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abudawud:2142Mūsá b. Ismāʿīl > Ḥammād > Abū Qazaʿah al-Bāhilī > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah al-Qushayrī from his father

Mu'awiyah asked: Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the wife of one of us over him? He replied: That you should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not strike her on the face, do not revile her or separate yourself from her except in the house. Abu Dawud said: The meaning of "do not revile her" is, as you say: "May Allah revile you".  

أبو داود:٢١٤٢حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو قَزَعَةَ الْبَاهِلِيُّ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ قَالَ أَنْ تُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ أَوِ اكْتَسَبْتَ وَلاَ تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلاَ تُقَبِّحْ وَلاَ تَهْجُرْ إِلاَّ فِي الْبَيْتِ  

قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَلاَ تُقَبِّحْ أَنْ تَقُولَ قَبَّحَكِ اللَّهُ

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Collected by Ibn Mājah, Aḥmad, Ḥākim, Ṭabarānī, Nasāʾī's Kubrá, Bayhaqī, Suyūṭī
ibnmajah:1850Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Yazīd b. Hārūn > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

a man asked the Prophet ﷺ: “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan)  

ابن ماجة:١٨٥٠حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ عَنْ شُعْبَةَ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

أَنَّ رَجُلاً سَأَلَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى الزَّوْجِ قَالَ أَنْ يُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ وَأَنْ يَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى وَلاَ يَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلاَ يُقَبِّحْ وَلاَ يَهْجُرْ إِلاَّ فِي الْبَيْتِ  

ahmad:20013Yazīd > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

a man asked the Prophet ﷺ: “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan) (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1850)   

أحمد:٢٠٠١٣حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ أَخْبَرَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ سَأَلَهُ رَجُلٌ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى الزَّوْجِ؟ قَالَ تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ  

ahmad:20027ʿAbd al-Razzāq > Ibn Jurayj > Abū Qazaʿah And ʿAṭāʾ > a man from Banī Qushayrʿan Abīh

[Machine] He asked the Prophet ﷺ , "What are the rights of my wife upon me?" The Prophet ﷺ replied, "Feed her when you eat, clothe her when you dress, and do not hit her in the face or abandon her except within the house."  

أحمد:٢٠٠٢٧حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ جُرَيْجٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو قَزَعَةَ وَعَطَاءٌ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي قُشَيْرٍعَنْ أَبِيهِ

أَنَّهُ سَأَلَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ مَا حَقُّ امْرَأَتِي عَلَيَّ؟ قَالَ تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ  

hakim:2764Abū al-Naḍr Muḥammad b. Muḥammad b. Yūsuf al-Faqīh > ʿUthmān b. Saʿīd al-Dārimī > Mūsá b. Ismāʿīl > Ḥammād b. Salamah > Abū Qazaʿah Sūwayd b. Ḥujayr al-Bāhilī > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah al-Qushayrī from his father

[Machine] I asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife upon us?" He said, "To feed her when you eat, and to clothe her when you clothe yourself, and to avoid hitting her on the face, and to not insult her or abandon her except inside the house."  

الحاكم:٢٧٦٤أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو النَّضْرِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يُوسُفَ الْفَقِيهُ ثنا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الدَّارِمِيُّ ثنا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ ثنا أَبُو قَزَعَةَ سُوَيْدُ بْنُ حُجَيْرٍ الْبَاهِلِيُّ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ؟ قَالَ «أَنْ يُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ وَيَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى وَلَا يَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا يُقَبِّحْ وَلَا يَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحُ الْإِسْنَادِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ صحيح
tabarani:17145[Chain 1] al-Miqdām b. Dāwud > Asad b. Mūsá [Chain 2] Abū Muslim al-Kashhī > Abū ʿUmar al-Ḍarīr > Ḥammād b. Salamah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

[Machine] I said, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife over her husband?" He said, "He should feed her when he eats and clothe her when he clothes himself. He should not hit her on the face and should not abandon her except in the house."  

الطبراني:١٧١٤٥حَدَّثَنَا الْمِقْدَامُ بْنُ دَاوُدَ ثنا أَسَدُ بْنُ مُوسَى ح وَحَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُسْلِمٍ الْكَشِّيُّ ثنا أَبُو عُمَرَ الضَّرِيرُ قَالَا أنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ؟ قَالَ «يُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ وَيَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى وَلَا يَضْرِبُ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا يَهْجُرُهَا إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

tabarani:17149al-Ḥusayn b. Isḥāq al-Tustarī > ʿUthmān b. Abū Shaybah > Yaḥyá b. Abū Bukayr > Shibl b. ʿAbbād > Abū Qazaʿah > ʿAmr b. Dīnār > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

[Machine] I said, "O Messenger of Allah, what are the rights of a wife upon us?" He said, "You should feed her when you eat, clothe her when you wear clothes, do not strike her on the face, do not insult or abuse her, and do not abandon her except in the house."  

الطبراني:١٧١٤٩حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ التُّسْتَرِيُّ ثنا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي بُكَيْرٍ ثنا شِبْلُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا قَزَعَةَ يُحَدِّثُ عَمْرَو بْنَ دِينَارٍ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ؟ قَالَ «تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْهُ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

tabarani:17150ʿUbayd b. Ghannām > Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Yazīd b. Hārūn > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

[Machine] A man asked the Prophet ﷺ, "What are the rights of a woman on her husband?" He replied, "He should feed her when he eats, clothe her when he clothes himself, and not strike her face or insult her. He should not abandon her except within their home."  

الطبراني:١٧١٥٠حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ غَنَّامٍ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ثنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ عَنْ شُعْبَةَ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا سَأَلَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى الزَّوْجِ؟ قَالَ «يُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ وَيَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى وَلَا يَضْرِبُ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا يُقَبِّحُ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي بَيْتِكَ»  

nasai-kubra:9126ʿAbdah b. ʿAbdullāh > Yazīd > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

a man asked the Prophet ﷺ: “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan) (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1850)   

الكبرى للنسائي:٩١٢٦أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ سَأَلَهُ رَجُلٌ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا قَالَ «تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ وَلَا تُهْجَرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

nasai-kubra:9136Ibrāhīm b. Yaʿqūb > ʿAbdullāh b. Muḥammad b. ʿAlī b. Nufayl > Zuhayr > Muḥammad b. Juḥādah > al-Ḥajjāj al-Bāhilī > Sūwayd b. Ḥujayr > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

Mu'awiyah asked: Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the wife of one of us over him? He replied: That you should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not strike her on the face, do not revile her or separate yourself from her except in the house. Abu Dawud said: The meaning of "do not revile her" is, as you say: "May Allah revile you". (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2142)   

الكبرى للنسائي:٩١٣٦أَخْبَرَنِي إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَلِيِّ بْنِ نُفَيْلٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جُحَادَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي الْحَجَّاجُ الْبَاهِلِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُوَيْدُ بْنُ حُجَيْرٍ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ «مَا حَقُّ أَزْوَاجِنَا عَلَيْنَا؟» قَالَ «أَطْعِمْ إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَاكْسُ إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

قَوْلُهُ تَعَالَى: {وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ} [النساء: 34]

nasai-kubra:11038ʿAbdah b. ʿAbdullāh > Yazīd > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

a man asked the Prophet ﷺ: “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan) (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1850)   

الكبرى للنسائي:١١٠٣٨أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ أَخْبَرَنَا يَزِيدُ أَخْبَرَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ أَبِي قَزْعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ سَأَلَهُ رَجُلٌ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا؟ قَالَ «تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبُ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحُ وَلَا تَهْجُرُ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ»  

bayhaqi:14726Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū al-ʿAbbās Muḥammad b. Yaʿqūb > Yaḥyá b. Abū Ṭālib > Yazīd b. Hārūn > Shuʿbah > Abū Qazaʿah > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah from his father

a man asked the Prophet ﷺ: “What are the right of the woman over her husband?” He said: “That he should feed her as he feeds himself and clothe her as he clothes himself; he should not strike her on the face nor disfigure her, and he should not abandon her except in the house (as a form of discipline).” (Hassan) (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1850)   

البيهقي:١٤٧٢٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أنا أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ نا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ أنا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ أنا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ أَبِي قَزَعَةَ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا سَأَلَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ مَا حَقُّ الْمَرْأَةِ عَلَى الزَّوْجِ؟ قَالَ أَنْ يُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ وَيَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَى وَلَا يَهْجُرُ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ وَلَا يَضْرِبُ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا يُقَبِّحُ  

bayhaqi:14779Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū al-Naḍr Muḥammad b. Yūsuf al-Faqīh > ʿUthmān b. Saʿīd al-Dārimī > Mūsá b. Ismāʿīl > Ḥammād b. Salamah > Abū Qazaʿah Sūwayd b. Ḥujayr al-Bāhilī > Ḥakīm b. Muʿāwiyah al-Qushayrī from his father

Mu'awiyah asked: Messenger of Allah, what is the right of the wife of one of us over him? He replied: That you should give her food when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, do not strike her on the face, do not revile her or separate yourself from her except in the house. Abu Dawud said: The meaning of "do not revile her" is, as you say: "May Allah revile you". (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2142)   

البيهقي:١٤٧٧٩أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أنا أَبُو النَّضْرِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْفَقِيهُ نا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الدَّارِمِيُّ نا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ نا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ نا أَبُو قَزَعَةَ سُوَيْدُ بْنُ حُجَيْرٍ الْبَاهِلِيُّ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْقُشَيْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ؟ قَالَ أَنْ تُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ  

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السيوطي:٨٤٦١a

"أنْ تُطعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعمْتَ، وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ، وَلَا تَضْربَ الْوَجْهَ، وَلَا تُقبِّح، وَلَا تَهْجُر إِلَّا فِى البَيْتِ" .  

[د] أبو داود [هـ] ابن ماجة عن حكيم بن معاوية القشيرى عن أَبيه قال: قلت: يا رسول اللَّه مَا حَقُّ زَوْجَةِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ قال: فذكره
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السيوطي:١٣٥٣٤a

"حَقُّ المَرْأَه عَلَى الزَّوْجِ: أَنْ يُطعمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمَ، وَيَكْسُوَها إِذَا اكْتسَى، وَلَا يَضْرِبِ الوَجْهَ؛ وَلَا يُقبِّحْ وَلَا يَهْجُر إِلَّا فِى البَيْتِ".  

[د] أبو داود [ن] النسائي [هـ] ابن ماجة [طب] الطبرانى في الكبير [ك] الحاكم في المستدرك [ق] البيهقى في السنن عن حكيم بن معاوية عن أَبيه (معاوية) بن حيدة