It was narrated that Jabir said: "I got married then I came to the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously married woman?' I said: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?'" (Using translation from Nasāʾī 3219)  

تَزَوَّجْتُ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ «أَوَ تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟» قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ «بِكْرٌ أَمْ ثَيِّبٌ؟» فَقُلْتُ لَا بَلْ ثَيِّبٌ قَالَ «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ»  

It was narrated that Jabir said: "The Messenger of Allah met me and said: 'O Jabir, have you got married to a woman since I last saw you?' I said: 'Yes, O Messenger of Allah.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously-married woman?' I said: 'To a previously-married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so she could play with you?'" (Using translation from Nasāʾī 3220)  

لَقِيَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «يَا جَابِرُ هَلْ أَصَبْتَ امْرَأَةً بَعْدِي؟» قُلْتُ نَعَمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ «أَبِكْرٌ أَمْ أَيِّمٌ؟» قُلْتُ أَيِّمٌ قَالَ «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُكَ؟»