"إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ، وَإنَّكَ إِنْ تُرِدْ إِقَامَةَ الضِلَع تَكْسِرْهَا، فَدَارها تَعِشْ بها".
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Collected by Bukhārī, Muslim, Dārimī, Aḥmad, Ḥākim, Ibn Ḥibbān, Ṭabarānī, SuyūṭīMessenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The woman is like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا وَإِنِ اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ
Woman is like a rib. When you attempt to straighten it, you would break it. And if you leave her alone you would benefit by her, and crookedness will remain in her.
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ كَالضِّلَعِ إِذَا ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهَا كَسَرْتَهَا وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهَا اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ
[AI] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and indeed, if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, treat her kindly, as there is goodness in her and she is your partner."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ فَإِنْ تُقِمْهَا كَسَرْتَهَا فَدَارِهَا فَإِنَّ فِيهَا أَوَدًا وَبُلْغَةً»
[AI] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, a woman is like a rib: if you straighten her, she will break; and if you enjoy her, you enjoy her with her flaw."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّمَا الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا وَإِنْ تَسْتَمْتِعْ بها تَسْتَمْتِعْ وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ»
[AI] I heard Samurah delivering a sermon on the pulpit of Basra, saying, "I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, 'Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and indeed, if you want to straighten it, you will break it, so leave it as it is and she will live with it.'"
سَمِعْتُ سَمُرَةَ يَخْطُبُ عَلَى مِنْبَرِ الْبَصْرَةِ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلْعٍ وَإِنَّكَ إِنْ تُرِدْ إِقَامَةَ الضِّلْعِ تَكْسِرْهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا
[AI] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "A woman is like a rib. If you try to straighten her, you will break her, and if you enjoy her, you will do so while she is bent."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ أَقَمْتَهَاكَسَرْتَهَا وَهِيَ يُسْتَمْتَعُ بِهَا عَلَى عِوَجٍ فِيهَا
[AI] The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, "Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and indeed, if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, be gentle with her as her curvedness allows her to live with you." He repeated this statement three times.
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «أَلَا إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ وَأَنَّكَ إِنْ تُرِدْ إِقَامَتَهَا تَكْسِرْهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا» ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ
ذِكْرُ الْأَمْرِ بِالْمُدَارَاةِ لِلرَّجُلِ مَعَ امْرَأَتِهِ إِذْ لَا حِيلَةَ لَهُ فِيهَا إِلَّا إِيَّاهَا
[AI] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, woman was created from a rib, and if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, do not try to straighten her and live with her in harmony."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ فَإِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا»
[AI] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "A woman is like a rib, if you try to straighten it, you will break it; so, leave her as she is and live with her."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِنَّمَا الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا»
"إِنَّما المرأة كالضِّلَعِ، إِنَّ أَقَمْتَها كسرتها فذرْها تَعِشْ بهَا".
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