AHMAD 21089:
from Ubay b. Kaʿb —
[Machine] From the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , he said, "Whoever comes to his spouse and does not ejaculate, he should wash his private parts and perform ablution." Abd Allah said, "My father narrated to me from a trustworthy person, who heard it from another trustworthy person."
أحمد ٢١٠٨٩:
عن ابي بن كعب —
عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فِي الَّذِي يَأْتِي أَهْلَهُ ثُمَّ لَا يُنْزِلُ يَغْسِلُ ذَكَرَهُ وَيَتَوَضَّأُ قَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ أَبِي الْمَلِيُّ عَنِ الْمَلِيِّ ثِقَةٌ عَنْ ثِقَةٍ
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