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hakim:1391my father

[Machine] We were with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ close to a thousand riders, so he stopped with us and prayed two units of prayer. Then he turned to us with his face, and his eyes were shedding tears. Umar approached him and said, "May my mother and father be sacrificed for you, O Messenger of Allah! What's wrong with you?" He said, "I sought permission from my Lord to seek forgiveness for my mother, but He did not grant me permission. So, my eyes shed tears out of mercy for her. And I sought permission from my Lord to visit her grave, and He granted me permission. And indeed, I had prohibited you from visiting graves, but now visit them, as it will increase you in goodness."  

الحاكم:١٣٩١أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الثَّقَفِيُّ ثنا أَبُو شُعَيْبٍ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْحَرَّانِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ النُّفَيْلِيُّ ثنا زُهَيْرٌ ثنا زُبَيْدٌ عَنْ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ دِثَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَرِيبًا مِنْ أَلْفِ رَاكِبٍ فَنَزَلَ بِنَا وَصَلَّى بِنَا رَكْعَتَيْنِ ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ فَقَامَ إِلَيْهِ عُمَرُ فَفَدَاهُ بِالْأُمِّ وَالْأَبِ يَقُولُ مَا لَكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ؟ قَالَ «إِنِّي اسْتَأْذَنْتُ رَبِّي فِي الِاسْتِغْفَارِ لِأُمِّي فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لِي فَدَمَعَ عَيْنَايَ رَحْمَةً لَهَا وَاسْتَأْذَنْتُ رَبِّي فِي زِيَارَتِهَا فَأَذِنَ لِي وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ قَدْ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فَزُورُوهَا وَلْيَزِدْكُمْ زِيَارَتُهَا خَيْرًا»  

هَذَا حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ عَلَى شَرْطِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ وَلَمْ يُخَرِّجَاهُ

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ahmad:23003Ḥasan b. Mūsá And ʾAḥmad b. ʿAbd al-Malik > Zuhayr

[Machine] "We were with the Prophet ﷺ , when we descended with him, and we were close to a thousand riders. He then performed two rak'ahs of prayer, and then turned towards us with tears flowing from his eyes. Umar ibn al-Khattab went up to him and said, 'May my mother and father be sacrificed for you, O Messenger of Allah. What is the matter with you?' He replied, 'I asked my Lord for forgiveness for my mother, but He did not grant me permission. So, my eyes shed tears of mercy for her from the Fire. And I had forbidden you from three things: visiting graves, but now visit them, for it will remind you of the Hereafter. I had also forbidden you from consuming sacrificial meat after three days, so now eat and hold onto whatever you wish. And I had forbidden you from drinking from containers, so now drink from any vessel you prefer, and do not consume intoxicants.'"  

أحمد:٢٣٠٠٣حَدَّثَنَا حَسَنُ بْنُ مُوسَى وَأَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ قَالَ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ فِي حَدِيثِهِ حَدَّثَنَا زُبَيْدُ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ الْيَامِيُّ عَنْ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ دِثَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَنَزَلَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَهُ قَرِيبٌ مِنْ أَلْفِ رَاكِبٍ فَصَلَّى رَكْعَتَيْنِ ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ فَقَامَ إِلَيْهِ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ فَفَدَاهُ بِالْأَبِ وَالْأُمِّ يَقُولُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا لَكَ؟ قَالَ إِنِّي سَأَلْتُ رَبِّي فِي اسْتِغْفَارٍ لِأُمِّي فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لِي فَدَمَعَتْ عَيْنَايَ رَحْمَةً لَهَا مِنَ النَّارِ وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ ثَلَاثٍ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فَزُورُوهَا لِتُذَكِّرَكُمْ زِيَارَتُهَا خَيْرًا وَنَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ لُحُومِ الْأَضَاحِيِّ بَعْدَ ثَلَاثٍ فَكُلُوا وَأَمْسِكُوا مَا شِئْتُمْ وَنَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنِ الْأَشْرِبَةِ فِي الْأَوْعِيَةِ فَاشْرَبُوافِي أَيِّ وِعَاءٍ شِئْتُمْ وَلَا تَشْرَبُوا مُسْكِرًا  

ذِكْرُ الْبَيَانِ بِأَنَّ إِبَاحَةَ الْمُصْطَفَى ﷺ الشُّرْبَ فِي الظُّرُوفِ إِنَّمَا كَانَ ذَلِكَ خَلَا الشَّيْءَ الَّذِي يُسْكِرُ كَثِيرُهُ

ibnhibban:5390al-Ḥusayn b. Muḥammad b. Abū Maʿshar > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. ʿAmr al-Bajalī > Zuhayr b. Muʿāwiyah > Zubayd al-Iyāmī > Muḥārib b. Dithār > Ibn Buraydah from his father

[Machine] "We were with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ during a journey. He stopped with us when we were near a thousand riders, and he prayed two units of prayer with us. Then he faced us with his face and his eyes filled with tears. Umar approached him and said, 'May my father and mother be sacrificed for you, O Messenger of Allah! What is the matter with you?' He ﷺ said, 'I requested permission to seek forgiveness for my mother, but it was not granted to me. So my eyes shed tears out of mercy for her from the Fire. And I had forbidden you from three things: visiting graves, but now visit them and it will increase your goodness; meat from sacrificed animals after three days, but now you may eat it or withhold as you wish; and drinking from vessels, but now you may drink from any vessel and do not consume intoxicants.'"  

ابن حبّان:٥٣٩٠أَخْبَرَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي مَعْشَرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَمْرٍو الْبَجَلِيُّ* قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنْ زُبَيْدٍ الْإِيَامِيِّ عَنْ مُحَارِبِ بْنِ دِثَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ

كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي سَفَرٍ فَنَزَلَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ قَرِيبٌ مِنْ أَلْفِ رَاكِبٍ فَصَلَّى بِنَا رَكْعَتَيْنِ ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ فَقَامَ إِلَيْهِ عُمَرُ فَفَدَّاهُ بِالْأَبِ وَالْأُمِّ وَقَالَ مَا لَكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ؟ فَقَالَ ﷺ «إِنِّي اسْتَأْذَنْتُ فِي الِاسْتِغْفَارِ لِأُمِّي فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ لِي فَدَمَعَتْ عَيْنِي رَحْمَةً لَهَا مِنَ النَّارِ وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ ثَلَاثٍ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فَزُورُوهَا وَلْتَزِدْكُمْ زِيَارَتُهَا خَيْرًا وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ لُحُومِ الْأَضَاحِي بَعْدَ ثَلَاثٍ فَكُلُوا وَأَمْسِكُوا مَا شِئْتُمْ وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنِ الْأَشْرِبَةِ فِي الْأَوْعِيَةِ فَاشْرَبُوا فِي أَيِّ وِعَاءٍ شِئْتُمْ وَلَا تَشْرَبُوا مُسْكِرًا»  

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السيوطي:٨٢٢٤a

"إِنِّى اسْتَأذنْتُ رَبِّى في الاسْتِغْفَار لأُمِّى فَلَمْ يَأْذَن لِى فَدَمَعَ عَيْنَاى رَحْمَةً لَهَا، واسْتأْذَنْتُ ربى فِى زِيَارَتِهَا فأَذَن لِى، وَإِنِّى كُنتُ نهَيْتُكمْ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فزُورُهَا وَلْتَزِدْكُمْ زيَارَتُهَا خيْرًا) .  

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