[Machine] Never has a day come upon me that was more difficult for me than the day when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent me with some of his companions and ordered me regarding them. Among the people was 'Ammaar, and we encountered a group of people, among whom were Muslim families. 'Ammaar spoke to me about them, and some of the Muslims said, "Leave them alone." I said, "No, by Allah, I will not do so until the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sees them and gives his opinion about them." This angered 'Ammaar, and when I reached the Prophet ﷺ , I sought permission to speak to him while 'Ammaar sought permission as well. Permission was granted to him, and 'Ammaar entered and said, "O Messenger of Allah, did you not see what Khalid did and what he did?" I said, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, if it was not for your gathering, Ibn Sumayyah would not have insulted me." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ then said to me, "Did you not answer the man?" I said, "There was nothing preventing me from answering him except that it would have belittled him." This angered the Messenger of Allah ﷺ , and he said, "Whoever hates 'Ammaar, Allah hates him, and whoever insults 'Ammaar, Allah insults him, and whoever belittles 'Ammaar, Allah belittles him." I then left the presence of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and did not stop seeking forgiveness for myself from 'Ammaar.
مَا أَتَى عَلَيَّ يَوْمٌ قَطُّ كَانَ أَعْظَمَ عَلَيَّ مِنْ شَأْنِ عَمَّارٍ لَمَّا كَانَ يَوْمُ بَعَثَنِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي أُنَاسٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِهِ وَأَمَّرَنِي عَلَيْهِمْ وَكَانَ فِي الْقَوْمِ عَمَّارٌ فَأَصَبْنَا قَوْمًا فِيهِمْ أَهْلُ بَيْتٍ مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ فَكَلِّمْنِي فِيهِمْ عَمَّارٌ وَنَاسٌ مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ قَالُوا خَلِّ سَبِيلَهُمْ قُلْتُ لَا وَاللَّهِ لَا أَفْعَلُ حَتَّى يَرَاهُمْ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَيَرَى فِيهِمْ رَأْيَهُ فَغَضِبَ عَلَيَّ عَمَّارٌ فَلَمَّا قَدِمْتُ اسْتَأْذَنْتُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَهُوَ يَسْتَخْبِرُنِي وَأَنَا أُحَدِّثُهُ فَاسْتَأْذَنَ عَمَّارٌ فَأَذِنَ لَهُ فَدَخَلَ عَمَّارٌ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَلَمْ تَرَ خَالِدًا فَعَلَ كَذَا وَفَعَلَ كَذَا فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَمَا وَاللَّهِ لَوْلَا مَجْلِسُكَ مَا سَبَّنِي ابْنُ سُمَيَّةَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «يَا عَمَّارُ اخْرُجْ» فَخَرَجَ عَمَّارٌ وَهُوَ يَبْكِي وَيَقُولُ مَا نَصَرَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى خَالِدٍ فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «أَلَا أَجَبْتَ الرَّجُلَ» قُلْتُ مَا مَنَعَنِي إِنْ أَجَبْتُهُ إِلَّا مَحْقَرَةً لَهُ فَغَضِبَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «إِنَّهُ مَنْ يَبْغَضْ عَمَّارًا يَبْغَضْهُ اللَّهُ وَمَنْ يَسُبَّ عَمَّارًا يَسُبَّهُ اللَّهُ وَمَنْ يُحَقِّرْ عَمَّارًا يُحَقِّرْهُ اللَّهُ» فَخَرَجْتُ مِنْ عِنْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَلَمْ أَزَلْ أَطْلُبُ إِلَى عَمَّارٍ حَتَّى اسْتَغْفَرَ لِي