّرْبِ فِي الْأَوْعِيَةِ الَّتِيسَمِعْتُمُ الدُّبَّاءِ وَالْحَنْتَمِ وَالنَّقِيرِ وَالْمُزَفَّتِ