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[Machine] From Abu Abdullah Al-Hafith, who I think, from what I have heard, or else in what he authorized me, that Aba Abdullah Al-Asbahani informed them that Al-Hassan ibn Al-Jahm narrated to them that Al-Hussein ibn Al-Faraj narrated to him from Al-Waqidi, who told me that Muhammad ibn Musa ibn Muhammad ibn Ibrahim Al-Taymi narrated from his father, who said: When the defeat occurred in the army of Tuleiha, he left among the defeated people until he reached Sham, then he arrived during the caliphate of Umar in Makkah. When Umar saw him, he said: "O Tuleiha, I don't love you after you killed the two righteous men, Ukasha ibn Mihsan and Thabit ibn Aqram." He replied: "O Amir Al-Mu'minin, may Allah honor them with my hands and not humiliate them with his hands. Not all houses are built upon love, but a beautiful face. Indeed, people shake hands with each other over hatred." And Tuleiha embraced Islam in a valid manner.  

البيهقي:١٧٦٣١وَفِي كِتَابِي

عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظِ وَأَظُنُّهُ فِيمَا سَمِعْتُهُ وَإِلَّا فَهُوَ فِيمَا أَجَازَ لِي أَنَّ أَبَا عَبْدِ اللهِ الْأَصْبَهَانِيَّ أَخْبَرَهُمْ أنبأ الْحَسَنُ بْنُ الْجَهْمِ ثنا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ الْفَرَجِ ثنا الْوَاقِدِيُّ حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُوسَى بْنِ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ التَّيْمِيُّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ لَمَّا وَقَعَتِ الْهَزِيمَةُ فِي عَسْكَرِ طُلَيْحَةَ خَرَجَ فِي النَّاسِ مُنْهَزِمًا حَتَّى قَدِمَ الشَّامَ ثُمَّ قَدِمَ فِي خِلَافَةِ عُمَرَ ؓ مَكَّةَ فَلَمَّا رَآهُ عُمَرُ ؓ قَالَ يَا طُلَيْحَةُ لَا أُحِبُّكَ بَعْدَ قَتْلِكَ الرَّجُلَيْنِ الصَّالِحَيْنِ عُكَّاشَةَ بْنَ مِحْصَنٍ وَثَابِتَ بْنَ أَقْرَمَ فَقَالَ يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ أَكْرَمَهُمَا اللهُ بِيَدِي وَلَمْ يُهِنِّي بِأَيْدِيهِمَا وَمَا كُلُّ الْبُيُوتِ بُنِيَتْ عَلَى الْحُبِّ وَلَكِنْ صَفْحَةٌ جَمِيلَةٌ فَإِنَّ النَّاسَ يَتَصَافَحُونَ عَلَى الشَّنَآنِ وَأَسْلَمَ طُلَيْحَةُ إِسْلَامًا صَحِيحًا