TABARANI 21196:
from Āmraʾah Ibn Masʿūd —
[Machine] Oh Abu Abdurrahman, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came to Ali while I was in the company of some Ansari women. He said, "Give something in charity, even if it is from your jewelry." So the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) was asked, "If I spend on you and on my nephew, will it be sufficient for me as a charity? Or should I spend it in the way of Allah?" He replied, "I am embarrassed to ask for it, so ask him yourself." So, I came to the door of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and there was a woman from the Ansar, whose need was the same as mine. Bilal came to us, and we said to him, "O Bilal, offer our greetings to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and inform him that we have wives and children. If our spending on them and on our brothers is considered charity, then it will be sufficient for us. Otherwise, we will spend in the way of Allah." So, Bilal went in and informed the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and he said, "Convey my greetings to them and inform them that their spending on their wives and brothers' children is considered as double reward, both as maintaining family ties and as charity."
الطبراني ٢١١٩٦:
عن امرءه ابن مسعود —
يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ خَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَلِيَّ وَأَنَا فِي نِسْوَةٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَقَالَ «تَصَدَّقْنَ وَلَوْ مِنْ حُلِيِّكُنَّ» فَسَلْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ إِنْ كَانَ إِنْفاقِي عَلَيْكَ وَعَلى بَنِي أَخِي يُجْزِئُ عَنِّي مِنَ الصَّدَقَةِ وَإِلَّا أَنْفَقْتُهُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ؟ فَقَالَ إِنِّي أَسْتَحْيِي أَنْ أَسْأَلُهُ فَسَلِيهِ أَنْتِ فَانْتَهَيْتُ إِلَى بَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَإِذَا امْرَأَةٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ حَاجَتُهَا حَاجَتِي فَأَتَى عَلَيْنَا بِلَالٌ فَقُلْنَا يَا بِلَالُ أَقْرِئْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ مِنَّا السَّلَامَ وَرَحْمَةَ اللهِ وَأَخْبِرْهُ أَنَّ لَنَا أَزْوَاجَنَا وَبَنِي إِخْوَانِنَا إِنْ كَانَ إِنْفاقُنا عَلَى أَزْوَاجِنَا وَبَنِي إِخْوَانِنَا يُجْزِئُ عَنَّا وَإِلَّا أَنْفَقْنا فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ؟ فَدَخَلَ بِلَالٌ فَأَخْبَرَهُ فَقَالَ أَقْرِئْهُما السَّلَامَ وَرَحْمَةَ اللهِ وأَنْبِئْهُما أَنَّ إِنْفاقَهُما عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِمَا وَبَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِما ضِعْفَيْنِ ضِعْفُ الصِّلَةِ وَضِعْفُ الصَّدَقَةِ
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