33. Etiquette

٣٣۔ كتاب الأدب

33.17 Seeking Permission to Enter

٣٣۔١٧ باب الاِسْتِئْذَانِ

ibnmajah:3706Abū Bakr > Yazīd b. Hārūn > Dāwud b. Abū Hind > Abū Naḍrah > Abū Saʿīd al-Khudrī

"Why did you go back?" He said: "I asked permission to enter three times, as the Messenger of Allah ﷺ enjoined upon us, then if we are given permission we should enter, otherwise we should go back." He said: "You should bring me proof of that, or else!" Then he came to a gathering of his people and asked them to swear by Allah concerning that, and they did so, so he let him go."  

ابن ماجة:٣٧٠٦حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ أَنْبَأَنَا دَاوُدُ بْنُ أَبِي هِنْدٍ عَنْ أَبِي نَضْرَةَ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ

أَنَّ أَبَا مُوسَى اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى عُمَرَ ثَلاَثًا فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَانْصَرَفَ فَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهِ عُمَرُ مَا رَدَّكَ قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنْتُ الاِسْتِئْذَانَ الَّذِي أَمَرَنَا بِهِ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ ثَلاَثًا فَإِنْ أُذِنَ لَنَا دَخَلْنَا وَإِنْ لَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَنَا رَجَعْنَا قَالَ فَقَالَ لَتَأْتِيَنِّي عَلَى هَذَا بِبَيِّنَةٍ أَوْ لأَفْعَلَنَّ فَأَتَى مَجْلِسَ قَوْمِهِ فَنَاشَدَهُمْ فَشَهِدُوا لَهُ فَخَلَّى سَبِيلَهُ  

ibnmajah:3707Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > ʿAbd al-Raḥīm b. Sulaymān > Wāṣil b. al-Sāʾib > Abū Sawrah > Abū Ayyūb al-Anṣārī

"We said: 'O Messenger of Allah ﷺ, (we know) this (greeting of) Salam, but what does seeking permission to enter mean?' He said: 'It means a man saying SubhanAllah, and Allahu Akbar and Al Hamdulillah, and clearing his throat, announcing his arrival to the people in the house."  

ابن ماجة:٣٧٠٧حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحِيمِ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ عَنْ وَاصِلِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ عَنْ أَبِي سَوْرَةَ عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ الأَنْصَارِيِّ قَالَ

قُلْنَا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَذَا السَّلاَمُ فَمَا الاِسْتِئْنَاسُ قَالَ يَتَكَلَّمُ الرَّجُلُ تَسْبِيحَةً وَتَكْبِيرَةً وَتَحْمِيدَةً وَيَتَنَحْنَحُ وَيُؤْذِنُ أَهْلَ الْبَيْتِ  

ibnmajah:3708Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Abū Bakr b. ʿAyyāsh > Mughīrah > al-Ḥārith > ʿAbdullāh b. Nuja > ʿAlī

"I had two times of visiting the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, at night and during the day. If I came to him when he was praying, he would clear his throat (to let me know he was praying)."  

ابن ماجة:٣٧٠٨حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ عَنْ مُغِيرَةَ عَنِ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ نُجَىٍّ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ قَالَ

كَانَ لِي مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مُدْخَلاَنِ مُدْخَلٌ بِاللَّيْلِ وَمُدْخَلٌ بِالنَّهَارِ فَكُنْتُ إِذَا أَتَيْتُهُ وَهُوَ يُصَلِّي يَتَنَحْنَحُ لِي  

ibnmajah:3709Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah > Wakīʿ > Shuʿbah > Muḥammad b. al-Munkadir > Jābir

"I asked the Prophet ﷺ for permission to enter, and he said: 'Who is that?' I said: 'Me'. The Prophet ﷺ said " Me, me?!"  

ابن ماجة:٣٧٠٩حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ عَنْ شُعْبَةَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ

اسْتَأْذَنْتُ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ مَنْ هَذَا فَقُلْتُ أَنَا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنَا أَنَا