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suyuti:651-498bAbū Hurayrah
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السيوطي:٦٥١-٤٩٨b

"عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ : لا تُنْكَحُ الْبِكْرُ وَلَا الثَّيِّبُ حَتَّى تُشَاوَرَ، قَالُوا: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ! إِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحْيى، قَالَ: سُكَاتُهَا رِضَاهَا".  

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ahmad:7131Hushaym > ʿUmar b. Abū Salamah from his father > Abū Hurayrah

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ said, "The virgin is proposed to, and the non-virgin is consulted." It was said, "O Messenger of Allah, indeed the virgin feels shy." He said, "Her silence is her acceptance."  

أحمد:٧١٣١حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ الْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ وَالثَّيِّبُ تُشَاوَرُ قِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ الْبِكْرَ تَسْتَحِي قَالَ سُكُوتُهَا رِضَاهَا