53. Chapter of Nūn (Female)
٥٣۔ بَابُ النُّونِ
[Machine] About Umm Atiyyah's statement regarding "And do not disobey you in what is right", she said: From it, (i.e. from this statement) it was reported from the Prophet ﷺ when we gave him the pledge of allegiance that we will not disobey him in what is right, except for the family of so and so.
عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ فِي قَوْلِهِ {وَلَا يَعْصِينَكَ فِي مَعْرُوفٍ} قَالَتْ مِنْهُ النَّوْحُ قُلْتُ لِلنَّبِيِّ ﷺ حِينَ بَايَعْنَاهُ أَنْ لَا نَعْصِينَهُ فِي مَعْرُوفٍ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ إِلَّا آلَ فُلَانٍ
[Machine] To avoid extra information, the passage translates to:
"That we restrict ourselves to three days for the mourning period, during which we do not apply perfume, wear makeup, or wear any colored clothing except for coarse clothing. She said that he has given them permission to cleanse themselves with purity, justice, and nails when they wash."
أَنْ نُحِدَّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ لَا نَتَطَيَّبُ وَلَا نَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا نَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ قَالَتْ وَقَدْ رَخَّصَ لَهُنَّ حِينَ يَغْتَسِلْنَ فِي الطُّهْرِ فِي الْقُسْطِ وَالْأَظْفَارِ
[Machine] "The deceased wife does not mourn except for her husband, she does not put on henna, perfume, or wear colored clothing except for a garment made of cotton." Hisham narrates from Hafsah, from Umm Atiyyah, from the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ something similar to this.
«الْمُتَوَفَّى عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا لَا تُحِدُّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ إِلَّا عَلَى زَوْجٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَخْتَضِبُ وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ وَلَا تَطَيَّبُ» وَقَالَ هِشَامٌ عَنْ حَفْصَةَ عَنْ أُمِّ عَطِيَّةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ مِثْلَهُ
[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "No one is to mourn a deceased person for more than three days except for a woman, as she is to mourn for her husband for four months and ten days. She is not to wear dyed clothes except for clothes made of coarse wool. She is not to beautify herself or wear perfume except when she reaches the stage of minimal menstrual purity, she can beautify herself with fairness and nails."
قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «لَا يُحَدُّ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ إِلَّا الْمَرْأَةُ فَإِنَّهَا تُحِدُّ عَلَى زَوْجِهَا أَرْبَعَةَ أَشْهُرٍ وَعَشْرًا وَلَا تَلْبَسُ ثَوْبًا مَصْبُوغًا إِلَّا ثَوْبَ عَصْبٍ وَلَا تَكْتَحِلُ وَلَا تَطَيَّبُ إِلَّا عِنْدَ أَدْنَى طُهْرِهَا تَطَيَّبُ بِقُسْطٍ وَأَظْفَارٍ»