"We came to Al-Madinah and the Messenger of Allah was standing on the Minbar addressing the people and saying: 'The hand which gives is the upper hand. Start with those for whom you are responsible; your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then the next closest, and the next closet."'  

قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَائِمٌ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَخْطُبُ النَّاسَ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ يَدُ الْمُعْطِي الْعُلْيَا وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ مُخْتَصَرٌ  

[Machine] On the authority of the Prophet ﷺ , he said, "The upper hand is better than the lower hand. The upper hand is the one that gives to your mother, father, sister, and brother, and then to the closest one and the next closest one." A man asked, "O Messenger of Allah, are these the children of Yarbu killed by so-and-so?" He said, "No, do not let one soul take revenge on another soul."  

عَنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ يَدُ الْمُعْطِي الْعُلْيَا أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ وَقَالَ رَجُلٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ هَؤُلَاءِ بَنُو يَرْبُوعٍ قَتَلَةُ فُلَانٍ؟ قَالَ أَلَا لَا تَجْنِي نَفْسٌ عَلَى أُخْرَى  

"We came to Al-Madinah and the Messenger of Allah was standing on the Minbar addressing the people and saying: 'The hand which gives is the upper hand. Start with those for whom you are responsible; your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then the next closest, and the next closet."' (Using translation from Nasāʾī 2532)   

ثُمَّ قَدِمْتُ الْمَدِينَةَ فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَائِمٌ يَخْطُبُ النَّاسَ وَهُوَ يَقُولُ «يَدُ الْمُعْطِي الْعُلْيَا وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ»  

[Machine] The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The upper hand is better than the lower hand, and start with those who are dependent on you, your mother, father, sister, brother, and closest relative."  

قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «الْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا أَفْضَلُ مِنَ الْيَدِ السُّفْلَى وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ وَأَدْنَاكَ فَأَدْنَاكَ»  

"We came to Al-Madinah and the Messenger of Allah was standing on the Minbar addressing the people and saying: 'The hand which gives is the upper hand. Start with those for whom you are responsible; your mother, your father, your sister, your brother, then the next closest, and the next closet."' (Using translation from Nasāʾī 2532)  

قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَإِذَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قَائِمٌ عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَخْطُبُ النَّاسَ وَيَقُولُ «يَدُ الْمُعْطِي الْعُلْيَا وَابْدَأْ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ أُمَّكَ وَأَبَاكَ وَأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ ثُمَّ أَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ» مُخْتَصَرٌ  

"اليَدُ العُليَا أَفْضَلُ مِنَ اليَدِ السُّفْلَى، وابْدأ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ، أُمَّك وأبَاكَ، وأُخْتَك وأَخاكَ، وَأَدْنَاكَ أَدْنَاكَ".  

"يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ: الْيَدُ الْعُلْيَا خَيْرٌ مِنَ اليَدِ السُّفْلَى، وابْدَأ بِمَنْ تَعُولُ، أُمَّكَ وأَبَاكَ، وأُخْتَكَ وَأَخَاكَ، وأَدْنَاكَ أدْنَاكَ، أَلا لا تَجْنِي أُمٌّ عَلَى وَلَدِهَا".