78. Adab (Good Manners and Form)

٧٨۔ كتاب الأدب

78.47 "The best family among the Ansar"

٧٨۔٤٧ باب قَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ " خَيْرُ دُورِ الأَنْصَارِ "

bukhari:6053Qabīṣah > Sufyān > Abū al-Zinād > Abū Salamah > Abū Usayd al-Sāʿidī

The Prophet ﷺ said, "The best family among the Ansar is the Banu An-Najjar. "  

البخاري:٦٠٥٣حَدَّثَنَا قَبِيصَةُ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِي أُسَيْدٍ السَّاعِدِيِّ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ خَيْرُ دُورِ الأَنْصَارِ بَنُو النَّجَّارِ  

The worst of the people are the ones who people avoid due to their vile nature

bukhari:6054Ṣadaqah b. al-Faḍl > Ibn ʿUyaynah > Ibn al-Munkadir > ʿUrwah b. al-Zubayr > ʿĀʾishah

A man asked permission to enter upon Messenger of Allah ﷺ. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Admit him. What an evil brother of his people or a son of his people." But when the man entered, the Prophet ﷺ spoke to him in a very polite manner. ˹When that person left˺ I said, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ, you had said what you had said, yet you spoke to him in a very polite manner?" The Prophet ﷺ said, "O Aishah! The worst people are those whom the people desert or leave in order to save themselves from their abuse."  

البخاري:٦٠٥٤حَدَّثَنَا صَدَقَةُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ الْمُنْكَدِرِ سَمِعَ عُرْوَةَ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ ؓ أَخْبَرَتْهُ قَالَتِ

اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ ائْذَنُوا لَهُ بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ أَوِ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلاَنَ لَهُ الْكَلاَمَ قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، قُلْتَ الَّذِي قُلْتَ ثُمَّ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْكَلاَمَ؟ قَالَ: «أَىْ عَائِشَةُ، إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ فُحْشِهِ۔»