41. Chapter

٤١۔ كِتَابُ الْقَسَمِ وَالنُّشُوزِ

41.1 [Machine] What is mentioned about the husband's right over the woman?

٤١۔١ بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي عِظَمِ حَقِّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى الْمَرْأَةِ

bayhaqi:14704Abū Ṭāhir al-Faqīh > Abū Ḥāmid Aḥmad b. Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá al-Bazzāz > Aḥmad b. Manṣūr al-Marwazī > al-Naḍr b. Shumayl > Muḥammad b. ʿAmr > Abū Salamah > Abū Hurayrah ؓ > Qāl Rasūl Allāh Ṣllá

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded the wife to prostrate to her husband, due to the great rights that Allah has bestowed upon him."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٤أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو طَاهِرٍ الْفَقِيهُ أنا أَبُو حَامِدٍ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى الْبَزَّازُ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ الْمَرْوَزِيُّ ثنا النَّضْرُ بْنُ شُمَيْلٍ أنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ؓ قَالَ

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا لِمَا عَظَّمَ اللهُ مِنْ حَقِّهِ عَلَيْهَا  

bayhaqi:14705Muḥammad b. Muḥammad b. Maḥmash al-Ziyādī > Abū Bakr Muḥammad b. al-Ḥusayn al-Qaṭṭān > Aḥmad b. Yūsuf al-Sulamī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Abū Bakr al-Nakhaʿī from my father > Ḥuṣayn b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman al-Sulamī > ʿĀmir al-Shaʿbī > Qays

[Machine] I arrived at Al-Hira and saw its people prostrating to their idols. I said, "We were more deserving of prostrating to the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ ." When I came to him, I informed him of what I had seen and said, "We were more deserving of prostrating to you." He replied, "Do not do that. Have you considered if you were to pass by my grave, would you prostrate to it?" I said, "No." He said, "Then do not do so. For if I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone else, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands due to the rights Allah has placed upon them, and Qays bin Sa'd narrated this from someone else."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٥أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَحْمَشٍ الزِّيَادِيُّ أنا أَبُو بَكْرٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحُسَيْنِ الْقَطَّانُ نا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ السُّلَمِيُّ نا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ النَّخَعِيُّ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي نا حُصَيْنُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِيُّ عَنْ عَامِرٍ الشَّعْبِيِّ عَنْ قَيْسٍ قَالَ

قَدِمْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُ أَهْلَهَا يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانَ لَهُمْ فَقُلْتُ نَحْنُ كُنَّا أَحَقَّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لِرَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَلَمَّا قَدِمْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَخْبَرْتُهُ بِالَّذِي رَأَيْتُ قُلْتُ نَحْنُ كُنَّا أَحَقَّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لَكَ فَقَالَ لَا تَفْعَلُوا أَرَأَيْتَ لَوْ مَرَرْتَ بِقَبْرِي أَكُنْتَ سَاجِدًا؟ قُلْتُ لَا قَالَ فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَسْجُدْنَ لِأَزْوَاجِهِنَّ لِمَا جَعَلَ اللهُ مِنْ حَقِّهِمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ وَرَوَاهُ غَيْرُهُ عَنْ شَرِيكٍ فَقَالَ عَنْ قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ  

bayhaqi:14706Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > Abū Bakr b. Isḥāq al-Faqīh > Bishr b. Mūsá > al-Ḥumaydī > Sufyān > Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd > Bushayr b. Yasār > Ḥuṣayn b. Miḥṣan from my aunt

[Machine] I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a need, and he said: "Is this your husband's complaint?" I said: "Yes." He said: "How are you with him?" She said: "I do not leave him except for what I am unable to do." He said: "So where are you from him? Verily, he is your paradise and your hellfire."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٦أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أَخْبَرَنِي أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ الْفَقِيهُ أنا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُوسَى نا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ نا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ بُشَيْرِ بْنِ يَسَارٍ عَنْ حُصَيْنِ بْنِ مِحْصَنٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَتْنِي عَمَّتِي قَالَتْ

أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فِي بَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ قَالَ أَيْ هَذِهِ أَذَاتُ بَعْلٍ أَنْتِ؟ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَكَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ قَالَ فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ  

bayhaqi:14707Abū ʿAbdullāh al-Ḥāfiẓ > al-Ḥasan b. Yaʿqūb al-ʿAdl > Muḥammad b. ʿAbd al-Wahhāb al-Farrāʾ > Jaʿfar b. ʿAwn > Rabīʿah b. ʿUthmān > Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān

[Machine] A man came to the Prophet ﷺ with his daughter, and said, "O Messenger of Allah, this is my daughter who refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She replied, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of a husband over his wife." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The right of a husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she should lick it to fulfill his right."  

البيهقي:١٤٧٠٧أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ الْحَافِظُ أنا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ يَعْقُوبَ الْعَدْلُ أنا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ الْفَرَّاءُ أنا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ ثنا رَبِيعَةُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ عَنْ نَهَارٍ الْعَبْدِيِّ وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ ؓ قَالَ

جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ لَهُ قُرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ