That he heard the Prophet ﷺ delivering a sermon, and he mentioned the shecamel and the one who hamstrung it. Messenger of Allah ﷺ recited:-- 'When, the most wicked man among them went forth (to hamstrung the she-camel).' (91.12.) Then he said, "A tough man whose equal was rare and who enjoyed the protection of his people, like Abi Zama went forth to (hamstrung) it." The Prophet ﷺ then mentioned about the women (in his sermon). "It is not wise for anyone of you to lash his wife like a slave, for he might sleep with her the same evening." Then he advised them not to laugh when somebody breaks wind and said, "Why should anybody laugh at what he himself does?"  

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَخْطُبُ وَذَكَرَ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ {إِذِ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا} انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَزِيزٌ عَارِمٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ وَذَكَرَ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ يَعْمِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ يَجْلِدُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ فَلَعَلَّهُ يُضَاجِعُهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ وَقَالَ لِمَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ وَقَالَ أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامٌ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ زَمْعَةَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ عَمِّ الزُّبَيْرِ بْنِ الْعَوَّامِ  

“One day, I heard the Prophet while he was mentioning the she-camel and the one who killed her. He said: ‘When their most wicked went forth.’ A strong and mighty man who was invincible among his tribe, like Zam’ah, went forth for her.’ Then I heard him mentioning the women, so he said: ‘One of you should not lash his wife as a slave is lashed, for perhaps he will lay with her at the end of the day.’” He said: “Then he advised against laughing when passing gas, he said: ‘One of you should not laugh at what he himself does.’”  

سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَوْمًا يَذْكُرُ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَهَا فَقَالَ ِ (إذ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا ) انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَارِمٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ ثُمَّ سَمِعْتُهُ يَذْكُرُ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ إِلاَمَ يَعْمِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ فَيَجْلِدُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ وَلَعَلَّهُ أَنْ يُضَاجِعَهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ قَالَ ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ إِلاَمَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "When the sun rises, it rises for a man who is strong, honorable, and protective in his community, like Ibn Zam'ah. Then he advised them to laugh about harmless things, so he asked, 'Why does not one of you laugh at what he does?' He said, 'Why does not one of you discipline his wife with the whip of a slave and then perhaps he may sleep with her on the last day of his life.'"  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ {إِذْ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا} [الشمس 12] انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَارِمٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ ابِنِ زَمْعَةَ ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي الضَّحِكِ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِفَقَالَ إِلَامَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ؟ قَالَ ثُمَّ قَالَ إِلَامَ يَجْلِدُ أَحَدُكُمْ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ ثُمَّ لَعَلَّهُ أَنْ يُضَاجِعَهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ  

" When the basest of them broke forth with mischief" (xei. 12). When A mischievous person, strong even because of the strength of a family like Abu Zam'a, broke forth. He then delivered instruction in regard to the women saying: There is amongst you who beats his woman, and in the narration on the authority of Abu Bakr, the words are: He flogs her like a slave-girl. And in the narration of Abu Kuraib (the words are): He flogs like a slave and then comforts his bed with the help of that at the end of the day, and he then advised in regard to laughing of people at the breaking of wind and said: One of you laughs at that which you yourself do. (Using translation from Muslim 2855)   

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يَقُولُ فِي خُطْبَتِهِ وَهُوَ يَذْكُرُ النَّاقَةَ وَمَنْ عَقَرَهَا فَقَالَ «{إِذِ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا} انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَارِمٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ» ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ «أَلَا لِمَ يَجْلِدُ أَحَدُكُمُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ وَلَعَلَّهُ يُضَاجِعُهَا فِي آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ» ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ فِي الضَّحِكِ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ «أَلَا لِمَ يَضْحَكُ أَحَدُكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ؟! »  

[Machine] Narrated Al-Qa'nabi: My father, Muslimah bin Qa'nab, narrated to me from Hisham bin 'Urwah, who narrated from his father, who narrated from Abdullah bin Zam'ah, that he heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say during his sermon, while he mentioned the she-camel and the one who hamstrung her: "And Allah (ﷻ) resurrected for her a man from her tribe, who is strong and trustworthy, similar to Abu Zam'ah. Then, he mentioned women and said, 'Why does one of you intentionally beat his wife, like the beating of a slave, and then may sleep with her during the last part of the day?' Then, I heard him advising them regarding their laughter from joking about flatulence, saying, 'What makes any one of you laugh at what they do?'"  

حَدَّثَنَا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي مَسْلَمَةُ بْنُ قَعْنَبٍ عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ زَمْعَةَ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ فِي خُطْبَتِهِ وَذَكَرَ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَهَا فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ {إِذِ انْبَعَثَ} اللهُ {أَشْقَاهَا} انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَزِيزٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي رَهْطِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ «إِلَامَ يَعْمَدُ أَحَدُكُمْ فَيَجْلِدُ امْرَأَتَهُ جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ ثُمَّ لَعَلَّهُ يُضَاجِعُهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ؟» ثُمَّ سَمِعْتُهُ يَعِظُهُمْ فِي ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «مَا يُضْحِكُ أَحَدَكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ؟»  

[Machine] He informed him that he heard the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ , mention the she-camel and its owner who harmed it. He said, "When its owners release it (to drink), a man of great influence and power similar to Abu Zam'ah will be sent to it." Then he mentioned women and said, "Why would one of you beat his wife like a slave and then sleep with her on the last day?" Then he advised them about their laughter due to flatulence and said, "What makes one of you laugh at what he does?"  

أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَوْمًا فِي خُطْبَتِهِ ذَكَرَ النَّاقَةَ وَالَّذِي عَقَرَهَا فَقَالَ {إِذِ انْبَعَثَ أَشْقَاهَا} انْبَعَثَ لَهَا رَجُلٌ عَزِيزٌ عَارِمٌ مَنِيعٌ فِي قَوْمِهِ مِثْلُ أَبِي زَمْعَةَ ثُمَّ ذَكَرَ النِّسَاءَ فَقَالَ «إِلَامَ يَعْمَدُ أَحَدُكُمْ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَيَجْلِدُهَا جَلْدَ الْعَبْدِ وَلَعَلَّهُ يُضَاجِعُهَا مِنْ آخِرِ يَوْمِهِ» ثُمَّ وَعَظَهُمْ مِنْ ضَحِكِهِمْ مِنَ الضَّرْطَةِ فَقَالَ «مَا يُضْحِكُ أَحَدَكُمْ مِمَّا يَفْعَلُ؟»