41. Chapter
٤١۔ كِتَابُ الْقَسَمِ وَالنُّشُوزِ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to another, I would have commanded the wife to prostrate to her husband, due to the great rights that Allah has bestowed upon him."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا لِمَا عَظَّمَ اللهُ مِنْ حَقِّهِ عَلَيْهَا
[Machine] I arrived at Al-Hira and saw its people prostrating to their idols. I said, "We were more deserving of prostrating to the Messenger of Allah, ﷺ ." When I came to him, I informed him of what I had seen and said, "We were more deserving of prostrating to you." He replied, "Do not do that. Have you considered if you were to pass by my grave, would you prostrate to it?" I said, "No." He said, "Then do not do so. For if I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone else, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands due to the rights Allah has placed upon them, and Qays bin Sa'd narrated this from someone else."
قَدِمْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُ أَهْلَهَا يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانَ لَهُمْ فَقُلْتُ نَحْنُ كُنَّا أَحَقَّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لِرَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَلَمَّا قَدِمْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَخْبَرْتُهُ بِالَّذِي رَأَيْتُ قُلْتُ نَحْنُ كُنَّا أَحَقَّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لَكَ فَقَالَ لَا تَفْعَلُوا أَرَأَيْتَ لَوْ مَرَرْتَ بِقَبْرِي أَكُنْتَ سَاجِدًا؟ قُلْتُ لَا قَالَ فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِأَحَدٍ لَأَمَرْتُ النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَسْجُدْنَ لِأَزْوَاجِهِنَّ لِمَا جَعَلَ اللهُ مِنْ حَقِّهِمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ وَرَوَاهُ غَيْرُهُ عَنْ شَرِيكٍ فَقَالَ عَنْ قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ
[Machine] I came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with a need, and he said: "Is this your husband's complaint?" I said: "Yes." He said: "How are you with him?" She said: "I do not leave him except for what I am unable to do." He said: "So where are you from him? Verily, he is your paradise and your hellfire."
أَتَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فِي بَعْضِ الْحَاجَةِ قَالَ أَيْ هَذِهِ أَذَاتُ بَعْلٍ أَنْتِ؟ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَكَيْفَ أَنْتِ لَهُ؟ قَالَتْ مَا آلُوهُ إِلَّا مَا عَجَزْتُ عَنْهُ قَالَ فَأَيْنَ أَنْتِ مِنْهُ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ جَنَّتُكِ وَنَارُكِ
[Machine] A man came to the Prophet ﷺ with his daughter, and said, "O Messenger of Allah, this is my daughter who refuses to get married." The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Obey your father." She replied, "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not get married until you inform me of the rights of a husband over his wife." The Prophet ﷺ said, "The right of a husband over his wife is that if he has a wound, she should lick it to fulfill his right."
جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي قَدْ أَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ فَقَالَتْ وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ قَالَ حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى زَوْجَتِهِ أَنْ لَوْ كَانَتْ لَهُ قُرْحَةٌ فَلَحَسَتْهَا مَا أَدَّتْ حَقَّهُ