DARIMI 2246:
from ʿUmar b. al-Khaṭṭāb Yakhṭub Faḥamid Allāh And ʾAthná ʿAlayh Thum —
[Machine] Do not exaggerate in the dowry of women, for if it were honorable in this world or a means of righteousness before Allah, the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, would have been the most truthful in his attachment to his wives. No man has ever believed in a woman more than her own husband, and no woman has ever believed in a man more than her own father, even if she were given in marriage for twelve ounces of gold. And behold, one of you may exaggerate in the dowry of his wife until there remains animosity towards her in his heart, and he might even say, "I spent my dowry on you, whether it was the high status or the low status."
الدارمي ٢٢٤٦:
عن عمر بن الخطاب يخطب فحمد الاه و ءثنى عليه ثم —
أَلَا لَا تُغَالُوا فِي صُدُقِ النِّسَاءِ فَإِنَّهَا لَوْ كَانَتْ مَكْرُمَةً فِي الدُّنْيَا أَوْ تَقْوَى عِنْدَ اللَّهِ كَانَ أَوْلَاكُمْ بِهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ مَا أَصْدَقَ امْرَأَةً مِنْ نِسَائِهِ وَلَا أُصْدِقَتِ امْرَأَةٌ مِنْ بَنَاتِهِ فَوْقَ اثْنَتَيْ عَشْرَةَ أُوقِيَّةً أَلَا وَإِنَّ أَحَدَكُمْ لَيُغَالِي بِصَدَاقِ امْرَأَتِهِ حَتَّى يَبْقَى لَهَا فِي نَفْسِهِ عَدَاوَةٌ حَتَّى يَقُولَ «كَلِفْتُ لْكِ عَلَقَ الْقِرْبَةِ أَوْ عَرَقَ الْقِرْبَةِ»
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