[Machine] I was among the women who presented one of the daughters of the Prophet ﷺ to her husband. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said to us, "When she performs ghusl, pour water on her head three times." Yahya said, "I asked my partner if it was from janabah. He said, 'Yes.'"  

كُنْتُ فِي النِّسْوَةِ اللَّاتِي أَهْدَيْنَ إِحْدَى بَنَاتِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ إِلَى زَوْجِهَا فَقَالَ لَنَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «إِذَا اغْتَسَلَتْ فَصَبُّوا الْمَاءَ عَلَى رَأْسِهَا ثَلَاثَ صَبَّاتٍ» قَالَ يَحْيَى فَقُلْتُ لِشَرِيكٍ مِنَ الْجَنَابَةِ؟ قَالَ نَعَمْ  

[Machine] And he said to her, "Who is this who was with you?" She said, "I had no one with me, and I did not notice until you pointed it out to me." He said, "May Allah protect your family, and people have been talking about it." Her father said to her, "O my daughter, the people have spoken a lot about you, so tell me your story. If the man is truthful, you have committed a great sin, and if he is lying, I will take him to some of the prophets of Yemen and swear to him what they used to swear by, that he is lying on you." The man said to the fruit seller, "Hey you, you have implicated my daughter in a grave matter. Take me to some of the prophets of Yemen, and Uthbah will go in a group of the sons of Abdi Manaf, and the fruit seller will go in a group of the sons of Makhzum, and Hind will go with them along with some women. When they approach the land, they will say, 'We will return to the priest.'" Hind's appearance changed and her face transformed. So her father said to her, "I can see the change in your appearance, and it is not something you desire. Why did this not happen before the people witnessed our journey?" She said, "No, by Allah, O my father. It is not something I desired, but I know that you bring people who make mistakes and cause harm, and I do not trust that they will not give me a derogatory nickname among the Arabs." He said, "I will test him before I look into your matter." He gave a whistle with his horse until it reached far, then he took a piece of barley and put it in his saddlebag and rode over it. In the morning, he was kind to them and slaughtered for them. When they sat down, Uthbah said to him, "We have come to you regarding a matter, and I have kept something hidden for you to test you. So, see what it is." He said, "A leopard in a box." He said, "I wanted something more clear than this." He said, "A piece of barley in a bridal dowry." He said, "You spoke the truth. Look into the matter of these women." He approached one of them, hit her shoulder, and said, "Get up until he approached Hind and hit her shoulder and said, 'My nation, not an adulteress, nor a fornicator. Give birth to a boy named Mu'awiyah.'" So the fruit seller got up and took her hand, and her hand slipped from his hand. She said to him, "By Allah, I am more eager for this to be done by someone other than you." So Abu Sufyan married her, and she gave birth to Mu'awiyah.  

وَقَالَ لَهَا مَنْ هَذَا الَّذِي كَانَ عِنْدَكِ؟ قَالَتْ مَا كَانَ عِنْدِي أَحَدٌ وَمَا انْتَبَهْتُ حَتَّى أَنْبَهْتَنِي قَالَ الْحَقِي بِأَهْلِكِ وَتَكَلَّمَ فِيهَا النَّاسُ فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُوهَا يَا بُنَيَّةُ إِنَّ النَّاسَ قَدْ أَكْثَرُوا فِيكِ؛ فَنَبِّئِينِي نَبَأَكِ فَإِنْ يَكُنِ الرَّجُلُ عَلَيْكِ صَادِقًا دَسَسْتَ إِلَيْهِ مَنْ يَقْتُلُهُ فتنقطعَ عَنْكِ الْقَالَةُ وَإِنْ كَانَ كَاذِبًا حَاكَمْتَهُ إِلَى بَعْضِ كُهَّانِ الْيَمَنِ فَحَلَفْتُ لَهُ بِمَا كَانُوا يَحْلِفُونَ بِهِ إِنَّهُ لَكَاذِبٌ عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ لِلْفَاكِهِ يَا هَذَا إِنَّكَ قَدْ رَمَيْتَ ابْنَتِي بِأَمْرٍ عَظِيمٍ فَحَاكَمَنِي إِلَى بَعْضِ كُهَّانِ الْيَمَنِ فَخَرَجَ عُتْبَةُ فِي جَمَاعَةٍ مِنْ بَنِي عَبْدِ مَنَافٍ وَخَرَجَ الْفَاكِهُ فِي جَمَاعَةٍ مِنْ بَنِي مَخْزُومٍ وَخَرَجَتْ مَعَهُمْ هِنْدٌ وَنِسْوَةٌ مَعَهَا فَلَمَّا شَارَفُوا الْبِلَادَ وَقَالُوا نَرُدُّ عَلَى الْكَاهِنِ تَنَكَّرَ حَالُ هِنْدَ وَتَغَيَّرَ وَجْهُهَا فَقَالَ لَهَا أَبُوهَا إِنِّي قَدْ أَرَى مَا بِكِ مِنْ تَنَكُّرِ الْحَالِ وَمَا ذَاكَ إِلَّا لِمَكْرُوهٍ عِنْدَكِ أَفَلَا كَانَ هَذَا مِنْ قَبْلِ أَنْ يَشْهَدَ النَّاسُ مَسِيرَنَا؟ فَقَالَتْ لَا وَاللهِ يَا أَبَتَاهُ مَا ذَاكَ لِمَكْرُوهٍ وَلَكِنِّي أَعْرِفُ أَنَّكُمْ تَأْتُونَ بَشَرًا يُخْطِئُ وَيُصِيبُ وَلَا آمَنُ أَنْ يُسْمِيَنِي بِسِمَةٍ تَكُونُ عَلَيَّ سُبَّةً فِي الْعَرَبِ فَقَالَ إِنِّي أَخْتَبِرُهُ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَنْظُرَ فِي أَمْرَكِ فَصَفَّرَ بِفَرَسِهِ حَتَّى أَدْلَى ثُمَّ أَخَذَ حَبَّةً مِنْ بُرٍّ فَأَدْخَلَهَا فِي إِحْلِيلِهِ وَأَوْكَأَ عَلَيْهَا بِسَيْرٍ فَلَمَّا صَبَحُوا أَكْرَمُهُمْ وَنَحَرَ لَهُمْ فَلَمَّا قَعَدُوا قَالَ لَهُ عُتْبَةُ إِنَّا قَدْ جِئْنَاكَ فِي أَمْرٍ وَإِنِّي قَدِ اخْتَبَأْتُ لَكَ خَبَّأً اخْتَبِرُكَ بِهِ فَانْظُرْ مَا هُوَ؟ قَالَ نَمِرَةٌ فِي كمرةٍ قَالَ أُرِيدُ أَبْيَنَ مِنْ هَذَا قَالَ حَبَّةٌ مِنْ بُرٍّ فِي إِحْلِيلِ مَهْرٍ قَالَ صَدَقْتَ انْظُرْ فِي أَمْرِ هَؤُلَاءِ النِّسْوَةِ فَجَعَلَ يَدْنُو مِنْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ فَيَضْرِبُ كَتِفَهَا وَيَقُولُ انْهَضِي حَتَّى دَنَا مِنْ هِنْدَ فَضَرَبَ كَتِفَهَا وَقَالَ قَوْمِي غَيْرَ وَحْشَاءَ وَلَا زَانِيَةً وَلْتَلِدْنَ غُلَامًا يُقَالُ لَهُ مُعَاوِيَةُ فَنَهَضَ لَهَا الْفَاكِهُ فَأَخَذَ بِيَدِهَا فَنَتَرَتْ يَدَهَا مِنْ يَدِهِ وَقَالَتْ إِلَيْكَ فَوَاللهِ لَأَحْرُصَنَّ عَلَى أَنْ يَكُونَ ذَلِكَ مِنْ غَيْرِكَ فَتَزَوَّجَهَا أَبُو سُفْيَانَ فَجَاءَتْ بِمُعَاوِيَةَ  

[Machine] Hind came to the Prophet ﷺ and said: "O Messenger of Allah, I swear by Allah, there were no people on the face of the earth whom I loved more than those from your companions. And today, there are no people on the face of the earth whom I love more than your companions. The Prophet ﷺ said: "By the one in whose hand is my soul, their number will increase." Then she said: "O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man. Is it permissible for me to spend on his family from his wealth without his permission?" The Prophet ﷺ said: "There is no harm if you spend on them according to what is reasonable."  

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ وَمَا عَلَى وَجْهِ الْأَرْضِ الْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ يَعْنِي لَيَزْدَادَنَّ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ أُمْسِكَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ؟ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

[Machine] Hind came to the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was never a people on the face of the earth more hated than the people of your tribe. And today, there is no people on the face of the earth more beloved to me than the people of your tribe. So the Prophet said, 'By the One in whose hand is my soul, he (meaning Hind's husband) will indeed increase.' Then she said, 'O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and I would like to spend on my children from his wealth without his permission. 'The Prophet ﷺ said, 'There is no harm for you to spend on them according to what is reasonable.  

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ وَمَا عَلَى وَجْهِ الْأَرْضِ الْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ يَعْنِي لَيَزْدَادَنَّ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ أُمْسِكَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ؟ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

[Machine] Hind came to the Prophet and said, "O Messenger of Allah, by Allah, there was no one on the face of the earth whom I loved more than your own people. But today, there is no people on earth whom I love more than your own people." The Prophet said, "By the One in whose hand is my soul, this is a sign of true faith." Then she said, "O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man. Is it permissible for me to spend on his family from his wealth without his permission?" The Prophet said, "There is no harm if you spend on them according to what is reasonable."  

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ وَاللهِ مَا كَانَ عَلَى ظَهْرِ الْأَرْضِ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ مِنْ أَنْ يُذِلَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ وَمَا عَلَى وَجْهِ الْأَرْضِ الْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ خِبَاءٍ أَحَبَّ إِلَيَّ أَنْ يُعِزَّهُمُ اللهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ خِبَائِكَ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ وَأَيْضًا وَالَّذِي نَفْسِي بِيَدِهِ قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ يَعْنِي لَيَزْدَادَنَّ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ مُمْسِكٌ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ أُمْسِكَ عَلَى عِيَالِهِ مِنْ مَالِهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنِهِ؟ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «لَا حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

[Machine] Abdullah bin Maslamah Al-Qa'nabi narrated to me that his father, Hisham bin 'Urwah, narrated from his father, from Aisha who said: Hind, the mother of Muawiya, came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: Abu Sufyan is a stingy man and does not give me enough to suffice me and my children, except for what I take from him without his knowledge. Is there any harm for me in that? So the Prophet ﷺ said to her: "Take that which is sufficient for you and your children in a manner that is reasonable."  

ثنا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ الْقَعْنَبِيُّ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ أُمُّ مُعَاوِيَةَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ حَرَجٌ؟ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

[Machine] Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah, came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man and he only gives my children what I take from him, and he does not know about it. Do I have any right in this matter?" The Prophet ﷺ said to her, "Take what is sufficient for you and your children with kindness."  

أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ جَاءَتْ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِي وَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ شَيْءٌ؟ فَقَالَ لَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

'Hind came to the Prophet ﷺ and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man and he does not give me enough for me and my child, except for what I take from his wealth without him realizing.' He said: Take what is sufficient for you and your child, on a reasonable basis.' " (Using translation from Ibn Mājah 2293)  

جَاءَتْ هِنْدٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي مَا يَكْفِينِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَقَالَ «خُذِي لَكِ وَلِوَلَدِكَ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»  

[Machine] That Hind, the mother of Mu'awiya, came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said, "O Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy man, and he only gives me and my children what I take from him, and he does not know about it. Is there anything upon me in this matter?" The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Take what is sufficient for you and your children with kindness."  

أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ جَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَإِنَّهُ لَا يُعْطِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلَّا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لَا يَعْلَمُ فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»