ذِكْرُ مَا يَجِبُ عَلَى الْإِمَامِ أَنْ لَا تَكُونَ هِمَّتُهُ فِي جَمْعِ الدُّنْيَا لِنَفْسِهِ
[Machine] I was in the delegation of Banu Al-Muntafiq. While we were sitting with the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, a shepherd raised his flock of sheep to the pasture. Suddenly, one of them ran away. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked, "What did it give birth to?" The shepherd replied, "A healthy lamb." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Slaughter a sheep in its place." Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Do not think that it is due to shortage or that it is an obligation for us to slaughter it. We slaughter a sheep in its place every time the shepherd gives birth to a healthy lamb." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, I have a wife who uses bad words." He said, "Then divorce her." I said, "But she is my companion, and I have children with her." He said, "Advise her with kind words, perhaps she will understand, and do not harm her like she harms you." I said, "O Messenger of Allah, tell me about ablution." He said, "When you perform ablution, perform it thoroughly, separate your fingers, and sniff water well unless you are fasting."
كُنْتُ فِي وَفْدِ بَنِي الْمُنْتَفِقِ فَبَيْنَمَا نَحْنُ جُلُوسٌ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ إِذْ رَفَعَ الرَّاعِي غَنَمَهُ إِلَى الْمُرَاحِ فَإِذَا سَخْلَةً تَيْعَرُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «مَاذَا وَلَدَتْ؟ » فَقَالَ الرَّاعِي بَهْمَةٌ فَقَالَ «اذْبَحْ مَكَانَهَا شَاةً» ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «لَا تَحْسِبَنَّ بِالْخَفْضِ وَلَمْ يَقُلْ لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ بِالنَّصْبِ أَنَّا مِنْ أَجْلِكَ ذَبَحْنَاهَا إِنَّ لَنَا غَنَمًا مِئَةٌ فَإِذَا وَلَدَ الرَّاعِي بَهْمَةً ذَبَحْنَا مَكَانَهَا شَاةً» قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ لِي امْرَأَةً وَفِي لِسَانِهَا شَيْءٌ يَعْنِي الْبَذَاءَ قَالَ «طَلِّقْهَا إِذًا» فَقَالَ إِنَّ لَهَا صُحْبَةً وَلِي مِنْهَا وَلَدٌ قَالَ «فَمُرْهَا بِقَوْلٍ فَعِظْهَا لَعَلَّهَا أَنْ تَعْقِلَ وَلَا تَضْرِبْ ظَعِينَتَكَ كَضَرْبِكَ إِبِلَكَ» قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَخْبَرَنِي عَنِ الْوضُوءِ قَالَ «إِذَا تَوَضَّأْتَ فَأَسْبِغِ الْوضُوءَ وَخَلِّلْ بَيْنَ الْأَصَابِعِ وَبَالِغْ فِي الِاسْتِنْشَاقِ إِلَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ صَائِمًا»