68. Divorce

٦٨۔ كتاب الطلاق

68.7 Whoever said to his wife: "You are Haram for me."

٦٨۔٧ باب مَنْ قَالَ لاِمْرَأَتِهِ أَنْتِ عَلَىَّ حَرَامٌ

[Machine] And Imam Hasan said: "His intention matters." And the people of knowledge said: If he divorces (his wife) three times, then she becomes prohibited for him. They named it as Haram with divorce and separation, and this is not like the things that are prohibited from eating. Because it is not said that the permissible food is Haram, but it is said that the divorced woman is Haram. And he (Prophet Muhammad) said about divorce three times: She is not permissible for him until she marries someone else.

وَقَالَ الْحَسَنُ نِيَّتُهُ. وَقَالَ أَهْلُ الْعِلْمِ إِذَا طَلَّقَ ثَلاَثًا فَقَدْ حَرُمَتْ عَلَيْهِ. فَسَمَّوْهُ حَرَامًا بِالطَّلاَقِ وَالْفِرَاقِ، وَلَيْسَ هَذَا كَالَّذِي يُحَرِّمُ الطَّعَامَ، لأَنَّهُ لاَ يُقَالُ لِطَعَامِ الْحِلِّ حَرَامٌ، وَيُقَالُ لِلْمُطَلَّقَةِ حَرَامٌ، وَقَالَ فِي الطَّلاَقِ ثَلاَثًا لاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ حَتَّى تَنْكِحَ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ.

bukhari:5264al-Layth

When Ibn 'Umar was asked about person who had given three divorces, he said, "Would that you gave one or two divorces, for the Prophet ﷺ ordered me to do so. If you give three divorces then she cannot be lawful for you until she has married another husband (and is divorced by him)."  

البخاري:٥٢٦٤وَقَالَ اللَّيْثُ عَنْ نَافِعٍ كَانَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ إِذَا سُئِلَ عَمَّنْ طَلَّقَ ثَلاَثًا قَالَ

لَوْ طَلَّقْتَ مَرَّةً أَوْ مَرَّتَيْنِ فَإِنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ أَمَرَنِي بِهَذَا فَإِنْ طَلَّقْتَهَا ثَلاَثًا حَرُمَتْ حَتَّى تَنْكِحَ زَوْجًا غَيْرَكَ  

bukhari:5265Muḥammad > Abū Muʿāwiyah > Hishām b. ʿUrwah from his father > ʿĀʾishah

A man divorced his wife and she married another man who proved to be impotent and divorced her. She could not get her satisfaction from him, and after a while he divorced her. Then she came to the Prophet and said, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! My first husband divorced me and then I married another man who entered upon me to consummate his marriage but he proved to be impotent and did not approach me except once during which he benefited nothing from me. Can I remarry my first husband in this case?" Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "It is unlawful to marry your first husband till the other husband consummates his marriage with you."  

البخاري:٥٢٦٥حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ

طَلَّقَ رَجُلٌ امْرَأَتَهُ فَتَزَوَّجَتْ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ فَطَلَّقَهَا وَكَانَتْ مَعَهُ مِثْلُ الْهُدْبَةِ فَلَمْ تَصِلْ مِنْهُ إِلَى شَىْءٍ تُرِيدُهُ فَلَمْ يَلْبَثْ أَنْ طَلَّقَهَا فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ زَوْجِي طَلَّقَنِي وَإِنِّي تَزَوَّجْتُ زَوْجًا غَيْرَهُ فَدَخَلَ بِي وَلَمْ يَكُنْ مَعَهُ إِلاَّ مِثْلُ الْهُدْبَةِ فَلَمْ يَقْرَبْنِي إِلاَّ هَنَةً وَاحِدَةً لَمْ يَصِلْ مِنِّي إِلَى شَىْءٍ فَأَحِلُّ لِزَوْجِي الأَوَّلِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ لاَ تَحِلِّينَ لِزَوْجِكِ الأَوَّلِ حَتَّى يَذُوقَ الآخَرُ عُسَيْلَتَكِ وَتَذُوقِي عُسَيْلَتَهُ