49. Chapter of Fā (Female)
٤٩۔ بَابُ الْفاءِ
[Machine] "Fatimah bint Qais, O Messenger of Allah, my husband has divorced me and I fear that he will force himself upon me." So he ordered her to undergo the waiting period ('iddah)."
فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ زَوْجِي قَدْ طَلَّقَنِي وَأَنَا أَخَافُ أَنْ يَقْتَحِمَ عَلَيَّ «فَأَمَرَهَا بِالتَّحْوِيلِ»
[Machine] She came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and asked him about leaving her house. He ordered her to transfer to the blind son of Umm Maktoom. Marwan refused to believe the story of Fatimah about the divorced woman leaving her house.
أَنَّهَا جَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَاسْتَفْتَتْهُ فِي خُرُوجِهَا مِنْ بَيْتِهَا فَأَمَرَهَا زَعَمَتْ أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ الْأَعْمَى» «فَأَبَى مَرْوَانُ إِلَّا أَنْ يَتَّهِمَ حَدِيثَ فَاطِمَةَ فِي خُرُوجِ الْمُطَلَّقَةِ مِنْ بَيْتِهَا»
[Machine] "It was with Abu Amr ibn Hafs ibn Al-Mughirah, he divorced her three times. Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ came and she asked his opinion regarding her leaving her house, so he commanded her to move to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum."
«أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ عِنْدَ أَبِي عَمْرِو بْنِ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ فَطَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثَ تَطْلِيقَاتٍ فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَاسْتَفْتَتْهُ فِي خُرُوجِهَا مِنْ بَيْتِهَا فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ»
[Machine] And that she came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and asked him about leaving her house, so he ordered her to move to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum, the blind.
وَأَنَّهَا جَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَاسْتَفْتَتْهُ فِي خُرُوجِهَا مِنْ بَيْتِهَا فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ الْأَعْمَى»
[Machine] "And she came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and asked him about leaving her home. He commanded her to move to the house of ibn Umm Maktum, the blind man."
وَأَنَّهَا جَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَاسْتَفْتَتْهُ فِي خُرُوجِهَا مِنْ بَيْتِهَا فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ الْأَعْمَى»
Abu Salamah bin ‘Abd Al Rahman reported on the authority of Fatimah daughter of Qais Abu ‘Amr bin Hafs divorced her (Fatimah daughter of Qais) absolutely when he was away from home and his agent sent her home barley. She was displeased with it. He said “I swear by Allah, you have no claim on us. She then came to Apostle of Allah ﷺ and mentioned that to him. He said to her “No maintenance is due to you from him. He ordered her to spend the waiting period in the house of Umm Sharik but he said afterwards “that is a woman whom my Companions visit. Spend the waiting period in the house of Ibn Umm Maktum for he is blind and you can undress. Then when you are in a position of being remarried, tell me.” She said “When I was in a position to remarry, I mentioned to him that Mu’awiyah bin Abi Sufyan and Abu Jahm had asked me in marriage. The Apostle of Allah ﷺsaid “As for Abu Jahm, he does not put down his stick from his shoulder, and as for Mu’awiyah he is a poor man who has no property; marry Usamah bin Zaid. I disliked him but he said “Marry Usamah bin Zaid. So, I married him. And Allah prospered him very much and I was envied.” (Using translation from Abū Dāʾūd 2284)
ثنا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ عَنْ مَالِكٍ ح وَحَدَّثَنَا بَكْرُ بْنُ سَهْلٍ قَالَ ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ ثنا مَالِكٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ مَوْلَى الْأَسْوَدِ بْنِ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أَنَّ أَبَا عَمْرِو بْنِ حَفْصٍ طَلَّقَهَا ألْبَتَّةَ وَهُوَ غَائِبٌ فَأَرْسَلَ وَكِيلَهُ بِشَعِيرٍ فَتَسَخَّطَتْهُ فَقَالَ وَاللهِ مَا لَكِ عَلَيْنَا مِنْ شَيْءٍ فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ «لَيْسَ لَكِ نَفَقَةٌ» فَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَعْتَدَّ فِي بَيْتِ أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ ثُمَّ قَالَ «تِلْكَ امْرَأَةٌ يَغْشَاهَا أَصْحَابِي اعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ أَعْمَى تَضَعِينَ ثِيَابَكِ فَإِذَا حَلَلْتِ فائْتِينِي» فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ ذَكَرْتُ لَهُ أَنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ وَأَبَا جَهْمِ بْنَ حُذَيْفَةَ خَطَبَانِي فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «أَمَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَلَا يَضَعُ عَصَاهُ عَنْ عَاتِقِهِ وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَصُعْلُوكٌ لَا مَالَ لَهُ انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ» قَالَتْ فَكَرِهْتُهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ «انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ» فَجَعَلَ اللهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا وَاغْتَبَطْتُ بِهِ
[Machine] My husband divorced me, and he used to provide me with food that was bad. I was a woman with no one else, so I said, "By Allah, if I have any provision, I will seek it." So I went to the Prophet ﷺ and he said, "There is no provision or accommodation for you. Go to the house of Ibn Um Maktum, for he is blind. When you are released, inform me." So when I was released, I informed him, and he said, "Who proposed to you?" I said, "Muawiyah and another man." He said, "As for Muawiyah, he is a young man among the youth of Quraish who has nothing in his hand or anything for him. And as for the other man, he is a companion of evil. So marry Osama bin Zaid." I disliked it, but he said, "Marry him." So I married him.
طَلَّقَنِي زَوْجِي وَكَانَ يَرْزُقُنِي طَعَامًا فِيهِ سَيِّئٌ وَكُنْتُ امْرَأَةً لَيْسَ لِي أَحَدٌ فَقُلْتُ وَاللهِ لَئِنْ كَانَتْ لِي نَفَقَةٌ فَلَأَطْلُبَنَّها فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ «لَا نَفَقَةَ لَكِ وَلَا سُكْنَى اعْتَدِّي عِنْدَ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ أَعْمَى فَإِذَا حَلَلْتِ فَائْذِنِينِي» فَلَمَّا حَلَلْتُ آذَنْتُهُ فَقَالَ «مَنْ خَطَبَكِ؟» قُلْتُ مُعَاوِيَةُ وَرَجُلٌ آخَرُ قَالَ «أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فغلامٌ مِنْ غِلْمَانِ قُرَيْشٍ لَيْسَ بِيَدِهِ شَيْءٌ أَوْ لَا شَيْءَ لَهُ وَأَمَّا الْآخَرُ فَصَاحِبُ شَرٍّ فَانْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ» فَكَرِهْتُهُ فَقَالَ «انْكِحِيهِ» فَنَكَحْتُهُ
There is no maintenance allowance for you, and you better go to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum and live with him for he is a blind man and you can put off your clothes in his house (i. e. you shall not face much difficulty in observing purdah there). (Using translation from Muslim 1480c)
أَنْ يُنْفِقَ عَلَيْهَا فَجَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَا نَفَقَةَ لَكِ فَاذْهَبِي فَانْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَكُونِي عِنْدَهُ فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ أَعْمَى تَضَعِينَ ثِيَابَكِ عِنْدَهُ»
[Machine] Al-Qa'nabi narrated on the authority of Abdul Aziz ibn Muhammad, who narrated from Muhammad ibn Amr, who narrated from Abu Salamah, who narrated from Fatimah bint Qays, that she was married to a man from the Banu Makhzum tribe. He divorced her instantly. She sent word to her family to seek financial support, but they refused, saying they had no responsibility towards her financial needs. When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ heard about this, he said, "You are not entitled to financial support from them, but you must observe the waiting period. Go to the household of Umm Shareek instead." Then he said, "Umm Shareek will be visited by her brothers from among the Muhajireen. No, you must go to the household of Ibn Umm Maktum. He is a blind man; even if you were to uncover your clothing, he wouldn't see anything. And don't cause harm to yourself." When the waiting period ended, she mentioned that Muawiyah ibn Abu Sufyan and Abu Jahl proposed to marry her. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Muawiya has no wealth, and Abu Jahl doesn't even remove his stick from his shoulder. Where are you in regard to Usama?" It seemed as if her family disliked that. She said, "By Allah, I will only marry the one to whom the Messenger of Allah ﷺ instructs me to marry." So she married him.
ثنا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتِ قَيْسٍ أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ فَطَلَّقَهَا ألْبَتَّةَ فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ تَبْتَغِي النَّفَقَةَ فَقَالُوا لَيْسَتْ عَلَيْنَا نَفَقَةٌ فَبَلَغَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «لَيْسَتْ لَكِ عَلَيْهِمْ نَفَقَةٌ وَعَلَيْكِ الْعِدَّةُ فَانْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ» ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ يَدْخُلُ عَلَيْهَا إِخْوَانُهَا مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ لَا وَلَكِنِ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ أَعْمَى إِنْ وَضَعْتِ ثِيَابَكِ لَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا وَلَا تُفَوِّتِينَا بِنَفْسِكِ» فَلَمَّا حَلَّتْ ذَكَرَتْ أَنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ وَأَبَا جَهْمٍ خَطَبَاهَا فَقَالَ «أَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَلَا مَالَ لَهُ وَأَمَّا أَبَا جَهْمٍ فَلَا يَضَعُ عَصَاهُ عَنْ عَاتِقِهِ فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْ أُسَامَةَ؟» فَكَأَنَّ أَهْلَهَا كَرِهُوا ذَلِكَ فَقَالَتْ وَاللهِ مَا أَنْكِحُ إِلَّا مَا قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَنَكَحَتْهُ
[Machine] She was married to a man from the Banu Makhzum tribe, but he divorced her immediately. She sent a message to her family seeking financial support, but they replied that they have no responsibility towards her expenses. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was informed about this, and he said, "They have no obligation to provide for you, but you must observe 'iddah (waiting period). Move to the house of Umm Sharik." Then he said, "Umm Sharik's brothers, who are among the early migrants, will visit her. Move to the house of the son of Umm Makhtoom, as he is a blind man. If you undress in front of him, he will not see anything. Do not burden us with your presence." When the waiting period ended, some men mentioned her to the Prophet ﷺ, asking, "Where is she in comparison to Usama?" It seemed that her family disliked this, so she said, "By Allah, I will only marry the one whom the Messenger of Allah ﷺ chooses for me." Thus, she married him.
أَنَّهَا كَانَتْ تَحْتَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ فَطَلَّقَهَا ألْبَتَّةَ فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ تَبْتَغِي النَّفَقَةَ فَقَالُوا لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْنَا نَفَقَةٌ فَبَلَغَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْهِمْ نَفَقَةٌ وَعَلَيْكِ الْعِدَّةُ فَانْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ» ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ يَدْخُلُ عَلَيْهَا إِخْوَتُهَا مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ الْأَوَّلِينَ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ رَجُلٌ أَعْمَى إِنْ وَضَعْتِ ثِيَابَكِ لَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا فَلَا تُفَوِّتِينَا بِنَفْسِكِ» فَلَمَّا حَلَّتْ ذَكَرَهَا رِجَالٌ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «أَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْ أُسَامَةَ؟» وَكَأَنَّ أَهْلَهَا كَرِهُوا ذَلِكَ فَقَالَتْ وَاللهِ لَا أَنْكِحُ إِلَّا الَّذِي قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَنَكَحَتْهُ
[Machine] I was with a man from the tribe of Makhzoom, and he divorced me impulsively. I then sent a message to his family asking for maintenance, but they said that they were not responsible for my maintenance. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "They do not have to provide for you, and you must observe the waiting period of 'iddah (for divorce). Go to the mother of Shareek, and do not deny us your presence." He then said, "Indeed, Shareek's mother receives visits from her brothers among the earliest emigrants, but go to the son of Umm Maktoom, for he has lost his sight and even if you put something down, he will not see it."
كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ فَطَلَّقَنِي ألْبَتَّةَ فَأَرْسَلْتُ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ أَطْلُبُ النَّفَقَةَ فَقَالُوا لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْنَا نَفَقَةٌ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَيْسَ لَكِ عَلَيْهِمْ نَفَقَةٌ وَعَلَيْكِ الْعِدَّةُ فَانْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ وَلَا تُفَوِّتِينَا بِنَفْسِكِ» ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ يَدْخُلُ عَلَيْهَا إِخْوَانُهَا مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ الْأَوَّلِينَ وَلَكِنِ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ قَدْ ذَهَبَ بَصَرُهُ وَإِنْ وَضَعْتِ شَيْئًا لَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا»
[Machine] Her husband Hafsa bin Al-Mughira Al-Makhzumi divorced her three times during the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , then he went to Yemen. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "She does not have any maintenance and she must observe the waiting period." He sent a messenger to her and said, "Do not rush ahead of me in deciding for yourself." He ordered her to move in with her mother, Umm Sharik. Then he sent to her, "Umm Sharik will be visited by the first Muhaajiroon, so move to the house of Ibn Umm Maktum." When her waiting period ended, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ married her to Usamah bin Zaid bin Harithah.
أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا حَفْصَ بْنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ الْمَخْزُومِيَّ طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ ثُمَّ انْطَلَقَ إِلَى الْيَمَنِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَيْسَتْ لَهَا نَفَقَةٌ وَعَلَيْهَا عِدَّةٌ» وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولًا «لَا تَسْبِقِينِي بِنَفْسِكِ» وَأَمَرَهَا أَنْ تَنْتَقِلَ إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ ثُمَّ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا «أَنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ يَأْتِيهَا الْمُهَاجِرُونَ الْأَوَّلُونَ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ» فَلَمَّا انْتَقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا أَنْكَحَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدِ بْنِ حَارِثَةَ
[Machine] Her husband divorced her during the time of the Prophet Muhammad, may ﷺ . He used to provide for her, but when she saw that he had stopped providing for her, she said, "By Allah, I will speak to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ . If I have a provision, I will take what is sufficient for me, and if I do not have a provision, I will not take anything." So I asked the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and he said, "You will not have a place to live nor will you receive any provision."
أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا طَلَّقَهَا فِي عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى الله عَلَيْهِ وسَلَّمَ وَكَانَ يُرْسِلُ إِلَيْهَا بِنَفَقَةٍ فَلَمَّا رَأَى ذَلِكَ قَالَتْ وَاللهِ لَأُكَلِّمَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَإِنْ كَانَتْ لِي نَفَقَةٌ آخُذُ مِمَّا يُصْلِحُنِي وَإِنْ لَمْ تَكُنْ لِي نَفَقَةٌ لَمْ آخُذُ شَيْئًا فَسَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «لَا سُكْنَى لَكِ وَلَا نَفَقَةَ»
[Machine] That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ delayed the final night prayer of Isha and then went out and said, "I was held back by a conversation that Tamim ad-Dari was having with me, regarding a man who was in one of the islands of the sea. He would have his hair pulled by a woman, and he would ask her, 'Who are you?' She would reply, 'I am a witch. Are you amazed by me?' He would say, 'Yes,' and she would tell him, 'Go to that palace.' So, I went to it, and I found a man with hair spread out like a net, chained up, his feet between the sky and the earth. I asked him, 'Who are you?' He replied, 'I am the Dajjal, the False Messiah. Did the Prophet of the Unlettered people come out?' I said, 'Yes.' He asked, 'Have they obeyed him or disobeyed him?' I said, 'They have obeyed him.' He said, 'That is better for them. Have the waters dried up?'"
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَخَّرَ لَيْلَةً صَلَاةَ الْعِشَاءِ الْآخِرَةَ ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَقَالَ إِنَّمَا حَبَسَنِي حَدِيثٌ كَانَ يُحَدِّثُنِيهِ تَمِيمٌ الدَّارِيُّ عَنْ رَجُلٍ كَانَ فِي جَزِيرَةٍ مِنْ جَزَائِرِ الْبَحْرِ فَإِذَا هُوَ بِامْرَأَةٍ تَجُرُّ شَعْرَهَا فَقَالَ مَا أَنْتِ؟ قَالَتْ أَنَا الْجَسَّاسَةُ أَتَعْجَبُ مِنِّي؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ فَاذْهَبْ إِلَى ذَلِكَ الْقَصْرِ فَذَهَبْتُ إِلَيْهِ فَإِذَا فِيهِ رَجُلٌ يَجُرُّ شَعْرَهُ مُسَلْسَلٌ فِي الْأَغْلَالِ يَنْزُو بَيْنَ السَّمَاءِ وَالْأَرْضِ فَقَالَ لَهُ مَا أَنْتَ؟ قَالَ أَنَا الدَّجَّالُ أَخَرَجَ نَبِيُّ الْأُمِّيِّينَ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَأَطَاعُوهُ أَمْ عَصَوْهُ؟ قَالَ لَا بَلْ أَطَاعُوهُ قَالَ ذَلِكَ خَيْرٌ لَهُمْ وَهَلْ غَارَتِ الْمِيَاهُ؟