47. Chapter
٤٧۔ كِتَابُ الْعِدَدِ
[Machine] A woman complained about her eyesight and they were concerned about her eyes. The Prophet ﷺ was asked about it and he said, "One of you used to stay in the hindquarters of her house until the time of Ihram (for Hajj) comes, and a dog passed by and threw dirt on her, then she went out for four months and ten days." This narrative is reported by Yahya, and in the narration of Abu Dawood, the Prophet ﷺ was asked, "Can she perform the Tahlil?" He replied, "No." And he said in the end, "No, until four months and ten days have passed."
أَنَّ امْرَأَةً تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا فَاشْتَكَتْ عَيْنَهَا وَخَشَوْا عَلَى عَيْنِهَا فَسُئِلَ عَنْ ذَلِكَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ قَالَ قَدْ كَانَتْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَمْكُثُ فِي شَرِّ أَحْلَاسِهَا فِي بَيْتِهَا إِلَى الْحَوْلِ فَمَرَّ كَلْبٌ رَمَتْ بِبَعْرَةٍ ثُمَّ خَرَجَتْ لَا أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا لَفْظُ حَدِيثِ يَحْيَى وَفِي رِوَايَةِ أَبِي دَاوُدَ فَسُئِلَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَتَكْتَحِلُ؟ فَقَالَ لَا وَقَالَ فِي آخِرِهِ لَا حَتَّى تَمْضِيَ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرٌ
[Machine] The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, "It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to fast for more than three days except with the permission of her husband. She should not beautify herself, comb her hair, or apply perfume except when she is in a state of purity. And she should not wear a dyed garment, except a garment made of 'asab fabric."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تُحِدَّ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ فَإِنَّهَا لَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَمْتَشِطُ وَلَا تَتَطَيَّبُ إِلَّا عِنْدَ أَدْنَى طُهْرَتِهَا وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ
‘Umm Athiyah reported the Prophet ﷺ as saying “A woman must not observe mourning for more than three (days) except for four months and ten days in the case of a husband and she must not wear a dyed garment except one of the types made of dyed yarn or apply collyrium or touch perfume except for a little costus or azfar when she has been purified after her menstrual courses. The narrator Ya’qub mentioned the words “except washed clothes” instead of the words “one of the types made of dyed yarn”. Ya’qub also added “She must not apply Henna” (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2302)
رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ نَهَى أَنْ تُحِدَّ الْمَرْأَةُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثَةِ أَيَّامٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ فَإِنَّهَا تُحِدُّ عَلَيْهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَمَسُّ طِيبًا إِلَّا إِلَى أَدْنَى طُهْرَتِهَا إِذَا طَهُرَتْ بِنُبْذَةٍ مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "It is not permissible for a believing woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to mourn for a deceased person for more than three days, except for her husband, for whom she should mourn for four months and ten days. She should not wear a dyed garment except for a garment made of 'Asab (a type of plant) and she should not apply perfume or touch perfume except when she is in a state of purity after washing herself from her menstruation or postpartum bleeding."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تُحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ فَإِنَّهَا تُحِدُّ عَلَيْهِ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَمَسُّ طِيبًا إِلَّا عِنْدَ أَدْنَى طُهْرِهَا إِذَا اغْتَسَلَتْ مِنْ حَيْضِهَا مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "It is not permissible for a believing woman to mourn for a deceased person for more than three days, except for her husband. In that case, she mourns for four months and ten days. She should not wear a dyed garment, nor a garment made of silk, nor adorn herself with kohl, nor apply perfume except when she has pure cleanliness, after she has purified herself from menstruation with a handful of water or with a nail, as he mentioned. And not a garment made of silk." I heard it reported by 'Isa ibn Yunus.
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا يَحِلُّ لِامْرَأَةٍ تُؤْمِنُ بِاللهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ أَنْ تُحِدَّ عَلَى هَالِكٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ فَإِنَّهَا تُحِدُّ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا وَلَا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ بِالْإِثْمِدِ وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تَمَسُّ طِيبًا إِلَّا عِنْدَ أَدْنَى طُهْرِهَا إِذَا تَطَهَّرَتْ مِنْ حَيْضِهَا بِنُبْذَةٍ مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ كَذَا قَالَ وَلَا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ وَبَلَغَنِي عنْ عِيسَى بْنِ يُونُسَ أَنَّهُ
We were forbidden to observe mourning for the dead beyond three days except in the case of husband (where it is permissible) for four months and ten days, and (that during this period) we should neither use collyrium nor touch perfume, nor wear dyed clothes, but concession was given to a woman when one of us was purified of our courses to make use of a little incense or scent. (Using translation from Muslim 938e)
نُحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا وَلَا نَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا نَتَطَيَّبُ وَلَا نَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصَبٍ وَقَدْ رَخَّصَ فِي طُهْرِهَا إِذَا اغْتَسَلَتْ إِحْدَانَا مِنْ مَحِيضِهَا فِي نُبْذَةٍ مِنْ قُسْطٍ أَوْ أَظْفَارٍ
[Machine] Narrated by Umm Salamah, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad, ﷺ , that the Prophet Muhammad, ﷺ , said: "The deceased should not be clothed in saffron-colored garments, with embroidery, jewelry, or a coating of henna. This is according to the narration of Ibrahim ibn Al-Harith, and As-Saghani added in his narration: "And Badayl ibn Maisarah told me that Al-Hasan ibn Muslim said: 'I have not seen them considering patience as a difficulty.'"
عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَنَّهُ قَالَ الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا لَا تَلْبَسُ الْمُعَصْفَرَ مِنَ الثِّيَابِ وَلَا الْمُمَشَّقَةَ وَلَا الْحُلِيَّ وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ لَفْظُ حَدِيثِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ وَزَادَ الصَّغَانِيُّ فِي رِوَايَتِهِ قَالَ وَحَدَّثَنِي بُدَيْلُ بْنُ مَيْسَرَةَ أَنَّ الْحَسَنَ بْنَ مُسْلِمٍ قَالَ لَمْ أَرَهُمْ يَرَوْنَ بِالصَّبْرِ بَأْسًا
[Machine] Do not dress the deceased in any dyed clothes. She should not wear makeup, adornments, jewelry, or apply perfume. And this is a prohibition.
لَا تَلْبَسُ الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا مِنَ الثِّيَابِ الْمُصَبَّغَةِ شَيْئًا وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَزَيَّنُ وَلَا تَلْبَسُ حُلِيًّا وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تُطَيِّبُ وَهَذَا مَوْقُوفٌ
[Machine] The deceased husband's wife does not wear makeup, perfume, or adorn herself. She does not wear anything other than a black dress. She does not spend the night anywhere other than her own house, but she visits during the day.
الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا لَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تُطَيِّبُ وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا السُّودَ الْمُعَصَّبَ وَلَا تَبِيتُ غَيْرَ بَيْتِهَا وَلَكِنْ تَزُورُ بِالنَّهَارِ