"O Messenger of Allah, this is Fatimah bint Qais who has been divorced by so-and-so. He sent her some provision but she rejected it. He said that it was something he did not have to do (a favor)." He said: "He is telling the truth." The Prophet said: "Go to Umm Kulthum and observe your 'Iddah in her house." Then he said: "Umm Kulthum is a woman who has a lot of visitors. Go to 'Abdullah bin Umm Maktum for he is blind." So she went to 'Abdullah and observed her 'Iddah in his house, until her 'Iddah was over. Then Abu Al-Jahm and Mu'awiyah bin Abi Sufyan proposed to her. So she came to the Messenger of Allah to consult him about them. He said: "As for Abu Al-Jahm, he is a man the waving of whose stick I fear for you. And as for Mu'awiyah he is a man who does not have any money." So she married Usamah bin Zaid after that. (Using translation from Nasāʾī 3545)   

أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا وَخَرَجَ إِلَى بَعْضِ الْمَغَازِي وَأَمَرَ وَكِيلًا لَهُ أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَاسْتَقَلَّتْهَا وَانْطَلَقَتْ إِلَى إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَدَخَلَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَهِيَ عِنْدَهَا فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ طَلَّقَهَا فُلَانٌ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بِبَعْضِ النَّفَقَةِ فَرَدَّتْهَا وَزَعَمَ أَنَّهُ شَيْءٌ تَطَوَّلَ بِهِ قَالَ صَدَقَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى مَنْزِلِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ وقَالَ أَبِي وَقَالَ الْخَفَّافُ أُمِّ كُلْثُومٍ فَاعْتَدِّيعِنْدَهَا ثُمَّ قَالَ لَا إِنَّ أُمَّ كُلْثُومٍ يَكْثُرُ عُوَّادُهَا وَلَكِنْ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ أَعْمَى فَانْتَقَلَتْ إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ فَاعْتَدَّتْ عِنْدَهُ حَتَّى انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ وَمُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ تَسْتَأْمِرُهُ فِيهِمَا فَقَالَ أَبُو جَهْمٍ أَخَافُ عَلَيْكِ قَسْقَاسَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا وَقَالَ الْخَفَّافُ قَصْقَاصَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ أَخْلَقُ مِنَ الْمَالِ فَتَزَوَّجَتْ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ  

[Machine] He divorced her three times and went on some military expeditions. He ordered a representative to give her some financial support, so she set off to one of the Prophet's wives carrying the money. When she arrived, the Prophet ﷺ was with her. She said, "O Messenger of Allah, this is Fatimah bint Qays. So-and-so divorced her, and he sent her some financial support, but she returned it and claimed that he was delaying. The Prophet ﷺ said, "She is telling the truth." Then he said to her, "Go to Umm Maktoom and stay with her." Then he said, "No, Umm Maktoom is a woman who has many visitors. Rather, go to Abdullah ibn Umm Maktoom, for he is blind." So she went to him and stayed with him until her waiting period ended. Then Abu Jahm and Muawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan proposed to her. She came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ seeking his advice regarding them. He said, "As for Abu Jahm, I fear for you from his roughness, so I strike his back with a stick. As for Muawiyah, he is a noble man." After that, Usamah ibn Zaid married her.  

أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا وَخَرَجَ إِلَى بَعْضِ الْمَغَازِي وَأَمَرَ وَكِيلًا لَهُ أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَاسْتَقَلَّتْهَا فَانْطَلَقَتْ إِلَى إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَدَخَلَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَهِيَ عِنْدَهَا فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ طَلَّقَهَا فُلَانٌ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بِبَعْضِ النَّفَقَةِ فَرَدَّتْهَا وَزَعَمَ أَنَّهُ شَيْءٌ تَطَوَّلَ بِهِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «صَدَقَ» ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهَا «انْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَاعْتَدِّي عِنْدَهَا» ثُمَّ قَالَ «لَا إِنَّ أُمَّ مَكْتُومٍ امْرَأَةً يَكْثُرُ عُوَّادُهَا وَلَكِنِ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ أَعْمَى» فَانْتَقَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ فَاعْتَدَّتْ عِنْدَهُ حَتَّى انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ وَمُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ تَسْتَأْمِرُهُ فِيهِمَا فَقَالَ «أَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَأَخَافُ عَلَيْكِ فَسْقَشَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ أَخْلَقُ مِنَ الْمَالِ» فَتَزَوَّجَتْ أُسَامَةُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ  

"O Messenger of Allah, this is Fatimah bint Qais who has been divorced by so-and-so. He sent her some provision but she rejected it. He said that it was something he did not have to do (a favor)." He said: "He is telling the truth." The Prophet said: "Go to Umm Kulthum and observe your 'Iddah in her house." Then he said: "Umm Kulthum is a woman who has a lot of visitors. Go to 'Abdullah bin Umm Maktum for he is blind." So she went to 'Abdullah and observed her 'Iddah in his house, until her 'Iddah was over. Then Abu Al-Jahm and Mu'awiyah bin Abi Sufyan proposed to her. So she came to the Messenger of Allah to consult him about them. He said: "As for Abu Al-Jahm, he is a man the waving of whose stick I fear for you. And as for Mu'awiyah he is a man who does not have any money." So she married Usamah bin Zaid after that. (Using translation from Nasāʾī 3545)   

أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَتَقَالَّتْهَا فَانْطَلَقَتْ إِلَى بَعْضِ نِسَاءِ النَّبِي ﷺ فَدَخَلَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَهِيَ عِنْدَهَا فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ طَلَّقَهَا فُلَانٌ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَرَدَّتْهَا وَزَعَمَ أَنَّهُ شَيْءٌ تَطَوَّلَ بِهِ فَقَالَ صَدَقَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «انْطَلِقِي إِلَى أُمِّ كُلْثُومٍ فَاعْتَدِّي عِنْدَهَا» ثُمَّ قَالَ «إِنَّ أُمَّ كُلْثُومٍ امْرَأَةٌ يَكْثُرُ عُوَّادُهَا فَانْطَلِقِي إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ أَعْمَى» فَانْتَقَلَتْ عِنْدَ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَاعْتَدَّتْ عِنْدَهُ حَتَّى انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا أَبُو الْجَهْمِ وَمُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ تَسْتَأْمِرُهُ فِيهِمَا فَقَالَ «أَمَّا أَبُو الْجَهْمِ فَرَجُلٌ أَخَافُ عَلَيْكِ قَسْقَاسَتَهُ لِلْعَصَا وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ أَخْلَقَ مِنَ الْمَالِ» فَتَزَوَّجَتْ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ  

" عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي عَطَاءٌ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَاصِمِ بْنِ ثَابِتٍ أَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ أُخْتَ الضَّحَّاكِ بْنِ قَيْسِ أَخْبَرَتْهُ وَكَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ فَأَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَهَا ثَلَاثًا، ثُمَّ خَرجَ إِلَى بَعْضِ المغَازي، وَأَمَرَ وَكِيلًا لَهُ أَنْ يُعْطِيَهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَاسْتَقَلَّتْهَا فَانْطَلَقَتْ إِلَى إِحْدَى نِسَاءِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَدَخَلَ النَبِيُّ ﷺ وَهِي عَنْدَهَا فَقَالَت: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ، هَذِهِ فَاطِمَةُ بِنْتُ قَيْسٍ طَلَّقَهَا فُلَانٌ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا بَعْضَ النَّفَقَةِ فَرَدَّتْهَا وَزَعَمَ أَنَّهُ شَيْءٌ تَطَوَّلَ بِهِ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ : صَدَقَ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهَا: انْتَقِلِي إِلَى عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإنَّهُ أَعْمَى، فَانْتَقَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ فَاعْتَدَّتْ عِنْدَهُ حَتَّى انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُهَا، ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا أَبُو جَهْمٍ، وَمُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ، فَجَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ تَسْتَأمِرُهُ فِيهِمَا فَقَالَ: أَمَّا أَبُو جَهْمٍ فَأَخَافُ عَلَيْكِ قَسْقَاسَتَهُ بِالْعَصَا، وَأَمَّا مُعَاوِيَةُ فَرَجُلٌ أمْلَقُ مِنَ الْمَالِ، فَتَزَوَّجَتْ أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ".