ذِكْرُ إِبَاحَةِ بُكَاءِ الْمَرْءِ عِنْدَ فَقْدِهِ وَلَدَهُ، أَوْ وَلَدَ وَلَدِهِ مَا لَمْ يُخَالِطِ الْبُكَاءَ حَالَةُ التَّسَخُّطِ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ ordered me, so I went to him with the daughter of Zainab, and she was trembling as if she were in a seizure. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "To Allah belongs what He takes and to Him belongs what He gives, and everything has a fixed term." Sa'd bin 'Ubada then said, "O Messenger of Allah, are you weeping or do you not forbid crying?" The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Verily, it is a sign of mercy that Allah has placed in the hearts of His servants. Verily, Allah only has mercy on His servants who are merciful."
أَمَرَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَأَتَيْتُهُ بِابْنَةِ زَيْنَبَ وَنَفْسُهَا تَقَعْقَعُ كَأَنَّهَا فِي شَنٍّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لِلَّهِ مَا أَخَذَ وَلَهُ مَا أَعْطَى وَكُلٌّ إِلَى أَجَلٍ» قَالَ فَدَمَعَتْ عَيْنَاهُ فَقَالَ لَهُ سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَتَرِقُّ أَوْلَمْ تَنْهَ عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّمَا هِيَ رَحْمَةٌ جَعَلَهَا اللَّهُ فِي قُلُوبِ عِبَادِهِ وَإِنَّمَا يَرْحَمُ اللَّهَ مِنْ عِبَادِهِ الرُّحَمَاءَ»