Muhammad bin Salamah said: “I proposed marriage to a woman, then I hid and waited to see her until I saw her among some date palm trees that belonged to her.” It was said to him: “Do you do such a thing when you are a companion of the Messenger of Allah?” He said: “I heard the Messenger of Allah saying: 'When Allah causes a man to propose to a woman, there is nothing wrong with him looking at her.' ”

خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً فَجَعَلْتُ أَتَخَبَّأُ لَهَا حَتَّى نَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا فِي نَخْلٍ لَهَا فَقِيلَ لَهُ أَتَفْعَلُ هَذَا وَأَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِذَا أَلْقَى اللَّهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلاَ بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا

[AI] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, "When Allah casts a love speech in the heart of a person for a woman, it is not wrong for him to look at her."

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِذَا أَلْقَى الله ﷻ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةً لِامْرَأَةٍفَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا

Muhammad bin Salamah said: “I proposed marriage to a woman, then I hid and waited to see her until I saw her among some date palm trees that belonged to her.” It was said to him: “Do you do such a thing when you are a companion of the Messenger of Allah?” He said: “I heard the Messenger of Allah saying: 'When Allah causes a man to propose to a woman, there is nothing wrong with him looking at her.' ” (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 1864)

أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا فَقُلْتُ أَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَتَفْعَلُ هَذَا؟ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِذَا أَلْقَى اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا

[AI] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "When Allah casts a love for a woman in the heart of a man, it is not wrong for him to look at her."

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ إِذَا قَذَفَ اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا

[AI] I was sitting with Muhammad ibn Muslama, when the daughter of Dahak ibn Khalifa passed by. Muhammad began to look at her intently, so I said, "Glory be to Allah! You are the companion of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and yet you do this?!" He replied, "I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, 'If Allah places the speech of a woman in a man's heart, it is not a sin for him to look at her.'"

كُنْتُ جَالِسًا مَعَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ فَمَرَّتِ ابْنَةُ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ خَلِيفَةَ فَجَعَلَ يُطَارِدُهَا بِبَصَرِهِ فَقُلْتُ سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ تَفْعَلُ هَذَا وَأَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللَّهُ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فِي قَلْبِ رَجُلٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا»

[AI] I saw Muhammad ibn Muslimah chasing the daughter of Al-Dhahak on a running horse from the outskirts of the city, observing her. So I said to him, "Are you doing this while you are the companion of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ ?" He replied, "Yes, I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, 'When Allah places a speech of desire in the heart of a person towards a woman, it is not wrong for him to look at her.'"

رَأَيْتُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ مَسْلَمَةَ يُطَارِدُ ابْنَةَ الضَّحَّاكِ عَلَى إِنْجَارٍ مِنْ أَنَاجِيرِ الْمَدِينَةِ يُبْصِرُهَا فَقُلْتُ لَهُ أَتَفْعَلُ هَذَا وَأَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللَّهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا»

[AI] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: "When Allah casts the proposal of a woman into the heart of a man, there is no harm in him looking at her." This is what Yahya ibn Al-Ala'a reported from Al-Hajjaj, from Muhammad ibn Uthman.

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ رَجُلٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا» هَكَذَا قَالَ يَحْيَى بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ عَنِ الْحَجَّاجِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ

[AI] "I proposed to a woman and I hid from her until I looked at her. It was said to me, 'Do you do this while you are the companion of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ?' I said, 'I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, 'If Allah puts in the heart of one of you the proposal of a woman, then there is no harm in looking at her.' This is narrated by Hafs ibn Ghayath and followed by Yazid ibn Harun.'"

خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً فَجَعَلْتُ أَتَخَبَّأُ لَهَا حَتَّى نَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا فَقِيلَ لَهُ أَتَفْعَلُ هَذَا وَأَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ؟ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ أَحَدٍ مِنْكُمْ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا» هَكَذَا رَوَاهُ حَفْصُ بْنُ غِيَاثٍ وَتَابَعَهُ يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ

[AI] I was sitting with Muhammad bin Maslamah when the daughter of Dihhak passed by behind him. He started to chase her with his gaze. I said, "Glory be to Allah! You are the companion of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and you do this?" He said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say, 'If Allah places the speech of a woman in the heart of a man, it is not wrong for him to look at her.'"

كُنْتُ جَالِسًا مَعَ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَسْلَمَةَ فَمَرَّتْ بِنْتُ الضَّحَّاكِ مِنْ خَلْفِهِ فَجَعَلَ يُطَارِدُهَا بِبَصَرِهِ فَقُلْتُ سُبْحَانَ اللهِ تَفْعَلُ هَذَا وَأَنْتَ صَاحِبُ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ؟ فَقَالَ إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللهُ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فِي قَلْبِ رَجُلٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا»

[AI] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: "If Allah puts a proposal of marriage in a person's heart, there is no harm in looking at her." This is narrated by Abd al-Wahid ibn Ziyad from al-Hajjaj from Muhammad ibn Sulaiman ibn Abi Hathmah from his father.

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا قَذَفَ اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا» «هَكَذَا رَوَاهُ عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ عَنِ الْحَجَّاجِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ»

[AI] I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ saying, "When Allah places the love of a woman in the heart of a man, there is no harm in him looking at her." This was narrated by Abu Mu'awiyah from Al-Hajjaj from Sahl ibn Muhammad ibn Abi Hathmah, from his uncle Sulayman ibn Abi Hathmah.

سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ «إِذَا أَلْقَى اللهُ فِي قَلْبِ امْرِئٍ خِطْبَةَ امْرَأَةٍ فَلَا بَأْسَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ إِلَيْهَا» هَكَذَا رَوَاهُ أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الْحَجَّاجِ عَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ عَنْ عَمِّهِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ أَبِي حَثْمَةَ