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tabarani:20225al-Khallāl > Yaʿqūb b. Ḥumayd > ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz b. Muḥammad > Mūsá b. ʿUqbah > Um Kulthūm b. Um Salamah > Um Salamah

[Machine] She said, "O Messenger of Allah, should I cry over Abu Salamah?" He said, "No, do not do so, for the deceased person's family is affected by their mourning."  

الطبراني:٢٠٢٢٥حَدَّثَنَا الْخَلَّالُ ثنا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ ثنا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ مُوسَى بْنِ عُقْبَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ كُلْثُومٍ بِنْتِ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ

أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَبْكِي عَلَى أَبِي سَلَمَةَ؟ فَقَالَ «لَا تَفْعَلِي فَإِنَّ لِأَهْلِ الْمَيِّتِ عِنْدَ مَيِّتِهِمْ مَا دَعَوْا بِهِ»  


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