HAKIM 5464:
from Abū Dhar —
[Machine] The messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "O Abu Dharr, how do you act when you are among the common folk?" He then intertwined his fingers and I said, "O messenger of Allah, what do you order me to do?" He said, "Be patient, be patient, be patient. Deal with people according to their manners and go against them in their actions."
الحاكم ٥٤٦٤:
عن ابو ذر —
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «يَا أَبَا ذَرٍّ كَيْفَ أَنْتَ إِذَا كُنْتَ فِي حُثَالَةٍ؟» وَشَبَّكَ بَيْنَ أَصَابِعِهِ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَمَا تَأْمُرُنِي؟ قَالَ «اصْبِرْ اصْبِرْ اصْبِرْ خَالِقُوا النَّاسَ بِأَخْلَاقِهِمْ وَخَالِفُوهُمْ فِي أَعْمَالِهِمْ»
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