ذِكْرُ الزَّجْرِ عَنْ ضَرْبِ النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا عِنْدَ الْحَاجَةِ إِلَى أَدَبِهِنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Do not hit the slave girls of Allah." The women began to disagree and their manners worsened towards their husbands. Then Umar bin Al-Khattab said, "The women have disagreed and their manners have worsened towards their husbands since you prohibited hitting them." The Prophet ﷺ then said, "So, hit them." The people then began to hit their wives that night. Many women came complaining about being hit, so the Prophet ﷺ said in the morning, "Indeed, Muhammed's family has been surrounded by seventy women, all of them complaining about being hit, and I swear by Allah, you will not find those women to be the best among you."  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللَّهِ» قَالَ فَذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ مُنْذُ نَهَيْتَ عَنْ ضَرْبِهِنَّ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «فَاضْرِبُوا» فَضَرَبَ النَّاسُ نِسَاءَهُمْ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ فَأَتَى نِسَاءٌ كَثِيرٌ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ «لَقَدْ طَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ اللَّيْلَةَ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّهُنَّ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ وَايْمُ اللَّهِ لَا تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارُكُمْ»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Do not beat the female slaves of Allah." Then the women rebelled and their behavior towards their husbands worsened. Umar said, "O Messenger of Allah, the women rebelled and their behavior towards their husbands worsened since you forbade beating them." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Then beat them." The people beat their wives that night, and many women came complaining about being beaten. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said the next morning, "Seventy women of the family of Muhammad were visited last night, all of whom were complaining about being beaten. By Allah, you will not find those [men] among the best of you."  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللهِ» قَالَ فَذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنِّ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنِّ مُنْذُ نَهَيْتَ عَنْ ضَرْبِهِنَّ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «فَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ» فَضَرَبَ النَّاسُ النِّسَاءَ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ فَأَتَى نِسَاءٌ كَثِيرٌ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ «لَقَدْ أَطَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ اللَّيْلَةَ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّهُنُّ يَشْتَكِينَ مِنَ الضَّرْبِ وَايْمُ اللهِ لَا تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ»  

[Machine] Al-Qa'nabi and Ibrahim ibn Bashshar al-Ramadi said: "We are Sufyan ibn 'Uyaynah, from az-Zuhri, from Abdullah ibn Abdullah ibn Umar, from Iyas ibn Abdullah, that the Prophet ﷺ said, 'Do not beat the female slaves of Allah.'" So Umar went to the Prophet ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, the women have become insolent to their husbands since you forbade beating them, so they got permission and started beating." So the Prophet ﷺ circled the family of Muhammad ﷺ , and there were many women, seventy women, each of whom complains about her husband, and those are not your best.  

ثنا الْقَعْنَبِيُّ وَإِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ الرَّمَادِيُّ قَالُوا أَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ عَنْ إِيَاسِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ قَالَ «لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللهِ» فَجَاءَ عُمَرُ ؓ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَدْ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنِّ مُنْذُ نَهَيْتَ عَنْ ضَرْبِهِنِّ فَأَذِنَ لَهُمْ فَضَرَبُوا فَأَطَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ نِسَاءٌ كَثِيرٌ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّهُنَّ يَشْتَكِي زَوْجُهَا وَلَا تَجِدُ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ  

[Machine] The Prophet ﷺ said, "Do not hit the female slaves of Allah." He said, "The women became tough and their manners worsened towards their husbands." Umar said, "O Messenger of Allah, the women became tough and their manners worsened towards their husbands since you forbade hitting them." The Prophet ﷺ said, "Then strike them." So the people began to hit their wives that night. Many women went complaining about being hit. The Prophet ﷺ said the next morning, "I saw seventy women from the family of Muhammad, all of them complaining about being hit. By Allah, you will not find those women to be the best among you." We have been informed by Muhammad ibn Ismail al-Bukhari that he said, "Iyas is not known to have any companionship." The scholar said, and it has been narrated from another source as well.  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ لَا تَضْرِبُوا إِمَاءَ اللهِ قَالَ فَذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ فَقَالَ عُمَرُ ؓ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ ذَئِرَ النِّسَاءُ وَسَاءَتْ أَخْلَاقُهُنَّ عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ مُنْذُ نَهَيْتَ عَنْ ضَرْبِهِنَّ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ قَالَ فَضَرَبَ النَّاسُ نِسَاءَهُمْ تِلْكَ اللَّيْلَةَ قَالَ فَأَتَى نِسَاءٌ كَثِيرٌ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ حِينَ أَصْبَحَ لَقَدْ طَافَ بِآلِ مُحَمَّدٍ اللَّيْلَةَ سَبْعُونَ امْرَأَةً كُلُّهُنَّ يَشْتَكِينَ الضَّرْبَ وَايْمُ اللهِ لَا تَجِدُونَ أُولَئِكَ خِيَارَكُمْ بَلَغَنَا عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ الْبُخَارِيِّ أَنَّهُ قَالَ لَا يُعْرَفُ لِإِيَاسٍ صُحْبَةٌ قَالَ الشَّيْخُ وَقَدْ رُوِيَ مِنْ وَجْهٍ آخَرَ مُرْسَلًا