78. Adab (Good Manners and Form)

٧٨۔ كتاب الأدب

78.17 Whoever allowed a small girl to play with him

٧٨۔١٧ باب مَنْ تَرَكَ صَبِيَّةَ غَيْرِهِ حَتَّى تَلْعَبَ بِهِ أَوْ قَبَّلَهَا أَوْ مَازَحَهَا

bukhari:5993Ḥibbān > ʿAbdullāh > Khālid b. Saʿīd from his father > Um Khālid b. Khālid b. Saʿīd

Um Khalid bint Khalid bin Saʿid said, "I came to Messenger of Allah ﷺ along with my father and I was wearing a yellow shirt. Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Sanah Sanah!" (ʿAbdullah, the sub-narrator said, "It means, 'Nice, nice!' in the Ethiopian language.") Um Khalid added, "Then I started playing with the seal of Prophethood. My father admonished me. But Messenger of Allah ﷺ said (to my father), "Leave her," Messenger of Allah ﷺ (then addressing me) said, "May you live so long that your dress gets worn out, and you will mend it many times, and then wear another till it gets worn out (i.e. May Allah prolong your life)." (The sub-narrator, ʿAbdullah aid, "That garment (which she was wearing remained usable for a long period.").  

البخاري:٥٩٩٣حَدَّثَنَا حِبَّانُ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أُمِّ خَالِدٍ بِنْتِ خَالِدِ بْنِ سَعِيدٍ قَالَتْ

أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَعَ أَبِي وَعَلَىَّ قَمِيصٌ أَصْفَرُ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ سَنَهْ سَنَهْ قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ وَهْىَ بِالْحَبَشِيَّةِ حَسَنَةٌ قَالَتْ فَذَهَبْتُ أَلْعَبُ بِخَاتَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ فَزَجَرَنِي أَبِي قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ دَعْهَا ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَبْلِي وَأَخْلِقِي ثُمَّ أَبْلِي وَأَخْلِقِي ثُمَّ أَبْلِي وَأَخْلِقِي قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ فَبَقِيَتْ حَتَّى ذَكَرَ يَعْنِي مِنْ بَقَائِهَا