68. Divorce

٦٨۔ كتاب الطلاق

68.21 "Those who take an oath, not to have sexual relations with their wives, must wait four months."

٦٨۔٢١ بَابُ قَوْلِ اللَّهِ تَعَالَى: {لِلَّذِينَ يُؤْلُونَ مِنْ نِسَائِهِمْ تَرَبُّصُ أَرْبَعَةِ أَشْهُرٍ} إِلَى قَوْلِهِ: {سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ} {فَإِنْ فَاءُوا} رَجَعُوا

bukhari:5289Ismāʿīl b. Abū Ūways > Akhīh > Sulaymān > Ḥumayd al-Ṭawīl > Anas b. Mālik

Messenger of Allah ﷺ took an oath that he would abstain from his wives, and at that time his leg had been sprained (dislocated). So he stayed in the Mashruba (an attic room) of his for 29 days. Then he came down, and they (the people) said, "O Messenger of Allah ﷺ! You took an oath to abstain from your wives for one month." He said, "The month is of twenty nine days."  

البخاري:٥٢٨٩حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي أُوَيْسٍ عَنْ أَخِيهِ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ عَنْ حُمَيْدٍ الطَّوِيلِ

أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ يَقُولُ آلَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنْ نِسَائِهِ وَكَانَتِ انْفَكَّتْ رِجْلُهُ فَأَقَامَ فِي مَشْرُبَةٍ لَهُ تِسْعًا وَعِشْرِينَ ثُمَّ نَزَلَ فَقَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ آلَيْتَ شَهْرًا فَقَالَ الشَّهْرُ تِسْعٌ وَعِشْرُونَ  

bukhari:5290Qutaybah > al-Layth > Nāfiʿ > Ibn

Ibn ʿUmar used to say about the Ila (which Allah defined (in the Holy Book), "If the period of Ila expires, then the husband has either to retain his wife in a handsome manner or to divorce her as Allah has ordered."  

البخاري:٥٢٩٠حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ عَنْ نَافِعٍ أَنَّ ابْنَ عُمَرَ ؓ كَانَ يَقُولُ فِي الإِيلاَءِ الَّذِي سَمَّى اللَّهُ لاَ يَحِلُّ لأَحَدٍ بَعْدَ الأَجَلِ إِلاَّ

أَنْ يُمْسِكَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ أَوْ يَعْزِمَ بِالطَّلاَقِ كَمَا أَمَرَ اللَّهُ ﷻ  

bukhari:5291Lī Ismāʿīl > Mālik > Nāfiʿ > Ibn ʿUmar Idhā Maḍat Arbaʿah Ashhur Yūqaf Ḥattá Yuṭalliq And Lā Yaqaʿ ʿAlayh al-Ṭalāq Ḥattá Yuṭalliq Wayudhkar Dhalik

"When the period of four months has expired, the husband should be put in prison so that he should divorce his wife, but the divorce does not occur unless the husband himself declares it. This has been mentioned by ʿUthman, ʿAli, Abu Ad-Darda, ʿAisha and twelve other companions of the Prophet ﷺ ."  

البخاري:٥٢٩١وَقَالَ لِي إِسْمَاعِيلُ حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ عَنْ نَافِعٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ إِذَا مَضَتْ أَرْبَعَةُ أَشْهُرٍ يُوقَفُ حَتَّى يُطَلِّقَ وَلاَ يَقَعُ عَلَيْهِ الطَّلاَقُ حَتَّى يُطَلِّقَ وَيُذْكَرُ ذَلِكَ

عَنْ عُثْمَانَ وَعَلِيٍّ وَأَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ وَعَائِشَةَ وَاثْنَىْ عَشَرَ رَجُلاً مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ