47. Behaviour with people

٤٧۔ كتاب تعامل الناس

47.10 When there are four people

٤٧۔١٠ بَابُ إِذَا كَانُوا أَرْبَعَةً

adab:1169

'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "When there are three people, two should not converse together to the exclusion of the third for that would grieve him."  

الأدب المفرد:١١٦٩حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الأَعْمَشُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي شَقِيقٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ

قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ إِذَا كُنْتُمْ ثَلاَثَةً فَلاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ الثَّالِثِ فَإِنَّهُ يُحْزِنُهُ ذَلِكَ  

adab:1170

Ibn 'Umar reported something similar from the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. He stated, "We said, 'If there are four?' He said, 'Then it will not harm him.'"  

الأدب المفرد:١١٧٠وَحَدَّثَنِي أَبُو صَالِحٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ مِثْلَهُ قُلْنَا فَإِنْ كَانُوا أَرْبَعَةً؟ قَالَ لا يَضُرُّهُ  

adab:1171

'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Two should not converse to the exclusion of another until they are mixing with people since that would distress him."  

الأدب المفرد:١١٧١حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ أَبِي وَائِلٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ لاَ يَتَنَاجَى اثْنَانِ دُونَ الْآخَرِ حَتَّى يَخْتَلِطُوا بِالنَّاسِ مِنْ أَجْلِ أَنَّ ذَلِكَ يُحْزِنُهُ  

adab:1172

Ibn 'Umar said, "When there are four, there is no harm."  

الأدب المفرد:١١٧٢حَدَّثَنَا قَبِيصَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ

عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ إِذَا كَانُوا أَرْبَعَةً فَلا بَأْسَ