"إِيَّاكُمْ وكُفْرَ المُنْعِمِينَ، قِيلَ وَمَا كُفْرُ المُنْعِمِينَ؟ قَالَ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَكُنَّ أَنْ تَطُولَ أيْمَتُها أوْ تَعْنَسَ عِنْدَ أبَوَيهَا ثُمَّ يَرْزُقهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللَّهُ وَلدًا، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الغَضْبَة فَتكْفُرُهُ فَتَقُولُ: وَاللَّهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطَّ".
[Machine] I heard Asma bint Yazid, one of the women of Banu Abd al-Ashhal, saying, "The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by us while we were in a group of women, and he greeted us and said, 'Beware of the curse of those who are privileged.' So we asked, 'O Messenger of Allah, what is the curse of the privileged?' He replied, 'Perhaps one of you may lengthen her hand between her parents and become a spinster, so Allah will provide her with a husband, wealth, and children. Then she will become angry and say, 'I have never seen any good from him.' But there was a time when he was the best for her.'
سَمِعْتُ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ بَنِي عَبْدِ الْأَشْهَلِ تَقُولُ مَرَّ بِنَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَنَحْنُ فِي نِسْوَةٍ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ فَقُلْنَا يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ قَالَ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَطُولَ أَيْمَتُهَا بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهَا وَتَعْنُسَ فَيَرْزُقَهَا اللهُ ﷻ زَوْجًا وَيَرْزُقَهَا مِنْهُ مَالًا وَوَلَدًا فَتَغْضَبَ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَقُولُ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْهُ يَوْمًا خَيْرًا قَطُّ وَقَالَ مَرَّةً خَيْرًا قَطُّ
[Machine] It is narrated that the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ passed by a group of women and greeted them. Then, he said, "Beware of the disbelievers among the Mut'anammimun (a specific group of people)." One of the women asked, "O Messenger of Allah, what is the disbelief of the Mut'anammimun?" He replied, "Perhaps one of you lets her hair grow excessively long or she cuts off ties with her parents. Then, Allah may bless her with a husband and she may bear a child from him. But then, she becomes angry with her husband and disbelieves in him, saying, 'By Allah, I have never seen any good from you.'"
أَنَّهَا بَيْنَا هِيَ فِي نِسْوَةٍ مَرَّ عَلَيْهِنَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَسَلَّمَ ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ» قَالَتْ وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ يَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا أَوْ تَعْنُسُ عَنْ أَبَوَيْهَا ثُمَّ لَعَلَّ اللهَ يَرْزُقُهَا زَوْجًا ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا مِنْهُ وَلَدًا فَيَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَكَفَّرَهُ فَيَقُولُ وَاللهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by me while I was with some women, so he greeted us and said, "Beware of the ingratitude of those who are well-off." I asked, "What is the ingratitude of those who are well-off?" He said, "Perhaps one of you has a long period of infertility, and then Allah blesses her with a husband and wealth and children. But she becomes angry and denies the blessings, saying, 'I have never seen any good from you.'"
مَرَّ بِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَأَنَا فِي نِسْوَةٍ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا فَقَالَ «إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ» قُلْتُ وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ قَالَ وَلَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا بَيْنَ أَبَوَيْهَا وَتَعْنُسُ فَيَرْزُقَهَا اللهُ زَوْجًا وَيَرْزُقَهَا مِنْهُ مَالًا وَوَلَدًا فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتُكَفِّرُهَا فَتَقُولُ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ passed by me while I was sitting with some friends, and he said, "Beware of the curse of the one who is grateful." I was the boldest among them to ask him, so I said, "O Messenger of Allah, what is the curse of the one who is grateful?" He replied, "Perhaps one of you will have a long life with her parents, then Allah will bless her with a husband and children. Then she gets angry and disbelieves, saying, 'By Allah, I have never seen any good from you.'"
مَرَّ بِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَأَنَا فِي جِوَارِ أَتْرَابٍ فَقَالَ «إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ» وَكُنْتُ أَجْرَأَ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ مِنْ غَيْرِي فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ؟ فَقَالَ «لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ يَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا عِنْدَ أَبَوَيْهَا ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللهُ زَوْجًا وَيَرْزُقُهَا وَلَدًا ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ فَتَكْفُرُهَا تَقُولُ وَاللهِ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ»
"إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ المُنْعِمِينَ، إِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُها اللَّهُ البَعْلَ
وتَفِيدُ الوَلَدَ وَقُرَّةَ العَيْنِ، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الغَضْبَة فَتُقْسِمُ بِاللَّهِ مَا رَأَتْ مِنْهُ سَاعةً خيْرًا قَط، فَذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَم اللَّهِ، وذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَم اللَّهِ، وذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَمِ اللَّهِ".
"عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ يَزِيدَ قَالَتْ: مَرَّ بِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَأَنَا فِي جَوار أَتْرَابٍ فَقَالَ: إِيَّاكُن وَكُفْرَ المُنْعِمِينَ [وَكُنْتُ أَجْرَأَ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ مِنْ غَيْرِي] فَقُلْتُ: يَا رَسول الله: وما كفر المنعمين؟ قَال: لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ يَطولَ أَيمتُهَا عِنْدَ أَبَوَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللهُ - تَعَالَى - زَوْجًا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللهُ - تَعَالَى - وَلَدًا، ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الغَضْبَةَ فَتَكْفُرُهَا، فَتَقُولُ: مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ".