AHMAD 16384:
from Ānṭalaqt —
[Machine] "I and my friend set off until we reached the Messenger of Allah, but we did not find him. Aisha then fed us dates and gave us a dish of porridge. When the Prophet came, he was wiping off his sweat. He asked us, 'Have you been fed?' We replied, 'Yes, O Messenger of Allah.' While we were in this state, a shepherd passed by with a sheep under his arm. The Prophet asked, 'Has it given birth?' The shepherd replied, 'Yes.' The Prophet said, 'Slaughter a sheep for us.' Then he approached us and said, 'Do not assume that we have not slaughtered the sheep for you. We have a hundred sheep, and we do not desire any increase. When the shepherd gives birth to a male sheep, he is commanded to slaughter it.' The shepherd asked, 'O Messenger of Allah, tell me about wudu.' The Prophet said, 'When you perform ablution, wash your limbs thoroughly and rub in between your fingers. When you perform istinja, cleanse yourself thoroughly unless you are fasting.' The shepherd said, 'O Messenger of Allah, I have a wife who talks excessively and behaves improperly.' The Prophet said, 'Divorce her.' The shepherd said, 'O Messenger of Allah, she has companionship and children.' The Prophet said, 'Keep her and instruct her to do good. If there is goodness in her, she will do it. And do not strike your wife like a slave or servant.'"
أحمد ١٦٣٨٤:
عن انطلقت —
انْطَلَقْتُ أَنَا وَصَاحِبٌ لِي حَتَّى انْتَهَيْنَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَلَمْ نَجِدْهُ فَأَطْعَمَتْنَا عَائِشَةُ تَمْرًا وَعَصَدَتْ لَنَا عَصِيدَةً إِذْ جَاءَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ يَتَقَلَّعُ فَقَالَ هَلْ أُطْعِمْتُمْ مِنْ شَيْءٍ؟ قُلْنَا نَعَمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَبَيْنَا نَحْنُ كَذَلِكَ رَبَعَ رَاعِي الْغَنَمِ فِي الْمُرَاحِ عَلَى يَدِهِ سَخْلَةٌ قَالَ هَلْ وَلَدَتْ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَاذْبَحْ لَنَا شَاةً ثُمَّ أَقْبِلْ عَلَيْنَا فَقَالَ لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ وَلَمْ يَقُلْ لَا تَحْسَبَنَّ إِنَّا ذَبَحْنَا الشَّاةَ مِنْ أَجْلِكُمَا لَنَا غَنَمٌ مِائَةٌ لَا نُرِيدُ أَنْ تَزِيدَ عَلَيْهَا فَإِذَا وَلَّدَ الرَّاعِي بَهْمَةً أَمَرْنَاهُ بِذَبْحِ شَاةٍ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ أَخْبِرْنِي عَنِ الْوُضُوءِ قَالَ إِذَا تَوَضَّأْتَ فَأَسْبِغْ وَخَلِّلِ الْأَصَابِعَ وَإِذَا اسْتَنْثَرْتَ فَأَبْلِغْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَكُونَ صَائِمًا قَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ لِي امْرَأَةً فَذَكَرَ مِنْ طُولِ لِسَانِهَا وَبَذَائِهَا فَقَالَ طَلِّقْهَا قَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّهَا ذَاتُ صُحْبَةٍ وَوَلَدٍ قَالَ فَأَمْسِكْهَا وَأْمُرْهَا فَإِنْ يَكُ فِيهَا خَيْرٌ فَسَتَفْعَلْ وَلَا تَضْرِبْ ظَعِينَتَكَ ضَرْبَكَ أَمَتَكَ