68. Divorce

٦٨۔ كتاب الطلاق

68.3 Should a man tell his wife face to face that she is divorced

٦٨۔٣ باب مَنْ طَلَّقَ وَهَلْ يُوَاجِهُ الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ بِالطَّلاَقِ

bukhari:5254al-Ḥumaydī > al-Walīd > al-Awzāʿī > Saʾalt

I asked Az-Zuhri, "Which of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ sought refuge with Allah from him?" He said "I was told by 'Urwa that ʿAisha said, 'When the daughter of Al-Jaun was brought to Messenger of Allah ﷺ (as his bride) and he went near her, she said, "I seek refuge with Allah from you." He said, "You have sought refuge with The Great; return to your family."  

البخاري:٥٢٥٤حَدَّثَنَا الْحُمَيْدِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ حَدَّثَنَا الأَوْزَاعِيُّ قَالَ

سَأَلْتُ الزُّهْرِيَّ أَىُّ أَزْوَاجِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ اسْتَعَاذَتْ مِنْهُ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عُرْوَةُ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ أَنَّ ابْنَةَ الْجَوْنِ لَمَّا أُدْخِلَتْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَدَنَا مِنْهَا قَالَتْ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْكَ فَقَالَ لَهَا لَقَدْ عُذْتِ بِعَظِيمٍ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَوَاهُ حَجَّاجُ بْنُ أَبِي مَنِيعٍ عَنْ جَدِّهِ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ أَنَّ عُرْوَةَ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ  

bukhari:5255Abū Nuʿaym > ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Ghasīl > Ḥamzah b. Abū Usayd > Abū Usayd

We went out with the Prophet ﷺ to a garden called Ash-Shaut till we reached two walls between which we sat down. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Sit here," and went in (the garden). The Jauniyya (a lady from Bani Jaun) had been brought and lodged in a house in a date-palm garden in the home of Umaima bint An- Nuʿman bin Sharahil, and her wet nurse was with her. When the Prophet ﷺ entered upon her, he said to her, "Give me yourself (in marriage) as a gift." She said, "Can a princess give herself in marriage to an ordinary man?" The Prophet ﷺ raised his hand to pat her so that she might become tranquil. She said, "I seek refuge with Allah from you." He said, "You have sought refuge with One Who gives refuge. Then the Prophet ﷺ came out to us and said, "O Abu Usaid! Give her two white linen dresses to wear and let her go back to her family."  

البخاري:٥٢٥٥حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ غَسِيلٍ عَنْ حَمْزَةَ بْنِ أَبِي أُسَيْدٍ عَنْ أَبِي أُسَيْدٍ ؓ قَالَ

خَرَجْنَا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ حَتَّى انْطَلَقْنَا إِلَى حَائِطٍ يُقَالُ لَهُ الشَّوْطُ حَتَّى انْتَهَيْنَا إِلَى حَائِطَيْنِ فَجَلَسْنَا بَيْنَهُمَا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ اجْلِسُوا هَا هُنَا وَدَخَلَ وَقَدْ أُتِيَ بِالْجَوْنِيَّةِ فَأُنْزِلَتْ فِي بَيْتٍ فِي نَخْلٍ فِي بَيْتٍ أُمَيْمَةُ بِنْتُ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ شَرَاحِيلَ وَمَعَهَا دَايَتُهَا حَاضِنَةٌ لَهَا فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ قَالَ هَبِي نَفْسَكِ لِي قَالَتْ وَهَلْ تَهَبُ الْمَلِكَةُ نَفْسَهَا لِلسُّوقَةِ قَالَ فَأَهْوَى بِيَدِهِ يَضَعُ يَدَهُ عَلَيْهَا لِتَسْكُنَ فَقَالَتْ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْكَ فَقَالَ قَدْ عُذْتِ بِمَعَاذٍ ثُمَّ خَرَجَ عَلَيْنَا فَقَالَ يَا أَبَا أُسَيْدٍ اكْسُهَا رَازِقِيَّتَيْنِ وَأَلْحِقْهَا بِأَهْلِهَا  

bukhari:5256al-Ḥusayn b. al-Walīd al-Naysābūrī > ʿAbd al-Raḥman > ʿAbbās b. Sahl > Abīh And ʾAbī Usayd

The Prophet ﷺ married Umaima bint Sharahil, and when she was brought to him, he stretched his hand towards her. It seemed that she disliked that, whereupon the Prophet ﷺ ordered Abu Usaid to prepare her and to provide her with two white linen dresses.  

البخاري:٥٢٥٦وَقَالَ الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ النَّيْسَابُورِيُّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ عَبَّاسِ بْنِ سَهْلٍ

عَنْ أَبِيهِ وَأَبِي أُسَيْدٍ قَالاَ تَزَوَّجَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أُمَيْمَةَ بِنْتَ شَرَاحِيلَ فَلَمَّا أُدْخِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ بَسَطَ يَدَهُ إِلَيْهَا فَكَأَنَّهَا كَرِهَتْ ذَلِكَ فَأَمَرَ أَبَا أُسَيْدٍ أَنْ يُجَهِّزَهَا وَيَكْسُوَهَا ثَوْبَيْنِ رَازِقِيَّيْنِ  

bukhari:5257ʿAbdullāh b. Muḥammad > Ibrāhīm b. Abū al-Wazīr > ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Ḥamzah from his father > ʿAbbās b. Sahl b. Saʿd

similarly as above (182).  

البخاري:٥٢٥٧حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ أَبِي الْوَزِيرِ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ حَمْزَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ وَعَنْ عَبَّاسِ بْنِ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ

عَنْ أَبِيهِ بِهَذَا  

bukhari:5258Ḥajjāj b. Minhāl > Hammām b. Yaḥyá > Qatādah > Abū Ghalāab Yūnus b. Jubayr > Ibn ʿUmar a man Ṭallaq Āmraʾatah And h Ḥāʾiḍ

I asked Ibn ʿUmar,"(What is said regarding) a man divorces his wife during her period?" He said, "Do you know Ibn ʿUmar? Ibn ʿUmar divorced his wife while she was menstruating. ʿUmar then went to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned that to him. The Prophet ﷺ ordered him to take her back and when she became clean, he could divorce her if he wanted." I asked (Ibn ʿUmar), "Was that divorce counted as one legal divorce?" He said, "If one becomes helpless and foolish (will he be excused? Of course not). "  

البخاري:٥٢٥٨حَدَّثَنَا حَجَّاجُ بْنُ مِنْهَالٍ حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامُ بْنُ يَحْيَى عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنْ أَبِي غَلاَّبٍ يُونُسَ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ قَالَ

قُلْتُ لاِبْنِ عُمَرَ رَجُلٌ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهْىَ حَائِضٌ فَقَالَ تَعْرِفُ ابْنَ عُمَرَ إِنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهْىَ حَائِضٌ فَأَتَى عُمَرُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَأَمَرَهُ أَنْ يُرَاجِعَهَا فَإِذَا طَهُرَتْ فَأَرَادَ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا فَلْيُطَلِّقْهَا قُلْتُ فَهَلْ عَدَّ ذَلِكَ طَلاَقًا قَالَ أَرَأَيْتَ إِنْ عَجَزَ وَاسْتَحْمَقَ