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ahmad:27307ʿAffān > ʿAbd al-Wāḥid b. Ziyād > ʿĀṣim al-Aḥwal > Ḥafṣah b. Sīrīn > Um ʿAṭiyyah

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ made a pledge with us and took from us an oath that we will not mourn excessively. Then, a woman from the Ansar said, "The family of so-and-so made me happy during the pre-Islamic period, and they have a special event. I will not pledge allegiance to you until I make them happy as they made me." She then said, "It seemed as if the Messenger of Allah ﷺ agreed with her on that. So, she went and made them happy, then she returned and pledged her allegiance to the Prophet ﷺ." Umm Atiyyah said, "No woman among us fulfilled her pledge except for her and Umm Sulaim bint Milhan."  

أحمد:٢٧٣٠٧حَدَّثَنَا عَفَّانُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ بْنُ زِيَادٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَاصِمٌ الْأَحْوَلُ عَنْ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتِ سِيرِينَ عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ قَالَتْ

بَايَعْنَا النَّبِيَّ ﷺ وَأَخَذَ عَلَيْنَا فِيمَا أَخَذَ أَنْ لَا نَنُوحَ فَقَالَتْ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ إِنَّ آلَ فُلَانٍ أَسْعَدُونِي فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ وَفِيهِمْ مَأْتَمٌ فَلَا أُبَايِعُكَ حَتَّى أُسْعِدَهُمْ كَمَا أَسْعَدُونِي فَقَالَتْ فَكَأَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ وَافَقَهَا عَلَى ذَلِكَ فَذَهَبَتْ فَأَسْعَدَتْهُمْ ثُمَّ رَجَعَتْ فَبَايَعَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ فَقَالَتْ أُمُّ عَطِيَّةَ فَمَا وَفَتْ امْرَأَةٌ مِنَّا غَيْرُ تِلْكَ وَغَيْرُ أُمِّ سُلَيْمٍ بِنْتِ مِلْحَانَ