38. Chapter of Khā (Female)
٣٨۔ بَابُ الْخَاءِ
[Machine] That Khansa bint Khidam was married off by her father while she was reluctant, so she went to the Prophet ﷺ and he nullified her marriage.
أَنَّ خَنْسَاءَ بِنْتَ خِدَامٍ زَوَّجَهَا أَبُوهَا وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ «فَرَدَّ نِكَاحَهَا»
[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ met her when she was coming from the bathroom, and he said, "Where have you come from, O Umm Al-Darda?" She replied, "I have come from the bathroom, O Messenger of Allah." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said, "Any woman who removes her clothes outside of her house has violated the privacy between her and Allah."
أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ لَقِيَهَا وَهِيَ مُقْبِلَةٌ مِنَ الْحَمَّامِ فَقَالَ «مِنْ أَيْنَ أَقْبَلْتِ يَا أُمَّ الدَّرْدَاءِ» فَقَالَتْ مِنَ الْحَمَّامِ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ وَضَعَتْ ثِيَابَهَا فِي غَيْرِ بَيْتِهَا هَتَكَتْ مَا بَيْنَهَا وَبَيْنَ اللهِ مِنْ سِتْرٍ»
[Machine] I heard Umm ad-Darda' say: "I came out of the bathroom when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ met me and asked, 'Where are you, Umm ad-Darda?" I said, 'From the bathroom.' He said, 'By the One in whose hand is my soul, no woman puts on her clothes in a place other than the house of one of her mothers except that she has torn down every barrier between her and the Most Merciful, the Blessed and Exalted."
سَمِعْتُ أُمَّ الدَّرْدَاءِ تَقُولُ خَرَجْتُ مِنَ الْحَمَّامِ فَلَقِيَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «مِنْ أَيْنَ يَا أُمَّ الدَّرْدَاءِ؟» فَقُلْتُ مِنَ الْحَمَّامِ فَقَالَ «وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ مَا مِنِ امْرَأَةٍ تَضَعُ ثِيَابَهَا فِي غَيْرِ بَيْتِ إِحْدَى أُمَّهَاتِهَا إِلَّا كَانَتْ هَاتِكَةً كُلَّ سِتْرٍ بَيْنَهَا وَبَيْنَ الرَّحْمَنِ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى»
[Machine] Did you hear anything from the Prophet ﷺ? She said: Yes, I entered upon him while he was sitting in the gathering and I heard him say, "The first thing to be weighed in the balance is good character."
أَسَمِعْتِ مِنَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ شَيْئًا؟ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ دَخَلْتُ عَلَيْهِ وَهُوَ جَالِسٌ فِي الْمَجْلِسِ فَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ «أَوَّلُ مَا يُوضَعُ فِي الْمِيزَانِ الْخُلُقُ الْحَسَنِ»
[Machine] Narrated by the Prophet ﷺ , "Whoever stays with a group of Muslims for three days, he will be credited with the reward of having remained with them for a year."
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ «مَنْ رَابَطَ بِشَيْءٍ مِنْ سَوَاحِلِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ ثَلَاثَةَ أَيَّامٍ أَجْزَأَتْ عَنْهُ رِبَاطَ سَنَةٍ»
[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ said, "Verily, Allah created the disease and the cure, so seek treatment but do not seek treatment through Haram (forbidden means)."
عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ «إِنَّ اللهَ خَلَقَ الدَّاءَ وَالدَّوَاءَ فَتَدَاوَوْا وَلَا تَتَدَاووا بِحَرَامٍ»
[Machine] I said, "O Messenger of Allah, does anger harm?" He said, "Yes, just as hitting a tree harms."
قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَلْ يَضُرُّ الْغَيْظُ؟ قَالَ «نَعَمْ كَمَا يَضُرُّ الشَّجَرَ الْخَبَطُ»
[Machine] "Invoke Allah for us with good, for indeed the Prophet ﷺ used to say, 'Verily, the supplication of the oppressed is answered for his brother in the unseen, by an angel who supports him upon his supplication, whenever he supplicates for him with good, he says: "Ameen, and for you the same."' He said, 'Then I went out to the market and I met Abu Darda and he told me about the Prophet ﷺ similarly.'"
ادْعُ اللهَ لَنَا بِخَيْرٍ فَإِنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ كَانَ يَقُولُ «إِنَّ دَعْوَةَ الْمَظْلُومِ مُسْتَجَابَةٌ لِأَخِيهِ بِظَهْرِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَ رَأْسَهِ مَلَكٌ يُؤَمِّنُ عَلَى دُعَائِهِ كُلَّمَا دَعَا لَهُ بِخَيْرٍ قَالَ آمِينَ وَلَكَ بِمِثْلٍ» قَالَ ثُمَّ خَرَجْتُ إِلَى السُّوقِ فَلَقِيتُ أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ فَحَدَّثَنِي عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ بِمِثْلِهِ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ met her one day and said, "Where have you come from, O Umm Ad-Darda?" She replied, "From the public bath." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said to her, "Any woman who removes her clothes outside of her house, except in the public bath, has torn what is between her and Allah's covering."
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ لَقِيَهَا يَوْمًا فَقَالَ «مِنْ أَيْنَ جِئْتِ يَا أُمَّ الدَّرْدَاءِ؟» قَالَتْ مِنَ الْحَمَّامِ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «مَا مِنِ امْرَأَةٍ تَنْزِعُ ثِيَابَهَا فِي غَيْرِ بَيْتِهَا إِلَّا هَتَكَتْ مَا بَيْنَهَا وَبَيْنَ اللهِ مِنْ سِتْرٍ»