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darimi:2267Muḥammad b. ʿAbdullāh al-Raqāshī > ʿAbd al-Wārith > al-Jurayrī > Abū al-ʿAlāʾ > Nuʿaym b. Qaʿnab > Abū Dhar

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and indeed, if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, treat her kindly, as there is goodness in her and she is your partner."  

الدارمي:٢٢٦٧أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الرَّقَاشِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ حَدَّثَنَا الْجُرَيْرِيُّ عَنْ أَبِي الْعَلَاءِ عَنْ نُعَيْمِ بْنِ قَعْنَبٍ عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ فَإِنْ تُقِمْهَا كَسَرْتَهَا فَدَارِهَا فَإِنَّ فِيهَا أَوَدًا وَبُلْغَةً»  


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hakim:7333Abū Sahl Aḥmad b. Muḥammad b. Ziyād al-Naḥwī > al-Ḥasan b. Mukram > Abū ʿĀṣim > ʿAwf > Abū Rajāʾ > Samurah b. Jundub

[Machine] The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, "Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and indeed, if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, be gentle with her as her curvedness allows her to live with you." He repeated this statement three times.  

الحاكم:٧٣٣٣أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو سَهْلٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ زِيَادٍ النَّحْوِيُّ بِبَغْدَادَ ثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ مُكْرَمٍ ثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ عَنْ عَوْفٍ عَنْ أَبِي رَجَاءٍ عَنْ سَمُرَةَ بْنِ جُنْدُبٍ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ «أَلَا إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ وَأَنَّكَ إِنْ تُرِدْ إِقَامَتَهَا تَكْسِرْهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا» ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ  

«هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ عَلَى شَرْطِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ» على شرط البخاري ومسلم

ذِكْرُ الْأَمْرِ بِالْمُدَارَاةِ لِلرَّجُلِ مَعَ امْرَأَتِهِ إِذْ لَا حِيلَةَ لَهُ فِيهَا إِلَّا إِيَّاهَا

ibnhibban:4178Abū Yaʿlá > Isḥāq b. Ibrāhīm al-Marwazī > Jaʿfar b. Sulaymān > ʿAwf > Abū Rajāʾ > Samurah b. Jundub

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, woman was created from a rib, and if you try to straighten her, you will break her. So, do not try to straighten her and live with her in harmony."  

ابن حبّان:٤١٧٨أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو يَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْمَرْوَزِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَوْفٌ عَنْ أَبِي رَجَاءٍ عَنْ سَمُرَةَ بْنِ جُنْدُبٍ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ فَإِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا فَدَارِهَا تَعِشْ بِهَا»  

nasai-kubra:9107al-Ḥusayn b. Ḥurayth > Ibn ʿUlayyah > Saʿīd al-Jurayrī > Abū al-Salīl > Nuʿaym b. Qaʿnab > Abū Dhar

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , said, "Indeed, woman was created from a rib, and if you try to straighten her, you will break her, and if you leave her, she will remain bent, and there is a crookedness in her."  

الكبرى للنسائي:٩١٠٧أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُلَيَّةَ عَنْ سَعِيدٍ الْجُرَيْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي السَّلِيلِ عَنْ نُعَيْمِ بْنِ قَعْنَبٍ أَنَّ أَبَا ذَرٍّ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلِقَتْ مِنْ ضِلَعٍ فَإِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقَوِّمُهَا تَكْسِرْهَا وَإِنْ تَدَعْهَا فَإِنَّ فِيهَا أَمَدًا وَبُلْغَةً»  

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"إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ خُلقَتْ مِنْ ضِلع فإنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقَوِّمُها تَكْسِرْهَا، وَإِنْ تَدَعْهَا فَفِيها أَوَدٌ ، وَبُلْغَةٌ".  

[حم] أحمد [ن] النسائي والدارمى، [ض] ضياء المقدسي في مختاره عن أَبى ذر